Is pussy power real or is just a social construction?

[Anonymous]

Is pussy power real or is just a social construction that is just made up and doesn't apply to real life situationes?

[Transigence]

Pussy power is very real. There is a tendency not to hold women to account when it comes to bad behavior, and so they get a "pass" a lot. It also is used pretty much by every woman in some way to elevate the value of her sex over men's value, so that men have to "pay" in some way (either by straight up cash or by competing with other males, or showing her special favor), in a way that men do not command over women.

You can see evidence of this everywhere. Men pay out the nose monetarily to compete with other men for women, and women get to be the beneficiary of much of this. Women do not chase men at all -- they do not have to. Men will chase women, and pay them for the POSSIBILITY of having sex (or relationship or kids or whatever).

It all comes from the fact that women's sexual urge is way lower than men's. This creates unequal demand for sex, which women leverage to "sell" in some way.

Part of it also comes from women being more "neotenous." That means they look more like children and men and women both are driven instinctively to protect children.

Another part comes from the fact that women have been lying about this power and raising their sons to elevate women above them -- a multigenerational mind-fuck that's been going on since before history.

That power is fading these days, since the advent of the internet and men's ability to communicate amongst ourselves, but it will always be there to some degree.

Here's the thing: Men, and ugly women generally have better character than pretty women. Getting and using "the pass" all the time gets you out of punishment for bad behavior that you would normally correct. Beautiful women who lean on "the pass" are invariably nasty, mean-spirited, entitled, snooty bitches. They don't have to change. Men will come for them anyway. Their curse is that those men also leave and they will be shitty people unable to form meaningful relationships.

So the short answer is this:
Yes, but don't use it. If you leverage it, you're a whore. And if you slide on the pass, you'll end up being a shitty person. If you want a meaningful relationship, don't think with your pussy. Use your brain, and don't use your sexual advantage to manipulate him. The moment you do, you will have forever separated yourself from him, from within yourself, and he will forever be in some way the target of what is essentially a form of hostility, and whatever blossoms will be poisoned by that.

[Rawrzz]

Women have a certain power over men by using their sexuality. It's true. I don't know exactly what you mean by "pussy power", but there is definitely a sort of sensual female power there. Pheromones maybe? It's real, but not every woman has it. It's all a measure of how valuable the woman is and how valuable the man is. If the man can get pussy any day of the week, or the girl is pretty undesirable, then he has power. If a woman is even average attractiveness, there is a power there. If the man can get pussy any day of the week, but can't get a specific desirable pussy, then that desirable woman has the power.

Really. The absolute best thing to explain it is the Basic Instinct movie, the Detective Interview Scene. Look it up on youtube. That's pussy power. Her energy fills the room as a sort of sensual aura: a force which permeates the men's defenses. She's in a jail, being interrogated. But she has all the power. That is an example of a woman who knows how to use that power. That power exists to some extent in most women, definitely attractive women at least; however, there is a learning curve. The men in the interrogation room don't just instantly bend their knees and start begging her. But they are affected. And the same thing extends to just being a somewhat attractive female. There is definitely power there.

I think it might be pheromones + behavior. And I think men are much more susceptible to this than women.

Male power is overt and in your face. Female power is subtle, but nonetheless as powerful. If not more.

[kaylaS91]

It's real as much a guy will be sexually attracted to a woman sexually. I've honestly never experienced or been made aware of a girl actually manipulating a guy with her sexuality with ill intentions.

I think a lot of guys will whine and moan about women and their 'pussy power' as being evil when a girl simply does not feel sexually attracted to him. That she may have standards which she sticks strongly to as to who she'll want to sleep with and, out of bitterness, the guy blames her being snooty with her 'pussy power' versus simply uninterested.

[Anonymous]

We're very powerful. You will worship us. Your hard cocks are our play toys. Your hard tongues will whip our clits into orgasmic frenzy. When I count to three...

