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Why does my boyfriend not want me to get a boob job even if he loves big boobs?

I have thick legs with a nice butt (I work my butt out religiously) and a slim waist, and my biggest insecurity is my small chest (32b.) I know for a fact my boyfriend likes big boobs. He used to save pictures of celebrities, models etc with huge boobs, whenever he watches porn it's always something about the girl having big boobs, he had a one night stand before he knew me and she had massive tits, but none of his ex girl friends did. So clearly, he's not shallow and dates women for their personality but clearly he loves big boobs. I became so insecure after I found this out and it drives me and him nuts. Don't get me wrong my boyfriend is very sweet. for example, this is how my insecurity drives both me and him nuts. He called me today saying that he was staring at my pictures and that he missed me so much. He said he was staring at my instagram pictures (he doesn't do instagram but he knows my user id). But I know he's went on instagram specifically to look at other girls with huge tits (he doesn't know that I know). So I said things like "you sure you didn't log on to look at other girls?" and just stupid things like this. He also always tells me that I'm beautiful and that I look good but I always feel like he's lying and "being nice." I have been looking into fat transplant (inject fat out of unwanted parts of your body and transfer into your breasts) so it will feel and look natural (cause it's just adding fat instead of putting a foreign object into your boobs). He is against it and says "I don't need it," even though he clearly loves big chested girls and I'm not big chested (32b). guys, can you explain? also what do you think about this overall situation?
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He also tells me that he loves my beautiful face and that he thinks my body is incredibly fit and attractive, i have a lot of guys who hit on me and that will make me feel confident temporarily. But the. Ill just think about the girls in the pictures he saved who were big chested and that will upset me again..
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  • I know a bunch of guys who have (or had, when they were younger) pictures of expensive high-end sports cars (Ferraris, Lamborghinis, etc.) on their wall. Even today, if one drives by, they stop and stare. It's fun to fantasize.

    But I doubt any of those guys would BUY a Ferrari as their daily driver even if they could afford to. The fantasy is much better than the reality of living with an exotic sportscar day in and day out. Most guys buy a more practical vehicle - a Camry or a truck or SUV.

    This is kind of the same thing. Your guy might enjoy fantasizing about girls with big tits, but in REAL life, he'd much rather be with a girl he actually likes and is compatible with. And he isn't going to want you messing with your already-great body in some misguided effort to please him (especially because these surgeries often make it worse instead of better, and because they are a health risk).

    Your boyfriend likes YOU, and for a whole lot more than your tits. Yes, he's still a guy, and enjoys looking at other girls, but he wants to BE with YOU. He CHOSE *YOU*.

  • A Person Can Love Big Boobs, And At The Same Love Small Boobs! The Fact That He Tells You That He Loves Your Body The Way It Is, Tells Me He Is Being Sincere. He Loves Your Body And Your Small Boobs, In The Same Way He Wants You To Love And Accept Your Body.
    I Absulutely Love Small, Tiny And Flat Boobs.
    My Wife Has 36DD Boobs, I Love Her Big Boobs, They Are Perfect.
    Even If She Was Small Or Flat Chested I Would Love Them!
    Fake Boobs Are Gross, They Look Fake, Feel Fake, Cos They Are Just That, Fake!
    Love Your Small Boobs, Accept Them!
    Do Not Get The Injections In Your Boobs, You Are Perfect The Way You Are.

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  • I love big boobs, but the girl I like has small boobs and she isn't the best looking, but I like her regardless for who she is. I have friends who still have hidden porn and pictures on their phones, and yet they still love their girlfriend. Even though they're on the small side.

  • Natural boobs will win out most every time.

    • She speaks the truth.

  • (I don't like big tits at all. Specially if not natural) Maybe he has a fantasy about big tits but he doesn't like you to have that. Maybe he loves you enough to the point of not needing/wanting you to change yourself. Maybe he is afraid of surgery.

  • 32B is just about perfect for most guys. Yes, they like LOOKING at bigger ones, but NOT on their partner or girlfriend. Most guys prefer a girl to be natural without silicon bits stuffed in their boobs or butts.

    My guess is you have a good guy, who puts your personality well before what you look like. Please believe him, as it's most likely true.

    Me? My preference is for skinny 32A.

  • Well, he told you. He doesn't need it ! If he says he doesn't want you to do it, then he doesn't want you to do it. It's as simple as that. What if you liked really big dicks. You like looking at them, watching porn about them, etc. What if your boyfriend came to you and told you that he is about to have a dick transplant. He is gojng to have his dick removed and have a bigger one replace it. What would you think/say?
    You are used to your boyfriend and love him the way he is. You don't want him to change to comply to your every whim, especially when your fixation may change at any moment.
    You didn't have big boobs and yet, he chose you. If he wanted big boobs, he would have chosen someone else.

