Girlfriends dad walked in on us having sex. What should I do. Please help?

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Girlfriends dad walked in on us having sex. What should I do. Please help? yesterday me and my girlfriend decided to have sex, and we did it in the media room (I'm 18 years old) well she told me her dad was golfing today and when he golfs he doesn't get home til like 10pm, drunk out of his mind. He came home early this time and he was a bit drunk. I could hear footsteps getting louder and louder, so I got the worst feeling in my gut and I jumped off of her and ran into the next room (bathroom connects to rooms) when I'm in her room I hear a scream and I immediately know that its her dad because those were heavy footsteps, I put my pants back on but my shirt was off and he found her completely naked. He throws open the door to her room and he sees me and he yells "get the f*** out my house and don't ever come f***ing back!" I was well respected by him, kept his daughter out of trouble and got her more involved with her family. As I was walking out the door he took a swing at me but I ducked and he only skimmed my head. I've been dating her for 7 months and I don't know what to do? (ps. her mom knew we have sex and was okay with it and always talked to me about it and had her daughter on birth control, but her dad is a stubborn grudge holding guy. What should I do?

GiftShop · Accepted Answer

You guys are old enough to make that decision. He's not gonna like it obviously because that's his daughter, but what can you do.
He shouldn't have tried to hit you.
I think the worst part of this whole story is that he say his daughter naked. That is gonna be weird for the two of them for a while.
Let him cool down and try to talk to him.
Say you're sorry you did it in his home while he was away, that was very disrespectful. That you and his daughter are having safe consensual sex. And anything that sounds right to you

erandal · Accepted Answer

His daughter, his house, his rules. Stay well away for a few weeks the see if you can go to the house and talk it through with him.

WhatAreYouReading · Accepted Answer

Stay away from the house for awhile, maybe you and your girlfriend can go to her mom and ask her to talk to him for you guys?

Tdieseler · Accepted Answer

nothing you can do really. shoot, i say if you can be able to type out this question, you are already lucky. you shouldn't have fingers by now lol...
just relax... you said her mom knows and is ok with it... you have two people on your side... not just two people... two WOMEN that HE loves. give it time... they'll manage to talk some sense into him.

Browneye57 · Accepted Answer

Uh gee, you're fucking the guy's daughter and he took a swing at you and you want to know what to do? Seems your survival instinct is broken - another darwin award. STAY THE FUCK AWAY.