Aw, sweety, no! Your vagina is beautiful just the way it is! Seriously, vaginas really do come in all different shapes and sizes (just like penises). I for one find large labia to be more desirable. Our culture has moved in a particularly dark direction when it comes to the 'accepted' appearance of female genitalia. The porn industry is most culpable in this. Woman are made to look like pre-pubescent girls. That is, they are made to look like little girls who haven't gone through puberty yet--completely hairless, with underdeveloped sexual characteristics (like very very small labia). But that's not what a lot of women look like! Some women naturally do, of course. But there's also a lot of vaginal plastic surgery happening lately.
Please watch this documentary, which discusses this very issue. It's at Top Documentary Films dot com, and is under the tag name "Perfect Vagina" The full title is "The Perfect Vagina"
Bottom line is that you should accept your vagina for what it is, and also expect the same acceptance from your mate. It sounds like he's already ok with it anyway, and it's only uncomfortable because you're self conscious about it. Hang in there, and learn to accept it :)
There have been lots and lots of questions on GAG just like yours. (Which is okay.) It's a really common worry among a lot of girls about how they look down there. But it's a shame to worry too much because there's not one way vulvas are supposed to look. They're all unique. Lots of girls are worried because their inner labia show through their outer labia. But that's perfectly normal. And as long as a girl doesn't have an infection and takes a bath or shower regularly her normal, natural scent and taste is very erotic for the vast majority of guys.
Obviously he feels very differently about it than you do, just think of the fact that he wants it all up in his face and mouth. Being needlessly self-conscious can ruin sex so just let it go! Just because girls in porn have their labia chopped off nowadays doesn't mean that's the right way to have a vulva. Plus I heard my drunk guy friends saying that girls with longer labia are more fun to give oral to so many guys actually prefer that. Just stay calm and let him do his thing and pay attention to how excited he gets!
Girly you should not worry one bit 😊🌸 Obviously your guy loves your vagina as it is, there's no room for you to be self-conscious 😀 Truth be told guys aren't that picky about how a vagina looks like, they're just happy they get to be near it 😝😙
Go to large labia project. org and you will be staggered at the amount of girls complaining about their large pussy lips, it's a never ending cycle. You aren't the only one or a few who feels conscious about it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'm sure it's easier said than done, but relax! Don't think so much about it.
For one, I think most guys are happy to be in close proximity to just about ANY vagina, no matter what it looks like.
Secondly, some guys really like large labia, so this guy might be in heaven!
At the least, he probably doesn't really notice or care, otherwise he wouldn't want to go down on you.
Be proud to be you and be proud of your vagina!
All vaginas are good vaginas. Don't even worry about it.
I agree, all vaginas are good, I have had all different shapes and sizes and the bottom line, its an erogenous zone where they feel good and thats where I want to focus.
It's something your uncomfortable about. I don't know why. I'd have to see it to know what your talking about. (Not telling you to put up a picture of your vagina). But if it gets serious you may want to tell him about it so he doesn't think he's doing something wrong. To be honest most men don't care how big they are. Just bc you dont like it doesn't mean he doesn't. May it's a turn on for him.
No, I don't feel that way, and I don't really get why some people feel that way when they're being had sex with. I mean, it's quite obvious the other person isn't repulsed.
I see this post a lot on here so you're not alone. But I will tell you guys do not care at all. It's all in your head. Don't be self conscious about it, just own it and be proud. It's the way you are. There might be the odd guy that might care but I guarantee 99.9% of us don't.
Many women are self conscious about their vagina. If you want him to go down on you, just shower right before and make sure to go down on him at least as often.
Stop worrying. It's beautiful to him and all of us guys.
Love your vagina. Its beautiful and one of a kind. And if he loves it too, even better😉👍
Im a dude but i can tellbu if he wants to go down he really doesn't mind. So long as it doesn't smell or taste weird
Guys love vaginas, all sorts of them. Period.
Yeah, just relax, if he's not complaining, I think you are fine and it's hard to say you have big labias of you can't see a pic of them.
Large labia are HOT!
You shouldn't feel self conscious about your vagina at all! I'm sure it's fine and like myself, many guys like large labia.
as long as its not like this https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BkQa76CIgAAs-U0.jpg
Whatever, I'd be all over that
if he's okay with this, don't worry about it.
Girls are far more critical of their female bits than guys are. Most guys don't care and are just grateful to be face to face with a girl's V. And besides. What's wrong with long petals?
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