Do older men fantasize about younger women?

Do you think a 40 something male would fantasize about a 21 year old? Or would the age difference be off putting?
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  • Probably.
    There was a study done when men increased in age their preferences stayed about the same when it came to age. Usually not exceeding 30.
    As women got older the age bracket increased.
    Ex: 40-45 year old women found 35-40 year old men most attractive
    while 40-45 year old men found 23-28 year old women the most attractive.

    • Thank you for mho

  • I probably depends greatly on the guy. For some, it would be off putting. For others, younger women might be a turn on.

  • Of course a 40 year old guy would fantasize about a 21 year old girl!

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  • Thinking someone is hot is different from entertaining having a relationship with them which is in turn different from "would you smash?" 21 is probably a little young to seriously date at my age, but for just looking, I'm pretty sure a hot 21 year old girl will always be a hot 21 year old girl whether I'm 9 or 90, haha.

  • Of course but why fantasize, there are girls that get with guys my age, already happened to me , sex is great but just not on the same level with other things no matter how mature they are, different life experiences mostly

    • Right. I was just wondering if this guy I want might be interested too. But he's in his late 40's and I didn't know if he would think about having sex with me because if the age difference.

    • Oh he won't care about that but it just won't became serious since it's usually just sex that would be the only common factor. Relationships with that age gap when your that age don't usually work

    • Oh that's fine. I'm really only looking for a one night stand.

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  • I sure do fantasize about them!

  • No that's why no man 40+ have ever dated a younger woman... wait, I've just been told that's not true and everyone knows it

  • All the time... depending how old they are. A guy never growers up when it comes to horniness. I know 65yrs old that still act/think like they are 17.

    • As for your question... It depends on how she acts and if the guy is a perv. If she acts and looks like she's 16 than he is most likely a pedophile in waiting. I know a few 40+ that I want to hit because of their vulgar/stupid comments.

  • I dated a 24 year old when I was 48, so...

  • I am an older man, 46, and I would see a 21 year old as possible dating material (pretty much anything under that I still see as a child), but my usual rule is at my age 10 years either direction.

  • Let's be realistic! That never happens.

  • I'm 30something and I find the age difference with a 21 year old off putting.

    • Just curious as to why?

    • Mental maturity. I mean, sure, there's the tight skin and firmer bodies, but you can't really have a conversation with them before/after sex.

  • lol even much older ones do XD guys are creeps.

  • Hell yeah!

  • Sure we do... it's fantasising. It doesn't necessarily mean that it would be achievable most of the time, otherwise it would be known by a different term...'goal-setting', maybe ;-)

  • Yeah, guys find 18-22 the most attractive ages for girls. Look up the studies that have been done online. Women tend to prefer guys their own age, but men like young women. There's a reason why you never see many women over 25 when you look up porn.

  • All men fantasize about young women. I know a 18 year old who fantasized about a 21 year old, so we also do that with older women. :D

  • Uhhhh, yeah. They just don't talk about it cause some people think it's creepy.

  • Sure they would

  • No, not me.

  • yes we do. in fact I tend to fantasize about anything within legal barrier and in SA that would be from 18 upward. not limited to the young girls though as I fantasize to age around 47. as long as they are sexy :-)

  • of course they will!

  • I'm sure pretty much everybody likes the look of youthfulness.

  • stampede already started.

  • Not sure. But I fantasize about older women.

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