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Girls, is a small penis a turn off to you?

I feel like a horrible person because it is for me. My 2 most recent exes (2+ years both) had big penises and I guess I just got used to it. One was 8.1 inch and other one 8.3. And no, I'm not joking. I guess I was lucky lol. Anyways, I really liked their penises, both visually and as a better pleasure. I didn't really mind when I was younger, but then again I never had an orgasm from a penetration before them. I really prefer a bigger penis but I guess avarage can work as well. As long as it's not really small. My dildo is 8.3 inches and I love it. When I watch porn, I always pick the one where guy has a big dick, or else I wouldn't enjoy a porn. It doesn't have to be fat, but the longer the better. Otherwise, I just won't feel the full pleasure. I had sex with one guy few months ago and he was like 6 inches and I just couldn't orgasm. I didn't even enjoy it that much. Then I met another guy a week ago and his penis is even smaller! And I just didn't want to have sex. I didn't told him why. This is so annoying! Guys don't have a problem with this, any vagina is good, but we girls never know what we gonna get, can't really ask a guy about his penis size the moment I meet him. I mean I dunno, everyone has their preferences, I just have this one. Only that. I'm not picky at anything else physically. How about you?
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  • If that's how you are, that's how you are. It's going to be a huge pain in the ass for you (perhaps literally if that's how your partner's preferences swing har har... nm). Because you don't just dislike small penises, you dislike average ones. Something like 1 in 50 men is 8 inches. Even if your desired line is more like 7 inches, you're probably looking for 10% of men, or less. If you really need 8 inches, you pretty much can't just hope, you're likely going to have to actively seek out large penis men to have sex OR relationships with.

    "Any vagina is good", there's a range in vaginal size/tightness as well. Most men are perfectly happy with most (and most women are perfectly happy with most penises as well). But some men, like you, care a lot about their partner's size. In theory women can often make themselves tighter through exercise, in practice not that many do. Guys who really like tightness are more likely to find a girl who is fine with lots of anal then keep looking for a super snug vagina.

    Anyway, you might want to consider that the way you use porn (choosing big, focusing on big, giving your brain a dopamine flush from doing so) is conditioning and reinforcing this preference.

  • Sex for women is pretty mental since some how you were lucky that you had boyfriends with big dicks so mentally when you see a dick smaller then them you won't get as turned on so ot won't feel as great and also maybe the guy with the 6 inch dick isn't that good at having sex lol

    • Yeah I think you are right, I'm just no used to smaller then 8. With first ex I was for 3 years and with second for 4 years, that's 7 years in total of being banged by a big ones. I also think my G spot is like somewhere really deep lol. It's weird I know, and I would love if this wasn't an issue for me, but it is. :(

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't have a large vag inside but still able to birth of course.
    The large ones actually hurt me, especially deep and I found the owners incapable of giving anyone an orgasm other than themselves. No talent, even.
    I found a perfect fit + he does everything else to make me cum besides just being the right size.

    That said, if I was in a pickle like you, I would adopt my friend's solution = 1st date she gives a HJ and finds out everything she needs to qualify her date as a potential candidate thereafter

  • I guess you could try doing kegels until your tunnel of love is like a straw? Guys with low self-esteem usually have the smaller ones or can't get it up and have the spongy ghost boner going, if that helps?

  • I think abnormal smallness would be a turn off.
    And being too big would just be scary.

    • Abnormal smallness is relative to country…in the U. S. abnormal smallness would be like 2.5 in and below…

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  • You have a Grand Canyon pussy haha.

    I'm glad I don't have this problem. Do kegels to tighten yourself back up to be able to be pleased by humans and not horses.

  • How on earth do you measure a guy's penis so accurately? .. I mean 8.1" & 8.3"!

    • We don't use inches in my country so I measured it with centimeters and converted it in inches on google. Lol.

