Is actual sex with a condom better than a hj/bj without a condom?

[Anonymous]

The other day my boyfriend and I were getting intimate and when he went to go grab a condom he realized he didn't have any more. He asked if he could "do just a few pumps" without it and I said absolutely not. We're both in college and live in the dorms so he said he was gonna find one and texted some people and then came back with a condom five minutes later. The whole thing was highly entertaining for me, but I'm curious why he would go through all that trouble when he knows I would've given him something else instead.

[Peelikeafrog]

Sex is always more... Complete with insertion. A bj/hand job is nice, but just not as intimate. I'm assuming he doesn't just hop on, do his thing and leave. He must care about your pleasure as well. Personally, I'm a little embarrassed with the hand job thing.

[Asker]

Haha of course he cares about my pleasure too

[Peelikeafrog]

Good! That's why it's so important to be in you

[Tarvold]

Sex with a condom is infinitely better than any HJ and most BJ.

Oh, and excellent work on insisting on the condom!

[Orion1015]

Sex with a condom feels better, if the condom fits properly.

If the condom is too small, I'll take just about anything over sex, including a rousing game of Scrabble.

[BstBrs]

YES!
Fucking is THE THING, hj/bj is just nice.

And good for you for not doing without a condom.

[summiter]

You get a great orgasm either way. He just may like being intimate and inside you. Did you get a good orgasm also? You deserve some also!

[Yumix]

1000x better than a handjob.
better than a bj... depends.

[phild_par]

the only good point for condom is that the guy last longer... but its only because there is a lot less pleasure

[anymours23]

None of the above.

[anymours23]

Sorry, Vote C. None of the above.

[Asker]

What do you think feels the best then?

[anymours23]

Just regular sex without a condom.

[anymours23]

I am very picky when it comes to the bedroom.

[Asker]

So if the girl said sex only with a condom then you would turn it down altogether?

[anymours23]

Well maybe with a condom but I don't like getting my dick sucked and girls suck at handjobs.

[masterkamasutra]

I just hate those fucking condoms!

[Anonymous]

Without is better.

[Anonymous]

I think sex feels better with a condom. Still, a bj is maybe better than sex

[Asker]

Even though you've got a barrier that dims the sensation?

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn't dim the sensation, it's rubbing against the condom instead of the vagina and it feels better, maybe cause the condom is tighter and smoother

[Anonymous]

Generally i'd say B, and at this point in my life, B for sure...

but...

if you haven't had sex in a while and have been getting hj/bj, you might opt for sex with a condom. I think i would have had a harder time deciding when young.