[nalaa]

Well, men infamously have fought wars over women, so ya I'd say it's real

[ManOnFire]

@nalaa What wars have been fought over women? I've studied a lot of historical conflicts and never heard about any relating to them being in the name of women.

[nalaa]

@ManOnFire well basically the whole catholic, protestant thing in the Uk came along because King Henry wanted to marry Anne Boleyn. Then there is the trojan war (it's not just a story). Cleopatra I think is often blamed for tearing apart an empire and yoko ono broke up the beatles Maybe I should have said conflicts rather than war

[nalaa]

also ever heard of the Male Warrior hypothesis? I think it's a good formal summary of what most people intuitively understand about war or conflicts

[ManOnFire]

@nalaa But the Catholic-Protestant thing didn't come about because King Henry wanted it to. And these conflicts aren't a lot different from a female form. Women have been hating and competing with each other for years over a guy they want, and if the majority of our world leaders were women I'm pretty sure they're reasons for conflict with each other wouldn't be a lot different. Right now as a society we focus more on male behavior regarding women and sex, and pretty much just tune out the rest vice versa. When we shouldn't.

[nalaa]

@ManOnFire sure he didn't want to cause war over Anne Bolyen, but ultimately he did. And if you think about it, making up a new church and forcing it on the people is not a very reasonable decision " And these conflicts aren't a lot different from a female form" ya so what? We're not talking about women because women aren't most of the worlds leaders and never have been. It's men who are and it's men who go to war over resources and includes women And I disagree about women would go to war for much the same reasons. Sure women get jealous as well but I'm sure more men commit crimes of passion than women. And ultimately what women want in a mate is different from what men want. Women more often than not want someone who can take care of them, something that's not necessary when you're ruling a country. The few queen regents we've had in history stayed fairly clear of marriage during their reign. Well at least in comparison to their male counterparts who

[nalaa]

fucked everything in sight. Women get jealous of men sharing their resources with other women, again something that becomes irrelevant when you have all the wealth in the country. Men get jealous over sex, over the idea that their wife could desire someone else or that someone else would want their wife

[ManOnFire]

@nalaa Are you really that dense? Women have even killed other women over a man! There was a female astronaut who did this some years back! Women will even do what their man says even if it's criminal because she wants him and doesn't want any other woman in the picture. Women AREN'T most of the world's leaders, but if they were we WOULD see the same things. Crime passionelle actually IS committed by more women! LOL! You think women really care about being taken care of so much as what status they can get from being with a man? If a woman's image is threatened by another woman or in some other way, she will definitely fight it, even if it results in violence. Have you even done your history on THAT? Susan Smith killed her kids in the name of a man. Tanya Harding sliced up Nancy Kerrigan in the name of a man. Hillary Clinton stood by philandering Bill in the name of her status and image. Women will do just as much out of jealousy or selfishness as a man, and they ESPECIALLY

[ManOnFire]

hate the idea of not being desired by their man. Probably more than vice versa.

[nalaa]

@ManOnFire I have given up talking to people who jump to insults first time someone disagrees with them. So this gonna be my last reply here

For the record, 35% of women murdered are killed by their lover, vs. only 5% of men. Men also commit more murders overall. Men have been shown to be more likely to be "morbidly jealous "
And this study found that where women do kill their partners they don't kill out of jealous but to avenge past abuse

https://anj.sagepub.com/content/24/1/15.abstract

So I don't know where you got the idea from that men commit less crimes of passion. Pointing out individual cases is not proving your point, not sure why you would even bring it up?

Though I supposed it proves one thing when a woman kills out of passion it's memorable because it's rare. For men you hear it on the news every other week.

