A female friend sent me a picture of her in a bra... is she flirting with me?

I told her that her hair was cute and she responded with a bra selfie... I'm not sure if it's suposed to look seductive or not... why would she do that? I can't figure it out. 😳 We're like, totally platonic. Or that's what I thought? Is this normal?
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Here's the picture, if it helps
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Okay... that's impressive... but if you're not into her, make it about the bra... tell her it's pretty and where did she get it... focus on something that's obvious but not the person... if she was into you and was hoping for a 'positive reaction' to her body or how she looks in her underwear, she will be getting embarrassed either way, but this will be just your way of saying, no big deal and keeping it platonic

  • If you're good friends tell her "that's hot" and see if she replies with a funny reaction or a sexual reaction.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If it were me I would reply with something like "Nice picture, looking sexy!" and send her a bra pic too to see how she responds. Don't be too sexual unless you want to take it in that direction.

    I have sent bra pics to my friends and sometimes there was nothing in it, sometimes there was. It all depended on the rest of the conversation.

  • Are you guys close? I mean my female friends and I have sent pictures in our bras and stuff to each other, just because we aren't really thinking about it.

    • Yeah, we're pretty close. Do you think that's all it is?

    • probably, i mean me and my female friends have seen each other naked just because we'll all be getting ready in a rush and it's not that big of a deal because we're close.

    • Oh. I guess...

  • Maybe she wasn t even thinking and was just in her bra when she took the pic. Was it just her bra or a pic of her hair and the bra was just there?

    • It was her face and and hair, but her bra was also in it... and her boobs. It almost looks like she's showing off her boobs, but I can't be sure.

    • I wouldn't dwell on it unless you find more stuff Ike that happening.

  • She probable does have a thing for you, i mean.. it really looks like it

    • Oh, man.

    • I was afraid of that

    • haha, its okay to feel like that, must be awaked, but don't sweat it, play it off like a joke, turn the situation around (:

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  • If she bi/gay.. might be hitting on you, or might be showing off.

  • I don't think it was a good idea to post the picture, after all she sent you that in confidence.

  • I'd say she wants more. Go for it.

    • Well I don't!! What do I say?

  • Sure she wanted to send it to you? And you really shouldn't be posting her pic up here.

  • It seems like she is trying to flirt with you or seduce you.

  • I think she is bi or bicurious and looking for a girl.. go for it if u are curious too. She is hot

  • Hope she's not a Lesbian!

  • I find this cute

    • Bra pics? Like cute in what way?

  • There may be several reasons. Tell her to look sexy and monitor their reaction. Then you'll know why she sent this picture.

  • She's flirting most likely. Ask her if they was meant for her and maybe throw in a compliment to see how she reacts so you can know for sure

  • Is she Lesbian?

    • I don't think so. She had a boyfriend last summer

  • You were talking about hair and she sent you a pic of her in bra.
    She definetly wants you to look at her breasts.

  • show us the pic

    • See that's the thing. It's kind of... booby. So I don't know if I should.

    • If there are no nips its allowed

    • Ehh I don't know. I'd message it to you but we're both anon haha