We've had a swinger. I'm pregnant from another man?

Should I tell my husband? What should I do? Please help...
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  • I was almost aborted and it was a one night stand between a stripper and a drug dealer but she didn't have the heart to go through with it and left town and hid from her parents, family, pimp and dealer to have me. Against all odds, she sacrificed everything because even though I wasn't convenient for her, she couldn't life with herself that she killed a human before it had the fighting chance to experience the beauty of a lake, or trees or nature, or the feeling you get on Christmas morning. If it wasn't for her decision to keep me, none of that would've been possible. Childhood life and excitement trumps the selfishness of adults and their selfish sex games as they chase empty and meaningless lust.

    • you're such a troll 😂😂😂

    • @Sarahkf I'm actually not a troll I say the truth and my unfiltered opinion. Trolling is purposefully saying things you don't even mean. I'm just very open and I always tell the truth of what I think no with no regard for what other people are going to say or think about it. This is the honest truth.

    • I saw your reaction in an other topic you were trolling there too hhhhh

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  • If it was from an act that you both consented to, I don't see any option but to tell him. It should have been a risk that was discussed and considered beforehand. What are your other options? Tell him it's his? How different did this other guy look from your husband? I'm fearful that somewhere down the line, some minor medical issue will come up (like blood typing) which will raise doubts in your husband's mind and cause unnecessary mistrust in your relationship. To get that out of the way now will give both of you a fresh footing on which to make future decisions.

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  • Even if you hadn't been pregnant would you tell him? being loyal after the deed is happened doesn't do much for you... you cheated... there's a chance he divorces you and it's his right..., also it's his right to know.,, he bight say abort it... or keep it?

  • Are yo 100% positive it's the swinger guy's baby and not your husband's? If you two are swingers, you should know the risks (pregnancies and STDs) even with protection. You can either try to get a paternity test or just tell your husband.

  • I don't know. Can he really be mad at that? I guess he'll be mad as to why you weren't on birth control. Yeah I don't know just tell him or abort.

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  • Yes of course you should tell your husband, seeing as you guys swing or it's agreed on that you do, he should know that these things CAN happen.

  • First, find a way to get a stealth DNA sample for your husband and determine if there is a problem.

  • Obviously tell your husband and the guy that got you pregnant.

    • Have you had a groupsex?

    • No and I don't plan on it

  • Some think like this "hey, you remember that time we had a swinger, well I am not going to have my period for 9 months, oh and you are not the dad, surprise..." might work.

  • here's an idea.

    grab your husband, and the other guy, and have a threeway talk about it.

    • LOL.

  • do tell him. he'd be happy to swing the baby now..

  • You really don't have a choice but to tell him

  • TELL YOUR HUSBAND

  • Just tell him. If you don't want to tell him, consider abortion before it's too late.

  • Tell him
    discuss this with him :/

  • I don't understand why you weren't on birth control but you need to talk to your husband and the other guy and getting tested for std is probably a good idea

  • End of relationship

  • That's some swinging swaging cluster fuck 🤔

  • Lol maybe you should think about repercussions before doing something stupid and immature

  • Look that's a fucked up situation big time, but he allowed it just like you did. Don't abort it that baby didn't ask to be conceived. It was your mistake. Give birth and put it up for adoption. There are a lot of couples out there that can't have kid who would give anything to adopt.

    You have the final decision but that is my opinion.

  • Well, he's going to find out eventually, one way or another.

    • What should I do? Abortion?

    • That is 100% your decision and I certainly am not going to tell you what to do or not do.

    • Have you had a Groupsex or threesome?