How to give the best head ever?

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I really want to blow my man away. I need a detailed description of how to start before giving him head (like foreplay) and then tips of how to give him the best bj ever.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

When it comes to giving a blowjob 'correctly' and him finding it super hot, enthusiasm trumps all. Whatever you're doing, looking like you're enjoying yourself will make it feel a million times better. So just look like you're really into it, ideally actually be into it, and you're halfway there! The mental aspect of knowing the girl has your dick in her mouth and is not only genuinely enjoying herself, but wants to do what she can to let you enjoy it, will make ANY guy feel like a king way more than any porn-star quality techniques.

Focus mostly on the head. The shaft itself doesn't have that many nerves on it so though paying attention to the area as a whole feels good plus builds anticipation, make sure to flick/lick around the head when you're coming up. It's a good way to maximize surface area being touched to just put the outer fourth in your mouth, swirl your tongue around it and the head, while paying attention to the shaft/balls with your hands. Two birds with one stone!

Most guys like some ball play. Start gently, with just barely making contact with your hands to feel out this particular guy's sensitivity to pain down there. Once you've got that taken care of, it feels good to suck on one ball at a time, though again not too hard as it's quite a delicate area. Most say to minimize hand use during a blowjob, as they can give themselves a handjob the best. But as long as you make sure to incorporate some mouth action, I'm sure you'll hear no complaints.

My guy loves it when I get the whole shaft nicely lubricated with some spit at first before paying attention to just the head & last 1/3 of the dick. Don't forget to include lots of tongue action here, like swirling, etc.. While you're doing that, right under your mouth, work the shaft with your hand. Moving up and down in tandem, or doing twisting motions works well. Another variation on that is to work the last 1/3 with you hand, doing a twisting/stroking motion with extra stimulation on the head with your palm when you move your hand outwards and at the same time, pay attention to his balls with your mouth.

As for how to start it? Take your time. Don't rush into things, nor through the actual blowjob. The more you make him want it and give him a slow though steady buildup, the longer he'll enjoy the pleasure for in addition to likely having a stronger orgasm.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't have detailed steps really but what I do know is that you want to be massaging his balls with one hand while your mouth or other hand is working his dick. And it's fine to alternate between mouth and hand on his dick, I often do.

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

Maintain a good rhythm on his fully wet dick. (lots of saliva). I used to change up the pace until my guy held my head to control it. Now I just know. Oh, and go deep with a few of the thrusts.

thorthorley · Accepted Answer

For guys they dont need a lot of foreplay. Basicly they want you to get them hard and then suck on it straight away. Most guys anyway.

You can start slow but a big mistake a lot of girls make is they go too slow. Go a bit faster for him. Emphasise your stroke and blow out those lips. You can see how they do it in porn where they like tilt the head slightly and suck and go down deep. It makes it look like you he has a massive cock just because she emphasised it with how her head moved up and down it. Guys want that feeling that their cock is huge so tell him he has one (even if he doesnt).

Also stare up at him occasionally. Good eye contact during a bj is a huge turn on. Guys want to see your pretty face and eyes while you suck him. Use hands as well. Dont just use your mouth. You can jerk him at the same time or play with his balls or rub on his perineum. Actually if you really want to stimulate him do this. You suck him and jerk him and also rub his perineum all at the same time with a good pace. He will explode really quick if you do that. But thats only when he is really turned on and you have been doing it for awhile.

Also mix up the movements. Dont just go up and down the whole time. Its boring and if you see porn they mix it up by sucking the tip or deep throating then just slapping it on their face, or using only mouth then jerking. Mix it up and make it interesting.

Last point ill make it to have fun with it. The biggest turn off of all is if the girl doesn't look like she is enjoying it. So smile at him occasionally and let him know that you love his cock. Hope this helps you out.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

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SleepyChan · Answer

Guys love it when you lick the tip. Make eye contact and kiss it. Maybe suck and fondle his balls. If you're not too good at deep throating, there's a spray you can buy called "Comfortablely Numb" at sex shops that helps.

Dubhlann · Answer

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GiftShop · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

Don't use your teeth, spitting is kinda gross, stay down there for a while? Swallow! Deepthroat a lot, to brink of gagging, do it

Anonymous · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

Just don't bite the tip off...

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