    • She must have a ruler in her bedroom

    • @Dantheman101 Lol no. I mean I was with them in a long term relationship, of course I would know my boyfriend's size accurately. We measured it together. :D

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  • Black guys usually have bigger penis. Just curious what ethnicity are you? If your not black, then maybe u can go black.

  • It is probably shallow of me but yes. Smaller than 5" and it wasn't enough.

    • Yeah I also feel shallow but I can't change what turns me on. :/

    • It's not shallow at all. C'mon stop torturing urself. Go and enjoy life.

    • You may be a size queen then.

  • At least you know what works for you. Need to go to an endowed dating web site.

  • I've only got about 7.3 inches, but even so, I've found a few girls who thought it was too large. That is until I got it in and worked it around. I've poked a few cervixes with it and if I had 8 inches or more, I'd have poked a lot more cervixes. Still, if you love an eight incher, you love it, and that's that.

  • We all are very adaptable. Seems like you've loosened 'her' up so much and have reinforced the sensation of big that now anything smaller feels too small. When in fact its not. Its almost like eating too much sugar or salt. Eventually the right amount tastes bitter or bland.

    At the end of the day, as much as you may think you won because you got some 8 inch cock, you potentially could miss out on an amazing guy, life long love potential. I suggest if you are truly serious adapt to what ever size he has and love the relationship. Your focus is misdirected

  • Their things were 8.1 and 8.3 inches? What the fuck? You measure how big a guy's dick is before sex or something?

  • They only way to really know is to ask.

    Going for a taller guy won't guarantee you a bigger penis either. Penis sizes in men are spread evenly across different body types and body heights.

  • I think it's just the way you are. Just like there are men that like big/small boobs/ass, women have different penis size preferences. Since you like guys with approximately 8 inches, you will have a bit of trouble finding then because there are not many man out there carrying this much. Like one of the girls said, give the guy a HJ or a BJ on the first date to see if he is packing enough for you.

    I had a similar experience a while back. I have a friend that her boyfriend was well hung, 8.1 inches (21 cm, I converted as well), and they dated for 5 years. After they broke up we had sex and had the same problem. I'm average and although we did a lot of foreplay, she just couldn't cum during penetration. We are really close friends, so there's no hard feelings, she just prefers bigger penis.

  • Is it common for you to have a tape measure handy to know such exact measurements? Seems like a troll thread to me

    • I converted it from centimeters, like good old buddy google said. We don't use inches in my country. It's 21cm and 22cm. And why is so weird that I measured my boyfriends penis? Like you never measured yours? Of course I would want to know the exact size of my boyfriends penis. "A tape measure handy" lol you are really funny. I wrote he was AROUND 6 inches, I didn't measure it I just have a good eye for accuracy, so I can tell. Is that a bad thing?

    • its very common for a guy to measure his dick. But I have never had a girl measure mine. I'm pretty sure you know your bust size.. do you get measured by your new boyfriend as well? lol

  • 6 inches isn't small it's above average

  • Only a fraction of men have a 8+ inch penis so it's going to be difficult for you to find guys to hookup with if that's what you need to satisfy you

  • You are welcome to have your own preference. 8 inches is fcking huge though man. That is really rare. I'm 7 inches and girls tell me I'm big lol. Average is like 5.8-6 inches I think.

  • Wow wtf... I never thought I'd hear a girl say 6 inches is small. And no not any vagina is a turn on, if it looks all loose and wobbly that is a major turn off to me.

  • Dude 6 inches is like average. I mean, I'm like 7 or so inches (who actually measures that shit?), but 8+ inches is pretty rare. For white guys anyway.

  • Considering 6 inches is already above average…you are gonna have a tough time finding a man out there, but good luck.

  • no, guys dont want a loose vagina.

    so all you care about is a big dick for physical features?

    i swear there are girls whod take a handsome man over a huge dick lol

  • Better date large men then; it usually correlates somewhat with size of everything else.

  • Nice guy + Big Dick = Jackpot
    but when it is not, then its your choice either u chose one by his Dick or his personality.
    anyways good luck :)

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