My clit is kind of long and peeks out of hood when its aroused? Should I be ashamed?

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Well, I am not sexually active... but I like guys and women. But only feminine women... and I am a feminine woman myself. Anyhow, I have a new friend, she's beautiful and is bi-sexual. I never been with a girl.. but yesterday we went to the movies and she started rubbing my thighs and holding my hand. She knew I liked it, because I didn't stop her. So she dropped me off at home and we didn't mention it. She sent me a text saying she want me to spend the weekend at her house.. I told her yes, and I know other things will happen. but I am afraid for her to see my vagina. It's cleaned and groomed.. but its UGLY! I took a picture of it erected and it looks so weird. Especially when I pull the hood back. It's like the size of a "PEA" and it gets all hard like a penis. I hate it... what to do? is this normal? Even when my first time with a guy will be shameful... is it weird?

broadsword · Accepted Answer

Only if I could flick a switch for you. This is beautiful stunning such a clit is a massive turn on. Please believe me. Above is a wonderful bit of female erotic art. Over 400 normal everyday women had casts of their pussies done for exactly the purpose that you need. Your normal but very very lucky to have such an erotic clit. Of only will any lover be able to see they are turning you on by your vaginal wetness but by an exquisite hard erect clit. They are amazing to perform oral on and to see it on your own erect penis when having intercourse is oh so very hot. Your a very lucky woman indeed. Very few women look at their own vaginas and thing mmmm that's hot hot I'd want that if it was someone else's.  Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I also think many young women to day are very confused by the vogue of the porn based "Innie". I hate the term for something so beautiful but it's also not very realistic like super thin models. All vaginas are beautiful and I think more sensual feminine girl flesh that is exposed the more erotic it looks Please feel free to private message me if you'd like to discuss this more 😃

Rawrzz · Accepted Answer

The clit is the same thing as a penile glans. Clits are basically tiny penises. Just without the urethra. A clit develops into a penis in the womb. It's natural. Blood flows into it making it larger and harder. You shouldn't be ashamed. Everyone has those insecurities. That girl does too, trust me. The best thing to do is to ignore it. Get outside of your head in a romantic encounter. Act instinctually. Thought ruins it. Especially negative thoughts like that. Just enjoy the moments and live in the present.

coolgirl19 · Accepted Answer

girl its not weird !!! Vaginas come in different shapes and forms and sizes. If a person wants to get intimate with u, they're lucky to see you like that and they won't judge you !:)

LittleAmyP · Accepted Answer

You don't have to be ashamed, my clithood is smaller than my clit, so my clit peeks always out of the hood.

sicosico · Accepted Answer

We are all normal with all the shapes of our vaginas, clits, and boobs so don't be ashamed of any of them

BellePepper · Answer

Yes definitely be ashamed of your natural and healthy body. That is 110% the right thing to do.

AustinMan · Answer

Hell no. You should be proud. I've fantasized about that for my whole life and never dated one.

bhale2012 · Answer

All vaginas are normal and most people really don't care what it looks like.

NJ_Casanova · Answer

It normal... PERFECTLY BEAUTIFUL. Nothing to be ashamed of... you girl will think it's amazing. It's makes it easy to find and more fun to stimulate, grab with her lips.

mikemx55 · Answer

As the following diagram shows the formation of genitals of the fetus, it is normal for the clit to resemble a penis. It is absolutely normal, for that to happen, and that is also why it is a source of pleasure.

Oh, and remember, normal woman, are not the same as the ones you see in porn or the general internet.. chances are you just like everyone else out there.. all different and yet, all the same.

Think on the bright side of it: you have more to play with :) Don't be self conscious about that, just enjoy the pleasure that it provides you.

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Mesonfielde · Answer

If you want to feel ashamed over something you don't have control over, then sure. If you don't feel like feeling ashamed, then I don't see why you'd want to do that.

GingerGuy · Answer

No not ashamed at all.

Intraluminal · Answer

It's absolutely normal. It's kind of hot. If I were younger I'd be begging to suck on it. Nevermind, I'll beg anyway! Please, please, please!

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

Hell no, you shouldn't be ashamed. Show it proudly! I've been with women with large clits and those were some very fun times for all of us.

Anpu23 · Answer

No, not at all.

Thefighter1212 · Answer

No when you are turned on it enlarges, dint be ashamed

douride2 · Answer

Is this a shot at the big dick questions?

genericname85 · Answer

you have nothing to worry about. guys like every vagina xD

poppup · Answer

I am sure it's NOT ugly. I love all varieties of vaginas. If the clit is as you describe it, guess what. It's going to be easy to find and play with, lick and whatever. Relax and enjoy. She's a lucky girl to have you.