What does it mean when you cry during sex?

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 1 year and 7 months.. During the time of us being together he's hurt/disappointed me certain times.. last week we've gotten into a huge argument.. and long story short he realized what i mean to him.. he finally realized i bend over backwards for him, something that no one has ever done for him and he's starting to appreciate me more. I honestly just love seeing him happy. I love him but he never told me he loved me yet... so yesterday we had sex and i started to cry a little... what does this mean? i felt so weird but he held on to me to comfort me and stuff and asked if i was ok..
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It was like i felt all of these emotions all at once
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It means that deep down you are still a innocent insecure little girl, you are incapable to concealing your emotions from this cruel world, and there is nothing wrong with that, is is how you are and that is how a women should be, that is how every person is, like an empty page until every step writes downs new experiences on it..
    You need a very special type of guy!
    A guy will always screw up - but he should be capable of apologizing and fixing it up.
    A guy will always not be around you - but you need to feel his presence and every now and then.
    A guy with whom when you get you in fight with and say him to 'Pick your things and leave the house' - he picks you and leaves the house.

    I hope you find him soon, cause like is going to scratch a and scribble you

    • thanks for MHO Last line replacement 👉 I hope you find him soon, Because life is going to scratch and scribble on the page of your life..

    • this is beautiful thank you <3

    • Wishing you the best dear innocent 💗

  • Sometimes your true emotions get the best of you even though you don't try to let them out. It may have been building up inside of you and it finally got out at that moment. This might an accumulation of all the stress you've built up from how you think he has been treating you, the he hasn't professed his love for you, and more.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have cried during sex. For me it was awkward, because the guy I was with was a friend with benefits. Ig the emotions I felt surfaced... i tend to hide them sometimes. I remember the feeling. I felt loved, and cared for at the moment it happened. He just said awww I'm making you cry in a soft, sweet tone, and kissed me, and held onto me. I felt embarrassed, because I was vulnerable. We were fwbs for a year. We were good together, and we still talk to this day. Don't let anyone tell you it's weird. There is nothing odd about it. Great toe curling sex, and loving someone can do that to you.

  • It means you really do love him. All the stress was being relieved and the comfort you felt from his love in return was releasing all the tension from wherever it has built up in your life. I LOVE it when sex does this. Embrace it, let the tears flow, and let him do what a good lover is supposed to do. Kiss your tears away💕

  • It sounds like you had a breakthrough in your relationship, and that probably left you feeling a little emotional. It's natural for sex to bring out emotions.

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  • Intense emotions come out during the intimacy of sex with someone you love. You need to really think about what you were feeling and communicate those things to your boy. You don't want it to fester. Don't pressure him to tell you he loves you though. It needs to be on his terms, but you should let him know how you're feeling.

  • Sounds like anal sex

    • no gross lol

    • Lawls

  • I tear up a bit when I orgasm but never this...
    I wanna feel this😞
    by the way you explained it in your update :p
    You felt overwhelmed and fulfilled emotionally and physically

  • During sex your deepest emotions tend to surface hard. You probably have a lot of pent up tears.

  • It means you are a girl.
    Girls get emotional during sex because of Oxytocin being released in the brain.

  • get out of the relationship and into therapy

    • ... what