So why to stay:
He used to be a great guy and everything you wanted
You went through rough times together
You love him
Why to break up:
He cheated not only once, but twice
You haven't been together for that long and he has already cheated
He gave you an STD
You don't trust him anymore
You feel disgusted of him
He gives you a lot of stress
Instead of supporting you in a time you work on yourself, he cheats on you
So I guess the choice is pretty clear.1 0 0 0Definitely agree for those very reasons.
I say go. If he truly wanted to be with you, he would stop cheating. Cheating once is forgiveable, but twice seems to be more of a pattern. Plus some random girl popped up pregnant and he gave you and STI. Sounds to me like he doesn't have any respect for you. If he cared, he would have cared enough to use protection and not expose you to unhealthy situations.
0 0 0 0i say go~ he clearly has no regard for your health or well-being, and he can't be trusted. get as far away as you can from this guy, and don't look back.
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you say he has done a lot of growing up in the past year. and yet in the past year he has cheated on you twice, gotten girls pregnant and given you and STD... so what was he 6 when you met him and now he's about 12? that's a joke...
you're trying to rationalize reasons to be with a person. if you get to a point in a relationship where you have to spend time rationalizing reasons to stay with them then you probably just need to move on1 0 0 0I didn't read your whole explanation firstly but I didn't need to. If he cheated you can't trust him. It's that simple. The fact that he gave you an STD on top of that is even worse. Doesn't care enough about you to get himself checked or use protection.
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4 11This seems like a case where your emotional attachment to this guy is blinding you. You say he is great, but he doesn't seem great at all. As a matter of fact, he seems just the opposite. Wake up, this guy is bad news. Dump his ass already.
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It's ridiculous you think it's fine to stay... The thought in itself is ridiculous.
0 0 0 0Get in contact with a lawyer and sue that faggot.
0 0 0 0Did he explain why he cheated on you? If he can't, he probably doesn't know why you two are together in the first place. Don't stick around with this guy, he doesn't care.
0 0 0 0Girl you just been with him for a year, that not enough to keep me staying if he did this to me.
0 0 0 0once a cheater, always a cheater
1 0 0 0Next time it'll be AIDS.
0 0 0 0Leave that guy! Run for the hills and never look back!! 😂
0 0 0 0I voted stay by accident...
0 0 0 0This is a no brainer. GET THE FUCK OUT OF THERE.
0 0 0 0There really isn't anything below the surface, no matter what you tell yourself. Nothing about this sounds healthy. Cut your losses and find someone who respects you.
0 0 0 0now i want you to think about this one for a second... it isn't hard at all
0 0 0 0Get away from him he thinks too much with his dick. The fact he has an std means he had sex with someone easy which probly makes him easy as well if you get my logic. Find a man with self control/ respect
0 0 0 0We talking ghonorrhea/chlamydia/HPV/crabs or more in the category of herpes/HIV/ Syphilis/Hepatitis?
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Leave now before he gives you something you can't get rid of.
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