He literally beat the pussy up, is being sore a week after sex normal?

[Anonymous]

So first of all I'm not a virgin and haven't been for the last 3 years, and have had sex so many times I've lost count. Last weekend and I slept with this new guy, and he is a lot bigger then the guys I've been with before in both ways, so I was expecting to be a little bit sore anyways. Well I actually ended up bleeding while having sex, it was really rough and fast (we did use a lot of lube half way through, as well as a condom). I was expecting to be sore for maybe 2-3 days after but now its nearly a week and I'm still hurting down there, especially at the entrance. Is this normal? I've never experienced anything like it? Plus any tips on how to avoid this next time we have sex as I don't want have to endure this every week.

[BlueCoyote]

Being sore after sex is not normal. Not even for one day. My girlfriend is NEVER sore after sex. If you're sore after sex, your guy was wayyy too rough with you. I don't understand how you could even think about the possibility that this might be normal. If I was a girl and my vagina was bleeding after sex, I would get so pissed that this asshole of a guy would never want to see me again.

[NJ_Casanova]

Tell him, to go easy... girls just let the guy do with they want and "don't realize your in control". If it hurts tell him to stop/slow down.. and if he just goes right back to pounding you... change positions so your in control. Your not a piece of meat for him to use, and if he doesn't "care about" how it is for you.. then he doesn't deserve any.

[Asker]

Oh no I enjoyed the sex part and once he had got in and I got used to taking him it didn't hurt, I actually told him that I wanted him to go hard. However I'm now feeling the wrath of it.

[NJ_Casanova]

Okay, I just see a lot of post from timid girls that let their guys treat them like that and it makes me angry at them.(they aren't victims because the allow it to happen). I think your situation was from the tear/bleeding... my girls are usually sore if it's been a while or if it lasted over an hour last time. It usually goes away in 2-3 days. I usually hold back to prevent the tearing even if in the moment they want it. If you use lube from the start and have regular sex, your body will adjust to fit his.

[Hotwifebecky]

Hubby fucked me so hard last night my pussy is still sore. I can barely walk but I love it.

[Anonymous]

Is he your bf?
Did you let him know?
Is he very young like inexperienced?

[AustinMan]

Use a good lube like AstroGlide from the start and see your gynecologist to make sure you didn't sustain an injury.

[AustinMan]

How are you doing? I would hope you're acclimating to his sexual style.

[OfMiceandMen]

I would say a day or two afterwards is sometimes normal, but a week seems a bit much.

If I was him and knew that, I would likely avoid having sex for awhile, at least till you are better. Not interested in hurting someone.

[AndyOh]

I would not see him again and I would see a doctor.
Both will be the best thing for your pussy.

[Ruchisingh]

Please concert a gynaecologist

[Anonymous]

SLUT.

Maybe you'll die of AIDS

[Anonymous]

Sl*t

[Anonymous]

No it definitely isn't normal! Regardless of his penis size, how rough and fast, your vagina shouldn't be wrecked unless he did it with the intent to hurt you.

*quick assumption he was black. (No not racist so stop all that noise) I assume because every single time I have heard this same complaint, it's been the case.