Do Asian parents have sex? I'm not trolling!!! Do they really?

[Anonymous]

I feel like my parents only had sex few times for the sole purpose of procreation. After my brother and I were born, they stopped. I honestly think only white, latino or black people have oral and anal sex. I don't think Arab or Asian parents do it.

[Anonymous]

That's what I thought when I was younger but I'm pretty sure they do. They're just not very open about it and usually it's a cultural thing to keep their private business private. Sometimes the media also affects this for example if you turn on the tv you will see shows like Maury jerry springer etc. or some talk show or dating show all featuring whites blacks Latinos etc very rarely there's Asians in the media talking about sex. So yeah they're also human they also have sex just as much they just keep it private due to their culture and how they were raised.

[COCOCHANEL]

people have way too much sex here in japan. many men are very forward about it. not ashamed at all.

men receiving oral sex is the norm. there are so many love hotels. people who can't get a hotel room have sex in tiny karaoke rooms, little cubicles in internet cafes, private rooms in restaurants, etc.

[Bandit74]

Really? I thought Japan had a reputation for being more sexually reserved :/

[COCOCHANEL]

@bandit74 yes really. and no.

[Bandit74]

so japanese people are just as promiscuous as americans?

[COCOCHANEL]

@bandit74 i don't know what the majority of americans are like, i personally have never dated a non-japanese/korean. i do know that america was founded by puritans and that is still ingrained. many americans are religious and that plays a big part in making decisions about a lot of things including sex. all things considered, i would say japanese are more sexually liberated. most just don't go around bragging about it. it's a private matter.

[Bandit74]

I don't know, on this list Japan is listed as being towards the bottom :/

bigthink.com/.../how-promiscuous-are-you-take-our-online-test

original source here...
https://www.bradley.edu/dotAsset/163308.pdf

[COCOCHANEL]

@bandit74 i just know that people have sex everywhere and try to do it inconspicuously and don't talk about it but yeah when you go to internet cafes people are full on fucking and there is no ceiling in those cubicles. i also have dated over a hundred (not all leading to sex) japanese men age 18-31 and they are very sexual. i have not dated western men so i don't know about them.

[Bandit74]

Do you think it varries depending on where in Japan or is it mostly the same

[COCOCHANEL]

@bandit74 i think it's the same. the guys i've dated were from all over japan. they were all very sexual and the man always initiated in my experience. i didn't accept all obv.

[Bandit74]

What about the girls tho? Are they just as sexual?

[COCOCHANEL]

@bandit74 yes because they are the ones having sex and/or working in the sex industry which is huge. casual sex is common.

[Tarvold]

@Bandit74 dude... @COCOCHANEL is right... Americans are prudes in comparison to the Japanese. It's not even close.

[Bandit74]

@Tarvold Did you look at the links I posted?

[Tarvold]

@Bandit74 Yes, and I chose to ignore it because, well... my personal experience strongly suggests otherwise.

[Tarvold]

@Bandit74 I mean, listing Taiwan down at the bottom of the list? C'mon... that's so bullshit... Taiwan, as a country, is one giant strip club, and their men bring entire sex industries with them wherever they go.

[Bandit74]

@Tarvold
Do you agree with what the 10th post says about Japan?

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-27128.html

[Tarvold]

@Bandit74 The whole "Japanese people lie" thing is a very crude way white people misunderstand the subtleties of Japanese culture. It's not so much that they lie, it's that until they trust you, they'd rather be polite and give you a coded-truth. Likewise, the rest of that post is rather crude in it's interpretation of Japanese sexual behavior. The truth is, Japanese sexual culture is so complex that white people will need at least a decade of study before they can even BEGIN to understand it. I'm not Japanese, and it's been a long time since I last updated myself on their culture and it wouldn't be fair for me to dive into the specifics and explain it on their behalf. All I can tell you is that it is WAY deeper than what your sources cover, and possibly beyond what you can imagine.

[Bandit74]

@Tarvold Could you explain what it was like the at the time you last time you updated yourself? What about the chinese, are they more promiscuous than Americans too?

[Tarvold]

@Bandit74 Yeah, look... in my opinion, almost everybody is more promiscuous than Americans. The thing about Americans is that there is a very deep rooted puritanical culture on top that, there is a large population of a highly radical, extreme branch of Christianity. So even though you guys have the world capital of porn, on balance, America's attitude on sex is still stuck in the middle ages. Let's put it another way, people in America is more conservative about sex now than they were in the 60s. Think about that. Your grandma's generation was more promiscuous than yours. On top of that, "interracial porn" in America is still a fetish. It's still stuck within the definition of black and white people. If you just browse through the "fetish" section of Japanese porn, even on the bluray covers alone, there are things there that will cause riots in the States. Again, completely different league.

[Bandit74]

@Tarvold Ok, well how promiscuous are Japanese people compared to other countries besides the US?

[Tarvold]

@Bandit74 Like I said earlier, I'm not qualified to talk on behalf of the Japanese people.

[Bandit74]

@Tarvold so the only thing you feel qualified to say is that they are more promiscuous than americans?

[Tarvold]

@Bandit74 Yeah... pretty much.

[Pooping]

How do you know they stopped having sex? not being able to hear or see them doesn't mean they don't do it anymore.

[Lynx122]

I never saw or heard my parents haveing sex in my life but I assume they did, at least at some point. When I was about 14-15 their marriage died and after that my mom was just shouting all the time. For some reason they stayed together for years! My dad moved out when I was like 19 and they got divorced maybe a year later. I have no clue about your parents. Maybe they're hiding it well or maybe they just don't have sex who knows? :) But I think the generalisations you're making are a bit of a stretch I'm sure there's some that have lots of sex.

[amazon-boy]

lmaooo.. WTF!!!

[fondue]

Man don't worry about it. That's some shit you don't have to think too hard on lmao.

[MrNameless]

Depends how they were raised. If they were raised to not be in relationship based on love, probably not all that much.

Doesn't mean they can't feel sexual attraction in general though.

[Answerdude]

Some do, I'm sure. I've known a couple Asian girls whom I'm sure would never stop having sex at a certain age or for any other reason.

[Lyndsielee666]

I'm Asian and a parent and I have sex every night lmfao

[JonJames]

OK but what about you?

[cavmanier]

They probably do sometimes but have scheduled it in order to hide it from you.

[zorro8888]

Isn't saying "I'm not trolling" one of the key signs to recognize for a troll?

[love-jesus]

dude she could be 12 who knows

[zorro8888]

@love-jesus Don't think 12 year olds think too much about how much oral and anal sex their parents have.

[Mesonfielde]

I'm pretty sure they do. Maybe not all of them, but some of them certainly do.

[springocelot]

i think a lot of people think that because the thought of their parents having sex for any other reasons is gross in their mind

[CHARismatic110]

Well you're alive sooo...

[abundantlyrich]

You can keep a watch over them everynight

[BelleGirl21]

Married to an adian and have lots of sex. Of course we make sure to tell the kids about it...

[cavmanier]

They totally want to know o_o'

[Intraluminal]

So what do you think happens in interracial marriages?

[f_ckmeup]

I bet they secretly get freaky af

[This_is_my_username]

cool story!

[Marttinez]

i think you're probably right 100% lol

[Katy16]

I'd assume they do

[Love-travel]

I think so. My parents aren't Asian so I don't really know.

[bvvvt]

wow lol

[Tarvold]

Yes. Yes. they do, and they're very good at it.

And you're wrong about Asian people not having oral. Oh, very, very wrong.

[YingKim]

Good question ! 🤔

[love-jesus]

you may know the answer to this one lol