It's all good, don't sweat it, he's just got preconceived notions about it. Some people think it's this super degrading thing, which I disagree with, it's all relative to the girl's attitude about it. If she doesn't like it, then sure, it's degrading, but you could argue degradation for any number of sexual acts, all based on whether one party is reluctantly doing it. If you're ok with it, then it's not degrading. But whatever, that's my take on it, he's obviously got different feelings on it. No need to really pursue it any further unless that's something you want done to you and you feel like you're missing out on it. But it sounds like you're just trying to please him, so if he not into that, then that's all there is to it.
Ugh, you have a lot of PC prudes here who think its somehow demeaning to women. The truth is its not, and I would love if my woman wanted to spice things up like you! No its not just for sluts. Sometimes couples who are in a loving commited relationship, just need to explore and spice things up. Reassure him, you are not a slut, and you only love him. Although its sounds like cumming on your face is something he won't do.
Explain to him outside of a sexual context that it's not only for 'sluts'. That receiving a facial is perfectly fine so long as both parties agree to it and willingly participate. You can try just assuring him that you simply want to give it a try for the sake of trying something new and hopefully that works.
It's not true that guys don't respect a girl just because he cums on her face. Some girls, like myself and I guess even you, want it done. I don't find things like that disrespectful in the slightest.
I suppose even many girls love to take in face than any other spot.
Facials keep my skin young lol
LOL I have never done facial but I love swallowing. My guy thought it was degrading but eventually he is fine with that idea after I talked to him.
I don't see it as degrading or slutty if you willing to accept it. Try to talk to him saying you are the one who want this to be done. Nothing to do with respect, unless he pushes you to do so.
My guy has a few times. He asked first. Once by mistake, which was actually funny. He's a very respectful guy so I didn't feel degraded at all. It's ok to be playful in the bedroom and while I can appreciate your guy didn't want to, shutting down and his later comments were uncalled for.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Well, he is one of the few guys that find that disrespectful most women I know feel the way that he states.
If he isn't into that, then I wouldn't bring it up again.
Some people see that as a degrading act.
Wow, your guy has some serious issues there. Fortunately unless you really, really want that facial, swallowing is more enjoyable anyway. :)
Okay no it's not a slut thing it's simply just an action and honestly he shouldn't have made that statement to you because it's as if at that moment he was calling you a slut which is not true you simply wanted something different and you shouldn't be made feel bad for it. I understand if he has a certain opinion on it but he needs to understand that there is a way to word said opinion that wouldn't shut you down like that. Cumming on a woman's face is simply a consensual act between two people it can spice things up or just be the way the two do there thing, but isn't to be confused more judge as sluty in any way. Well that's my two cents in it hope this helps in some way.
He clearly needs to understand that you're his slut and that he's yours. That all those rules don't apply between intimate couples.
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I completely agree with this post. I totally feel like that is part of a relationship. Now the fact that he said that to you OP is a good thing, he obviously respects and loves you so much that the thought of doing something to you that he feels to be disrespectful, it completely shut him down. And that is hard to do to a guy that is on the verge of cumming.
I think it's degrading or some sort of domination thing. I would never want to do that and understands why he feels that way.
Because it is degrading. I guess he respects you too much for that! Lucky you lol
no, it does not mean that.
tell your boyfriend to stop being such a prude. You aren't a slut, and you don't think the act is degrading, but you do think his petulance is.
lol no personally i think its fucking hot when i cum on a girls face i dont think of it as degrading in anyway but i do know some girls who think like that
My husband likes to cum on my face. He'd rather that than my mouth honestly. He just likes to watch it come out and onto me. He's happy with about anywhere but face and chest are preferred
Well honestly. I would cum wherever you ask me to. I think it's amazing your so thoughtful. You need a boyfriend who is open minded, playful and kinky. It's so much more fun and spicy. X
I think it is demeaning toward girls and is for the porn movies only.
No it means you have sufficiently caressed him with your mouth so well that what come he didn't spurt in your mouth, he spurted on your face. I think it probably means he liked it. That's generally a sign of enjoyment, ejaculation.
If a girl wants me to come on her face, I'd do it. It would turn me on. I haven't known many girls that actually asked for it, but they weren't sluts.
Those kinds of things vary from one relationship to the next. For example, while to some couples it might seem degrading, to others it might actually seem... loving.
Obviously, your boyfriend falls into the former camp.
No it means he either cares enough about her to do it for her or she cares enough about him to let him do it or it means they have a fun adventures sex life or all three. If you want it I don't know why he wouldn't do anything to make you happy.. I would.
Well he certainly feels that way about it
He can cum in your mouth but not on your face? Kind of ironic to me.
haha i know! funny right? ;)
lol, yes I just pictured it like this "oh honey you're too much of an angel to let me cum on your face, now open your mouth". I just don't understand it.
you are too funny you outta have a preference! lol
No, I don't think it means that at all. As long as it's something both people are okay with then it's not disrespectful. It's just a consensual sexual activity.
That's immoral behavior.
@BuchitaBuchys Buchita, you're so funny! :) #Immoral
Wow!
He can make you swallow his fucking cum, but it can't touch the outside of your body?
Tell him you guys are together and how is it any different then having sex with you.
Uh... And the word slut :/
But, if you're okay with not doing it either, then it's not a big deal.
He probably associates it with weird porn 😆
But its not weird! ;)
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