  • Fake boobs don't feel the same and most don't look natural.

    • thats the case of implants, what I was interested in were fat transplants in which they'll age naturally like any other boob because boobs are made of fat.

    • I've never heard of that. Well if you can take the fat form places you wanted to lose it from than that sounds like a win/win.

  • after docs do their thing, even w/o problems (big risk)
    they are not the same = ugh
    yours will be bigger in time, with weight, preggy, et al
    and feel blessed his love overcomes his little head lust

    with that in hand, most gals would feel confident to allow him heavy hanger porn pre-/during sex with them, whatever lights his afterburners, so long as you get all his sex fallout from that

  • I know its hard. But try to accept his love and his acceptance. Big boobs turn guys on the same way a Lamborghini turns people on. It doesn't mean you want one. That's a bad analogy but I'm having trouble coming up with a good one. Maybe looking at a heavily muscled dude? You might admire the muscles but would you want to be with him?

  • fake boobs are actually worse than small ones. they don't look natural, nor do they behave like boobs are supposed to.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJqXlcCueb4

  • Maybe he finds your size perfect as it is, even though bigger boobs on other women still catches his eye. Nothing wrong with it.

    Natural is usually the best way to go for most guys, fake boobs just aren't the same.

  • hmm he is definitely not a bad guy. He might be tip toeing around you a little too much meaning that he isn't confident in himself. Or he is genuinely an awesome boyfriend. Anyways I think you should go get them and surprise him or whatever. Of course it is your body so don't get them just for him obviously. Anyways i believe that you could genuinely have a brilliant time with him if you knock out that bullshit of questioning him all the time, from a guys perspective it shows you lack confidence and its a pain in the ass.

    • What do you mean by "tip toing" ?

    • Lol after all that, thats all you got? you assumed i was saying like he was hiding something... Good god woman. Im saying he lacks confidence around you because you probably get bitchy quite quickly, so he backs down quickly to keep a happy wife or unfortunately girlfriend in this case.

  • I don't care if my girlfriend is flat as a wall, no boob jobs unless she lost one of them to something like breasts cancer

    • Maybe you're just not a boob guy to begin with?

    • That's not even why though If someone is so insecure to where they have to get artificial breasts, it's an immediate dealbreaker

  • I completely understand where he's coming from. He may find big boobs attractive, but he also clearly finds you attractive without them. And I, like a lot of guys, don't like people changing the way they are, especially not for a guy. Is he against tattoos too?

    • No just against plastic surgery

  • Keep it natural ma lady.

  • Just because he likes looking doesn't mean he needs that. He would probably rather have a natural woman than one with bigger boobs.

    And I would agree with that. So quit being insecure.

  • Because the most thing men hates is fake boobs... trust me!!

  • fake tits dont age well if your getting them big yours r pretty much perfect size dont ruin em ay

  • I'm sure he wants to be ultra rich too... does that mean he is getting that? I really doubt it. Sometimes people want things, but at the same time they can be happy without it. and FYI... 32B isn't THAT small... it's great for strapless dresses and bras... just saying:)

  • He probably does want to add to this

    "i have a lot of guys who hit on me and that will make me feel confident temporarily. But the. Ill just think about the girls in the pictures he saved who were big chested and that will upset me again.."

    I mean it already sounds like you have a sexy body and big boobs are great small boobs are great and YES big fake boobs are great. Have to question the guys that don't think so. But the 1 certain thing you can take away from this comment is the common denominator boobs are great. If you have boobs you just won. Now if you feel you need to be made to feel great and more guys hitting on you is going to do that. Sure, a set of big bolt ons will turn and raise some heads.
    So what's the next thing that will make you feel great when the attention from your braless strolls around the town isn't making you feel as great anymore... Start flirting when your hit on? Then out of nowhere you'll get a compliment and asked to show them.
    This has a high probability of happening because even if you do get big oily boobs and he ( we) all love them... He's still going to like other big boobs, small boobs.

    Ron white said it best" once you see 1 pair of boobs...

    You wanna see them all"

    32B is a great boob. Perky and built for speed. You she oil them up with pride daily. If you ever feel down or question your boobs"🤤" facto then know this. When you walk into a restaurant and there are 10 guys there, you have 4 of 5 of them like 🤤. I'm not saying the numbers couldn't be better cause they could be. But there's not much you can do to change the one guy that was looking at his phone or the other one that dropped his fork.

    4/5 🤤... Solid numbers

  • because he likes you just the way you are

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