He refuses to wear a condom and insists on cumming inside yet he is fully aware I am not on birth control?

If a guy doesn't want to impregnante the girl, why would they risk cumming inside of her? She could easily lie about taking Plan B and trap them with a kid.
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  • Usually, that's the kind of guy who is going to run out on you and leave you alone with a child that he'll never want anything to do with and won't help pay for. He'll avoid having a legit job so you can't attach his wages, and will move out of state so that, even if you get your state to convict him as a deadbeat dad, he won't suffer any consequences.

    The point is: YOU are the one who is going to suffer if you don't make some rules to protect yourself, and no one is going to save you. You'd better smarten up quick (and hope it's not too late already), because you're on a path to be a welfare mom and single for life. Not to mention full of STDs.

    Bareback sex is fantastic, but it is only for couples in a committed, monogamous relationship who have been tested and when alternative birth control is being used. All other sex needs to be with condoms, and if the guy won't use one, he doesn't get any pussy.

    Young guys are STUPID, and just don't think about anything but their own immediate desires. If you let THEM set the rules, you'll be pregnant and diseased, because a lot of them just don't care. It's up to YOU to be the smart one who enforces the rules.

  • Because he feels macho cumming inside you. Plus it's a risky game and that makes it more exciting.
    I say he does not respect you if that is what he wants. I did that when I was 17 with my 16yo girlfriend, so she said no till I finally realized I was being an idiot and missing out on a good thing.
    So dump him

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  • I don't know if you're talking about yourself, your boyfriend or somebody else and their boyfriend but here is my bottom line. I am on birth control pills and I have an IUD. But if I didn't and a guy insisted on coming inside me, I would drop him so fucking fast his head would spin. And any woman who allows that to happen is only setting herself up to be the victim.

  • Get implanon and have sex without a condom... Only if you're sure he's clean.

    But hey... YOU DECIDE wether you want a kid or not, so don't let him cum in you if it's a problem for you.

  • Thats exactly what I was thinking, the guy I was talking to wanted to cum inside me and we werent even dating that long like almost 4 months,

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  • they are thinking with their dicks that's why

  • Don't fuck him if he's unwilling to play by your rules. You don't have to let him do anything you aren't comfortable. This is Day One stuff, really.

    • Amen

  • The very simple answer is.. Refuse to have sex with him.

    • Nice one! Well said!

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  • Either he wants to get you pregnant or he doesn't care and will run when you tell him that you are pregnant.

  • The big question here is why do you let him? Do you have no control over your body? Do you feel like you have zero responsibility here? You are aware that as soon as you'll get pregnant, he'll leave you and let you deal with the problem alone right?

  • Then he is an idiot who wants to be a father. She isn’t going to “trap” him, he is going to do that all by himself. A lifetime of child support because he wouldn’t wear a.25 cent condom. And if karma is real nice maybe he will get the clap too.

  • Well there's 2 people in this situation...

    Why are you ALLOWING him to have sex with you knowing this?

  • Why aren't you insisting on not sleeping with this guy?

  • He's an idiot.

  • Then don't have sex with him. He's being a moron.

    • Don't fuck morons. Otherwise, you'll end up with Moron Jr.

  • I never go without a condom... you are right.. lotta weirdos who will try to trap guys

  • He's stupid and irresponsible, save yourself the headache of birthing a child of his.

  • Because you're lying or he gives no fucks. He will definitely have more than one baby mother in his life time.

  • Some guys like to have sex without a condom because they find it more enjoyable than with condom, irrespective of the consequences.. You can refuse him to have unprotected sex if you don't want to get pregnant.