He only lasts a minute in bed?

Everytime we have sex he finishes in less than minute. He is defenitley experienced. Could there be something wrong with me?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Maybe you're super hot or seductive. Or maybe he goes too fast. Or maybe you go too fast. One minute is pretty crazy, but I've had that happen to me. Usually with morning wood or when I'm ridiculously turned on at some point. He never lasts longer? Are you actually keeping track of the timing?

    Unless you're foreplaying for like an hour. In which case, I think you might need to redraw your expectations.

    One minute is pretty crazy. Really. 7 minutes is pretty crazy.

  • With you, everything is fine. He must to learn to delay ejaculation.
    The simplest is to stop when his excitement critical, and continue when critical excitement pass
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Use thicker condoms? Sometimes the muscles down there involuntarily squeeze him and that's part of the reason. If he works out his pelvic floor muscle it will increase his control.

  • If he's experienced and finishing in less than a minute then you are either drawing foreplay out too long for him, or he's just really, really turned on by you.

    • Or he's got problem with premature ejaculation.

  • No. If anything, you're too hot to handle. Lol. Get him to spend time on foreplay with you.

  • Why would that mean your bad? It means your good at what you do if he can't last

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  • Does he spank the monkey often or at all?

  • no its him... he needs training

  • If he only last a minute... he's either a minute man...
    Or..

    You're just that good.. U may be such a turn on, he can't last

  • No he's just not experienced or maybe your pussy is just too good.

  • No. If anything he's so turned on by you that he can't help it. He might have ED to and if so it can be treated if he's willing. I assume it's affecting your pleasure though? If so just do other things, have him finger you or use toys, oral... lots of other things you can do. Then when he's hard again he might last a bit longer.

  • If you two are just starting out together... he could be a little nervous and anxious. It is nobodies fault, just give it some time and see if he gradually starts extending himself.

  • Either he's been like that with his other partners and never bothered to improve or he's only like that with you because you turn him on more than the other people he's been with. Either way there's nothing "wrong with you".

  • One minute man. Nothing is wrong with you. His stamina is the problem.

  • Haha, if it's about you, then it's certainly nothing WRONG with you, but something REALLY, REALLY RIGHT.

    I mean think about it -- if there was something wrong with you, it could only be that your pussy is too hot, wet, tight, and good. You might be too gorgeous, or he might be so in love with you that each thrust is a walk through heaven.

  • I'm so sorry to hear that. Nothing is wrong with you

  • Nothing wrong with you. It's him.

  • Maybe you are really tight or just turn him on a lot. or he is nervous or doesn't jerk off when he isn't with you and needs a release.

  • No it meeans he has orgasm problems, or you really turn him on

  • Is this a minute including foreplay?

    • No, no foreplay at all

    • Okay so it goes straight to sex and he blows in less than a minute... can I ask how frequently you're having sex with him?

    • Not that frequent

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  • LOL, I can't...

    One minute and ejaculation? I don't even know how cum in less than four mins even with full force (but maybe my practise to endure has led to this).

  • Either you are WAY too hot... or he has a premature ejaculation problem. Not your fault at all. Sorry to hear it...

    Ha, I always feel a little bad for guys like that though, I didn't even bust that quick my first time, haha! I would invest in a good vibrator, or a new boyfriend...

  • Yes, it is your fault. You are too hot for him.

  • you probably turn him on so much, he reacts quickly.. give him time to reload, then go at it again... he should take longer the second time.

  • Is he able to do seconds?

  • He need to grow skill, sometime is normal but mostly happen its a big drawback.

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