He finished inside of me and now im pregnant?

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He knew i wasn't on birth control. Thought plan B would solve the problem. It didn't. I am 8 weeks pregnant and i dont know how to tell him? What if he bails?

canderson23445 · Accepted Answer

It situations like this it's simple. You cannot prolong it any further. He needs to know, he has every right as you and you would want to know. Never keep the child from him or be spiteful regardless if he bails or not, always be willing to let the father back in your child's life as we humans make mistakes and every kid needs BOTH of their parents. On the other hands, like myself, the both of you could agree and continue to have a child together. Don't force anything on each other. The both of you may not agree a lot on stuff, but no parent should hijack and make there own choice. Both mother and father have equal and natural birth rights, never do to him what you don't want done to you. Create/develop a plan together for if you stay together and a plan for when you to are no longer together. There is a financial burden that's comes with a child, it will ultimately be up to the both of you to discuss it like grown adults. Abortion is never an option unless the mothers life is at risk. There's no situation in the world that could stop you.. Money, time, a home are all necessities but everything gets better over time. Your going to go through massive hormones, you may even become negative, spiteful, and a little crazy... But it's not your fault! At the end of the day regardless of how you act, it's your actions that truly matter. Stay truthful, responsible, and never give up. I hope all goes well and the both of you become great parents. Good luck.. Now
Go tell him! (In person)

Deathwolf · Accepted Answer

How you should tell him is invite him over, strip naked make him lay back, then pull out a pregnancy test and piss over him.

Or just tell him straight out but as you had to come in here to ask what to do I would suggest either adaption or an abortion

DivaMonae · Accepted Answer

Ehh... You can't really Blair him for finishing inside if you you both took the risk when having unprotected sex because precum exist... Anyway all you can do is tell him he has a right to know it's his kid as well as yours and he can either be step up or he could be a dick about it and you can get child support.

Or even if you're not planning on keeping it and are considering to getting abortion or hiding out and giving it up for adoption you should let him know.

This_is_my_username · Accepted Answer

Well it takes two too tango sweetheart! U were not on Birth control and he was not wearing a condom. Question is why did you both you guys sleep with one another if y'all knew that? If he bails then... You will be a single mum.

ChaosKilledTheDinos · Accepted Answer

Decide what you want to do with it, keep it or not. And let him know what it is you want to do. He might bail, he might not, you don't know that yet.

Tdieseler · Answer

Darling you know the two options yourself. you are old enough to know the risks. just pick one. I can't tell you what to do, neither can he.

Afro-dite9 · Answer

he did it on purpose, sounds like his plan... i doubt he care's, but consider yourself.. ROYALLY FUCKED! if you aren't ready or he just did it to trap you. other than that enjoy motherhood its a beautiful thing!

Robbey · Answer

Just tell. It's better to clear the air regardless of how he may react.

M_A_X · Answer

Do you really need us to tell you the answers to these questions?

I understand you're emotional right now, but seriously. Don't ask people for their advice on this. You know what the answers are. I have aspergers and even I know what they are, so there's no way you don't.

DeValdini · Answer

no, it's just butterflies in you stomach.

Intraluminal · Answer

Hey when you have sex without BC you knew the risks. So did he. Tell him point blank. You got me pregnant. If he bails you get child support.

Jager66 · Answer

You're 29 and having unprotected sex without birth control and don't want a child? You are to stupid to be a mother and you should probably put it up for adoption.

Eugene · Answer

"What if he bails?" Well, then ya dun goofed.

Genericokid · Answer

Just tell him, why have u waited so long? Now he's gonna think the baby isn't his, tell him now

Endeavor · Answer

You're having his baby. What a lovely way of saying how much you love him.  He can see it; your face is glowing. He can see it in your eyes and he's happy you know it... that you're having his baby.

Kylesar · Answer

If he bails, hit him with Child Support

hifromkai · Answer

You told him not to pm it's HIS fault he can't blame you just tell him

lazermazer · Answer

WtF... ur wasting time here... it's critical point here else u'll spoil ur life

Anonymous · Answer

Are you actually 29 years old and asking this question.

Anonymous · Answer

Well you should tell him.. No matter what.. He should have been more careful and and same for you.. But is he bails get child support from him... Legal action would be the best thing if he bails..