"hate the idea of not being desired by their man" yes which is different than hating the idea that someone else wants your man or that he desires someone else

[ManOnFire]

@nalaa And I'm gonna respond anyway, whether you reply or not. I did look those stats up for the record, and they do show men as the predominant perpetrators in crimes of passion. However, they don't say the same thing vice versa is impossible. The difference is that men feel more empowerment to commit those crimes. Recent studies have shown that empowerment tends to be the root for incentive to commit crime. In nations where people have more freedoms - and maybe even bigger egos - crime is higher. So in my country the rates of women who commit violent crime are probably higher than women in yours, and in many other nations. You used a long dead king for a basis of your argument, and while I used a few cases of women who killed out of passion, mine have to do with the here and now. It's a common tendency for people who study studies to use far-removed historical accounts as an example for what is done on a more common, everyday reality, when the two can be very different.

[ManOnFire]

""hate the idea of not being desired by their man" yes which is different than hating the idea that someone else wants your man or that he desires someone else" - This actually is not saying anything different from what I initially said.

[AUserToBeNamedLater]

It's real to those men whose behavior is motivated solely by his desire to get a woman to sleep with him.

[Berethor]

It's mostly true for pussy whipped guys, but not so much for manly and dominant guys.

[NJ_Casanova]

It's really... It makes men dumb and gets girls spoiled.

[Your_secret_nerd]

It's not real.

[ManOnFire]

It only applies if a guy lets it, and only depending on who the woman is. In other words it's based on who he's attracted to. If pussy power was actually real and all-encompassing then all men should be bending to the will of all women despite them being ugly or attractive, flat-chested, curvy, etc.

There's also a 'penis power' over women too, but it's not something society talks about or wants to believe, and women certainly would never confess it.

[TadCurious]

It's definitely real. The power of pussy will drive men to do all kinds of things (some crazy) to satisfy their primal urges. lol

[CoolSky01]

it just means you can get men to do things for you if you promise them sex, which does work sometimes but if its too much to ask then no

[TonyRyan]

Is that like fire power in Mario?

[Asker]

Yes!!!

[TonyRyan]

How does one obtain such an ability? Lol

[RedThread]

I don't even know what that is so I'm guessing it's a social construct.

[LionlyRose]

A lot of conflicts through history have been started because some woman was involved. Cleopatra is a great example of this "pussy power".

And for the believers I'd say mankind was condemned because Eve tempted Adam to eat her little apple and so he did.

[AbraCadaverus]

So you know in Star Wars when a Jedi waives his hand and says something as "mind control"? Well, it only worked on the weak-minded. Same with "pussy power". Only works on weak guys. However, even the strongest of us can turn into stammering morons for the right girl. Every guy has a Kryptonite. There is no 100%, blanket-coverage "pussy power", though. Good question, by the way.

[sicosico]

Sex power, not pussy power

[OGarD]

Pussy holds some sort of power over some men. Guys who can get whenever from whoever aren't as susceptible to it though

[RandomPerson1324]

Stupid guys will put it on a pedestal...

[MichaelJoseph89]

I don't know that is.

[Anonymous]

If she is attractive, then it is very real. I even know lots of women that get away with not ever having to do their jobs, because they can get other men to cover for them. I have known several women that would just sit around and talk all day, as the rest of the crew was very short handed. I have even been threatened by male bosses for refusing to do the woman's job before. It is to the point I hate working with younger women.

Fortunately female bosses don't normally let females get away with that sort of thing. Also once the woman starts to lose her looks, she finally starts getting treated like a guy at work, and then guys are no longer expected to do her job.

[Anonymous]

90% of the time when it is split between the guys and the girls the girls will win because the guy's don't want to be jerks and go all out.

[Anonymous]

Power To The Pussy Happens Because Both Men And Women Let It Happen.
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Women Use Their Pussy For Power Within A Relationship Because They Can, Men Let The Pussy Have The Power Because They Are Afraid They Will Lose The Pussy If They Don't.

[Anonymous]

its real sadly.

[Anonymous]

Like someone else said there have been wars and it happens across many mammal species. Males have to fight to prove themselves worthy to mate. A lioness has never chosen the lion that loses a fight.