Is sending nudes trashy or sexy?

Question

If your friends with benefits sends you nudes of herself do you think less of her?

Bandit74 · Accepted Answer

For a boyfriend its sexy. For a casual partner its trashy. Seems girls do the reverse tho, they send nudes to guys who they aren't in a relationship with and then act classy while in a relationship.

Guys aren't going to be turned off by what you do for THEM, they are turned off for what you have done for other guys.

So the guy you're casually fucking is probably pretty happy right now. He gets to have sex with you and gets permanent reminders of what your naked body looks like without having to make any sort of commitment or sacrifices for you. Why would he be turned off?

Its your future boyfriend you'll meet after your fuckbuddy dumps you, who might think you're trashy if he finds out.

NearlyNapping · Accepted Answer

Trashy as hell. I guess I'm just an old fart who spent most of my life before digital cameras (which gave the ability to take and send nudes). I totally don't get the trend, and think it's extremely weird. I think it's horrible, and think people are stupid as hell for doing it.

Heartkiller · Accepted Answer

Pfft nah, I don't consider sending nudes as trashy per se. It's just people having some naughty FUN, what's wrong with having fun? Absolutely nothing. Besides, if he's your friends with benefits, he's already seen ya naked and all, there's no way he'd think less of you. He probs wouldn't be able to think much anyways, since all the blood would flow to his little head downstairs.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Trashy. I'm not calling You trashy, I'm calling the behavior trashy. Stop doing that crap. grow up and Represent yourself wisely.

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

Not if you are already banging and over 18. I guess its playful and sexy.

AustinMan · Answer

It depends entirely on the relationship: how you see each other, is sex separate from "real life,", etc.

SexyStudent · Answer

I only send news to guys if they request.

matheus_mb · Answer

Well, she would be my friend with benefits, I wouldn't think less of her. In this case, it would be sexy.

ashisimo · Answer

sexy if it's two consenting adults, trashy if they're younger than me

Mesonfielde · Answer

Hella trashy and you'll just end up on the internet

DeValdini · Answer

sexy. u can send me nudes i love it !

Matt1994 · Answer

It's a bit of both but if it's your fuck buddy then I guess it's totally fine.

Kuraj · Answer

That depends who you send it to. If the person is friends with benefits then sure.

Kylesar · Answer

If you're into each other and TRUST each other, it's sexy My girlfriend sometimes sends me nudes. I look then I delete and I send them back

takumii · Answer

Its trashy and sexy.

gobsmacked3 · Answer

it just 'is'

chrisbigman · Answer

Trashy, especially if the device can be connected to the internet and allowed for everyone to see, including any of your future kids.

Trotters · Answer

No because if you like each other in that way then I think its kind of natural to do. Why not share with someone you like?

johnanamoly · Answer

I agree with @AustinMan, it depends, is this a guy you are interested in? BF? FWB?

Lithium65 · Answer

Nothing butt fun.  Will lead to dirty talking though. And innuendo :p

Soulife · Answer

It's fun, nothing wrong with having fun, and plus, if it's at the right moment, it's excellent!

sexcrazy1 · Answer

no I do not think it is trashy, and I will not think less of her. I enjoy receiving nudes from my friends with benefits. even sent her some of my own before.