Is it weird to want rough sex?

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Is it weird or demeaning to want rough sex?
My past bfs always wanted slow "love" making. The thing is, I've never orgasmed w/ them. Ever. I would only have an orgasm when I masturbated thinking of a guy controlling me, while having rough sex (biting, slaping, smacking, scratching, grabbing/pulling my hair while screwing me). So, when I told my bfs, they would say thats crazy and reject the idea. So, here I am, irritated that men I've met are not interested in rough sex. Is it because its demeaning, and I should be ashamed to want that?
Is it weird to want rough sex?
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