Guys, I can't cum from sex, how do I make my boyfriend be OK with it?

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I still really like the sex, and he doesn't need to get me off. I've never orgasmed from sex with anyone, so the problem isn't his performance. I've explained that all to him, but he won't listen to me. How do I get him to calm down about me not orgasming?

He wants to go on these long sex sessions now, and I think it's too exhausting for the both of us. That can be fun sometimes, but not all the time. Especially since like I said, I'm completely fine with not getting off.

He's my first 'real'/serious and older by a few years boyfriend, so I haven't had to explain this to anyone before really. But him needing me to orgasm so badly, shuts down my sex drive too.
Guys, I can't cum from sex, how do I make my boyfriend be OK with it?
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