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Is my asshole to tight?

One time me and my ex were doing it and he went to do anal and he couldn't fit. Is there something wrong with me
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  • Your asshole is an "out" hole. Despite what porn may make you believe, it is NOT meant to have things put suddenly put IN it.

    Anal sex CAN be a fun, sexy, and pleasurable experience but you want to be safe in order for you two to have fun with it. Clean yourself. Lube yourself. Relax during the experience and communicate with your partner. Him wearing a condom is good too.

    If you do NO preparation, he's going to get poop on his dick, you're going to bleed somewhere embarrassing (the tissue inside your butt is VERY delicate and can tear easily if too much pressure is applied to it the wrong way) and all of this will put you both at great risk of STDs, other infections, or just a very unsettling and unsexy experience.

    There's no such thing as an asshole being "too tight" because the flesh around your butthole is elastic like around your vagina and your mouth, it all stretches to accommodate different sized objects and it can't get "stretched too much" because it always goes back to the same "tightness".

    Just be safe and prepare yourself before you try something like anal sex... for both of your sakes.

  • No. He just doesn't know what he's doing.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Your anus isn't a sex organ. The reason for it is to get rid of toxins in our body. if it wasn't "too tight " or tight enough we'd poo coming out at all times.

  • What if I told you your anus isn't for sex, that it's suppose to be tight, and is to only be used for shitting, sharting, and farting?

  • This is something to be discussing with your doctor not us considering the primary function of the anus is to poop.

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  • Umm, it's supposed to be tight. After all it was designed for exit only. You and he will have to take time in relaxing your muscles for him to enter and you to not feel pain.

  • Hahaha, the guy obviously doesn't know how to do this. You can't just jam it in there. There is preparation involved. And it's not preparation H...

  • Did he not use lube?
    Did he not warm you up with a finger or something?

  • No nothing wrong with you... Some guys are too thick/girl too tight. It usually comes down to how relaxed you are... start small and work up to something thicker.

    • I never get the OK to do that.

  • You just weren't relaxed enough. He probably hadn't done enough preparation to get your anus ready to let him inside.

  • No, you're just not relaxed.

    The human body is made to push things out of there, if you don't relax your instinct to push out will take over, making it tight for the guy.
    If you relax then it should go in easily.

  • You're supposed to relax. If he can't get it in, you're not relaxed or don't use enough lube.

  • Fascinating question. Assholes are supposed to be tight. There's nothing wrong with you.

  • He probably needs to wet his penis first and you need to wet and cleaee your butt real good.

  • Well he needs to comfort you to a level where you're relaxed. Once you're relaxed, he will have to finger your ass using lube. Try to stay calm.
    Gradually enter 3 fingers and then you're good to go. Relaxation is really important.

  • You dont just shove a dick in there. You get it ready. Lubrication, start with a finger, then two, it will loosen. to accommodate. Tell you boyfriend to do some research on how to do anal properly.

  • you probably didn't prepare properly

  • No, it is just used to solid objects from the other direction.

  • He needs to lube his finger and finger there for a whole to let your body get used to it. Then maybe move up to two fingers.. after a bit, you should be good to go. Just be slow and gentle, and use enough lube.

  • I find it unlikely you are to small. You have probably passed... "stuff" bigger than him. Most likely The problem was he didn't do any anal play to warm you up so too speak. Or maybe you couldn't relax your spinctor mussles enough. Try a glass of wine next time to help you relax, make sure you are clean (enema) before you begin to ease any worries you may have. Good luck!

  • I would LOVE to find out ;)

  • You just need warming up lubing and stretching

  • nothing wrong with you, you just need lube and to practice before you just go for it

  • no, just needs to be loosened, as tempting as it is, can't just jam it in there.

    • and too the people babbling on about how ''unnatural'' anal use, guess what, so is oral.

    • is, not use... rough night.

  • No, if you haven't had anal sex before, its normal.

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