Walked in on my girlfriend fucking a guy... did I act right?

I walked in and she was getting fucked by this guy, I didn't know who he is. I snapped and beat the fuck out of him, and he ended up running out and I picked up my girlfriend and through her out of the house and her clothes on the lawn. did I act right? Should I have handled it different?
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  • What were you supposed to do, ask her how it was or tell her to talk about her feelings? You did exactly what you are suppose to do.
    1 You didn't hurt her (at least not that bad)
    2 You dealt wit the guy and the girl (no partiality, bc some gaggers would comment why didn't you deal with the girl too if you beat the guy up and did nothing to the girl (whining voice).
    3 You threw her out
    You dating reputation gets around and if you are being a "nice guy" about something like that other people will think i could fuck his girl or the girl will think he won't do nothing about it.
    You've gained that man's respect and other women's respect even if they don't say it out loud. Respect is a subconscious thing.

    • Good. I just know I overreact sometimes and I was hoping this time isn't one of those times. I was just so pissed. Like in my bed? Wtf!

    • I give you a A+. by the way sorry it had to end like that.

    • If the situation is as described, then, @hazoplmeught that's a good writeup. But what the hell does yr username mean? lol

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  • Well, kicking your girlfriend out yes. Beating up the guy, maybe not. Maybe she lied to him and he had no idea she had a boyfriend? If he did know though then he kinda deserved it. But you probably shouldn't have though still because he can charge you now if he wanted to for assault.

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  • No, you should have talked to her first. Then react. I'm not saying throwing her out of the house is the wrong thing, but taking it slowly is the best. But, hey it's not a very big deal how you reacted. You should be pissed, she did a very bad thing. You can't always do the right and sane things in these situations. But if you haven't talked to her since this happened yet, I think you should do it, just to sort things out.

    • No this is wrong. Your reputation will get around as you being a bitch. Dont sort things out with her

    • Talking first is not my strong suit

    • Sorry no. In these situations talking is not going to do shit. They're just lucky they aren't both dead.

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  • Heya,
    Sorry you had to go through something like that. It's terrible. But no you didn't overreact at all. You did what probably most people would do man.
    Take care

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  • You may have been a bit extreme, but she was completely cheating on you, so I can understand where you are coming from.

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  • no u did the right thing bro, how ever u should have kept her clothes :)

    • Lol fuck that sluts clothes!

  • Beating the guy was unnecessary. He didn't betray you. Any physical violence against her is unnecessary but (figuratively) throwing her and her belongings out is fine.
    Also, change the locks. And block her number.

  • The guy may not have known she had a boyfriend, did you consider that?

  • The slut is lucky to be alive, but you acted okey, and of course that you got angry on them.

  • That's sounds actually pretty common compared to what I'd do. I think that was the best way to handle that situation. If that were me... everyone would have been dead.

  • That's better than how a lot of people react.

  • Yep thats pretty good

  • Good job. Whores belong on the street so she ended up where she should've.

    • Good I just needed confirmation

  • I respect your reaction. You done good.

  • Sounds like what most would do. Maybe the whore will learn that actions have consequenses. But she provably still thinks that somehow this was all your fault

  • pretty normal

  • Nah he clearly would have known she was in a relationship if your things were around. 0 respect for him or her. Good job.

  • Job well done.

  • Can't tell if this is troll bait, but I'll answer anyway.

    That was childish to beat up the guy; He might not have even known she was your girlfriend. In my opinion, there was no need to put your hands on either of them. At most, you could shout at them to get the fuck out while you throw her shit out of the window.

  • If I were you I would let the guy and I would kick the girl to death, cheaters must die

    • Scary.

    • @lolatyou that's it, try to cheat to an angry guy and he will show you hell

    • I think i'll pass on dating a psycho. Cheating doesn't and shouldn't mean death. Cheating is awful but being a killer is even worse. Get over yourself, you're not that important.

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  • You did good.

  • good job

  • how the fuck do people believe this?

    • Look man I'm not tryna prove anything to Anyone I'm just asking if I did the right thing.

  • you handled it like a man. never talk to the whore again

  • you did right and when i hear this i think that it's sad that guys can't beat women sometimes haha, anyways you acted alright even if i am not for violence, but i really think she deserves a lot more than him

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