His little head is quite the salesman... self satisfying and wanting to live the porno dream seen so many times.
True that condoms will add lube and some even keep it in place when your tight virgin holes tries to "skin it off" his "too large" (it seems) pole that is splitting you in half, all the while he's not caring about your pain, the little head saying she will get used to it, then enjoy it? His big head will be telling him you'll be impressed (via pain) at how "large" he is and the little head says b/c of this, you'll begin to pay homage to it.
When real time porn stars are asked to do this, of course they use lubed condoms to help ease it in and mitigate STDs but they also do like doc prostate exams and shoot lube way up in there and smear it all around entry. Why? Even a pro finds pain in such entry and if he doesn't cum fast due to inevitable tight hole... he'll go nuts & be ramming you like it's a battle in order to get off.
What the gays prefer (they say) is silicone but this is for bare backing, else silicone erodes condoms & other sex toys - disintegration. So water based + condom seems to be your trip and safest way. Wait until the correct lube arrives = MAXIMUS... Amazon/others sell this
Now... the 35 vs 19 indicates he's using your body to fulfill all this little head dreams.. what do YOU get out of all this? What will you do & how will you feel after he replaces you with another sex toy? Is this love, lust, what?
Um I actually approached him and I want to do it... tf
The friction thing is NOT BS and if you wanted to feel him best and he you then no condom... some guys actually say her anul felt better than her vag, which seems to me so sad ... and leading to gay thoughts? kidding Yes, you both should try it at least once sober.
Even if it prevents friction, if he simply rams it in you then you will get hurt, you will have tiny tears on your anal sphincter, and it won't feel good for you.
If you prepare for anal properly then you won't even need lube.
Give yourself an enema (this is what porn stars do)
Clean out all the bad stuff.
Make him play with your anus with his fingers way before going to the penis part of the act.
If your anus is played with properly, it will relax and open and no matter how big it might be, it will fit no problem and your anus will release a lube.
Do u think the whole prevent friction thing sounds like b. s? That he just doesn't wanna mention other things? Or could it be true?
Chances are he wants to wear a rubber because it's anal and he doesn't want to risk getting stuff on his junk.
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Do u think the prevents friction thing sounds like b. s or could there be truth to that?
It's the lube, not the condom, that reduces friction.
@AustinMan It's the lube, indeed.
Nothing really "prevents" friction there. It lessens it. And you will need lots of lube, which will be more than a lubed condom has. So whether the condom is lubed or not, have more lube handy.
Use tons of lube... I prefer vaginal sex anytime
No you need LOTS of lube.
Maybe he doesn't want feces on his John Thomas?
Yeah! That's what I was thinking because I've heard of that happening. But then like I kind of don't want to do it because the point was I want to feel him. Do u think he whole friction this sounds like b. s? Or could it be true?
Fact is that the better condoms are lubed. I'd advise against trying dry anal sex. Unprotected anal sex can cause a guy to get prostatis and UTI. I would not do it. ( prostatis can cause male infertility)
Clearly he's prob being discreet. Actually do u think I should ask him? Like y does he want to use it now?
I just use spit
anal sex is about 4 times more likely to transmit HIV than vaginal intercourse.
i believe it's about 1:600(anal) vs 1:2500 (vaginal)
perhaps that's the reason
No, not really. There isn't enough lube on a condom for it to be effective. Go without a condom and use plenty of lube.
The friction thing is wrong. It's actually less friction with a bare, lubed penis.
Bullshit. Condoms have nothing to do with it. Lube reduces friction. Tell him to use lube only. Lots of lube. And start slow. Maybe just a finger in first. Then two. Then his lubed up penis
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