But how would I know unless I ask?And who would it affect other than the two involved?And what's wrong with casual sex outside of monogamy?
You can't just go around letting "I want to fuck you" be the first thing that flies out of your mouth... but yes, you'll never know unless you ask at some point.It could affect friendships and future relationships. You could wind up with children. There are a lot of variables, and you can't control them all. I've had friends use protection and still wind up with kids. I've had friends divorce over past relationship issues. I've had friends lose their friends over this. I've had friends develop cervical cancer from one night stands.. which definitely affects their friends and family. Not saying that all of these things are the rule per say, but don't assume you are the exception.What's wrong with casual sex outside of monogamy? See above. It might not be wrong in and of itself, but that depends on how you approach it. Are you lying to get a woman in bed or are you honest with her so she knows that it's ONLY casual?
I would be honest...I'm worried that I could be a carrier for cervical cancer and not know it...
Let's say there are no STDs and condoms and birth control are used...Most people would never admit that they want to have sex with a hot girl they see in a public setting? Okay, maybe that's true. In that case, how do relationships start?Also, if they did admit it, it wouldn't do much good if they did not act on it.And is there any appropriate way to act on it?
Well I'll be honest if there's absolutely no such thing as STDs and there's a sure bet that I wouldn't become pregnant I'll sleep with whoever I want as much as I want and I probably wouldn't be a virgin now.And you're right it wouldn't do much good if they didn't act on it but remember I said this before you said STDs and prengnancy was out of the picture. The things you just excluded are most of the reasons why people don't act on their sexual urges if these things were eliminated in real life more people just might begin to.And trust me it happens more often than you think take my word for it...As for relationships and and an appropriate way I can't really answer that. You could try it on a the girls you see and you just might get lucky but you could also get kicked in the sack.
What happens more often than I think?Random people hooking up?
No random people hooking up I'm pretty sure happens as often as we imagine what I was referring to was what you said about most people would never admit that they want to have used with a hot girl they see in a public setting.
Have used? Did you mean to say have sex?Are you saying that this happens often?Where? At the bank?Because there's a girl I totally want to fuck at the bank.
Yeah I typed the wrong thing.And yes at least to me guys aren't afraid to say that they want to have sex with me or ask me if I will with them... *cough cough*And no not at the bank I don't typically go to banks.
How many guys ask you in a given week?
I mean it doesn't happen every day some kinds actually do think before they speak... I'm not exactly sure tbh. But although its technically not sex just earlier today as I went into a restaurant a guy walked in shortly after he was looking at me kind of odd but I just ordered and was about to leave and then he walked up to me and said do you want to make some cash? And I thought I should just say no while I'm a head but I didn't and I asked him doing what exactly and he was like if you kiss me. I mean its things like that guys just honestly don't care or at least when it comes to me in their minds it's like it's only one way to find out and that's by asking...
Wow all he asked for was a kiss?
Yeah... And now that I'm thinking about it I'm kind of regretting it that was easy money 😒
How much did he offer?Would you have let him see you naked?
No way and $20
What if he offered $100 to see you topless?
Some people don't like to admit it either there was this argument me and this Christian girl had on here like a couple months ago and we were arguing on inbox and she told me how she was a model too and how sexual she was. A couple days ago she posted a question on here about how she felt bad for giving this guy a blow job and in Christianity that's a big sin to have premarital sex. So that's totally true saying and doing are two completely different things. We as humans just have to rationalize things so that we won't feel bad when we do the things we do weather its not taking out the trash or having sex.
@blondfrog why did she feel bad?
@blondfrog 👏👏👏I don't think I've ever heard you say or apply that much effort into one of your opinions... At least an important one. Welcome to my world 👐
Lol thanks :P I guess she felt bad cause she gave into the temptation and she said herself she thought it was wrong.
@blondfrog I wonder how the guy got her to give in?
I'm wondering why can't you mention him...@blondfrog
It was a her or do you mean the asker? @DivaMonae
She was already telling me how she was really a sexual person sometimes your temptations give in with what people consider their morals. That's how like there are so many crooked shaks, immams, preists, Rabbies
@blondfrog yea like all those child molester priests
@blondfrog No the qa asked you why did she feel bad and then also said I wonder how the guy got her to give in.I see he put your name but it's not turning blue almost as of you've blocked him but that clearly isn't the case. So since his mentions weren't going through I mentioned you for him questioning why isn't it working for him.
@DivaMonae oh cause he is anonymous.
@blondfrog Oh, I didn't notice... Nur only because he wasn't originally lol 😂
oh yeah I see :D
You're that fake girl who thinks too much of herself...
I'm joking around. Don't let a sense of humor. Obviously I don't do what I just said. I am not fake and believe me I don't think much of myself at all
PM meI really want to talk to you
Well I messaged you. You never answered
I'm gonna buy an orange Lamborghini to show my colors
Like what if I want to ask the girl at the bank to fuck.Isn't that appropriate?I mean, I drive a Lamborghini! I'm a successful business owner.
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Exactly...And to be fair, I've never actually tried this...
hey,Never tried what? Posting a question? If so then there is nothing to worry about because all the replies are going to be funny or 100% entertaining. Few will be insightful!Stay happy! :)
There'd be SO many babies, lol.
True...But what's the alternative?Hold everything in? That sucks!
Not everything in life revolves around sex.
It does if you wake up horny every day and are horny all day...
You have hands.
That is not the same and you know it!
Lol there are toys out there too👍🏼
That's not what you do
No it wouldn't...Sex is common...Anyone who would beat someone over that is stupid and would get sent to jail...
Sexual harassment isn't common man.
It's not common it it's mutual...Asking someone to have sex is not illegal...Then what are men supposed to do about their sex drives if letting them out is illegal?
Saying you want to have sex to a random person on the street (or even a friend if they're not into it) is sexual harassment.
No, it isn't...It's not illegal in any way...Sexual harassment is in the workplace... By a coworker or boss...
Sexual harassment can be done by anyone, and it isn't limited to just the work place.
It's not illegal to ask someone to have sex...
It is if it's sexual harassment.
Why would they get offended?
Wel not all women appreciate random guys going up to them asking for sex lol
Maybe there's a more subtle and socially appropriate way to do it...
You have to go by how they respond to you first. If you see she's flirting her ass off and giving you sexual hint then yea but I'd proceed with caution
Exactly, but the problem is the "social game"
But that's illegal...And what's that reason?
It's liable to be taken the wrong way. You are stating a simple factual desire but other people are liable to see it as intimidating and indicative of criminal intent.
But what if I'm the only one without an SO?
Then you should look for girls who like that kind of cat calling.
That doesn't mean they can't tell you they want to... Or try...
What do you mean by try?
They can't try to see if you want to...
What does that mean?
Be the first to walk around telling everyone you want to fuck them
What do you think would happen?Also, what if I don't tell it to EVERYONE, just some people... Just the ones that I think might agree...
I don't know. Try it and find out :-)