Girls (and Guys): How do you feel about being anally gaped?

[Electric_Dreams]

Yeah so I love anal sex, am open minded enough that I will willingly hear the input of bottom guys (actually would like to try it myself one day), and am fascinated by the psychology of sex, so here I am. So for those of you who have been gaped, how does it make you feel? Does it hurt? Does it feel good? Does it turn you on? And if so physically, psychologically or both? I mean I'm really fascinated by those really wild, dominant girls who love to be in control during sex, but then also love anal (regular bottom, not pegging) and get really turned on by being gaped. I met someone like that.. it's like.. it goes against all their sexual passions, they go from loving being in control to being totally at the mercy of the top, having their ass dominated and controlled by them, showing off the inside of their ass (which for the record is what I love about being the top in this particular avenue of anal sex). here's another thing I'm interested in though, does it make you feel embarrassed? Or awkward? Especially when it's the first time ever that you've got the top literally staring wide eyed inside your ass.. like you feel really self conscious? Especially if you let off a few farts? I was with one girl who seemed really embarrassed, but I reassured her that I found it insanely hot which I think helped haha.

[roxy_362]

I am a bottom gay man, and have been fucked in the ass countless times. However, I don't have a particular interest in gaping, the sensation of anal sex can be enough. As far as I'm concerned, no other act of sex is comparable to getting penetrated.

There are many different acts that can be associated with getting dominated. So, can you identify the cause of your fascination with gaping?

[Electric_Dreams]

I think mostly I just find it really hot when a really gorgeous, stunning, classy looking lady is doing something so dirty and naughty. I'm a mega non conformist and I think I'm starting to realise that my vehement non conformity in most facets of existence can offer explanation as to why I'm particularly turned on by unconventional, more "taboo" sex fetishes. As if I don't even conform to regular sex.. well I do but I don't conform to a "regular", vanilla sex life in general.

[roxy_362]

I understand very well, and can certainly relate to your drive for non-conformity. I think more people than the ones who admit it actually have similar drives. Oftentimes, sex can be a conduit to rebel against the norms of the society... In that case, the actual sex act becomes somewhat of a prop for something deeper in the psyche... I mean, in all cases, sex starts and ends in the brain; but, in what you're describing, I think the psychological factor is even more blatant.

[Electric_Dreams]

It's my psychological analysis of how awesomely naughty what is happening is that gets me off in the end, helps me finish, not the physicality. That much I can confirm.

[Anonymous]

I find anal too painful to enjoy, and I've tried many times.

[Electric_Dreams]

So, out of curiosity why have you tried many times? Did you simply try many times to please men/a man? Or are you psychologically turned on by anal and would really like to be able to do it? Or something else?

[Opinion Owner]

Mostly for the guy. And partially because I'm a curious person and after time goes by I figure, "zig what the hell... May as well try again."

[Anonymous]

I take a big shit and my ass is sore for hours. Why would anyone want to intentionally stretch it into some gaping hole? That sounds terrible in every way I can see something as terrible!

[AndyOh]

I don't see what the embarrassment is about a gaping asshole after you pull out. And usually, that lasts a bit then the anus closes up.

[Skadouchebag]

I think guys have gotten too obsessed with anal sex. Just last week I stumbled across a gif on tumblr of a woman shoving a cupcake up her asshole, and it wasn't even a fetish blog!

[LateNightss]

Gimme that red sock baby.

[Mr2kinky]

I haven't had a girl to do it but I find it hot too.. I find it hotter if she gapes her ass open and fists it as well or inserts stuff.. Makes my dick insanely hard!

Now I myself never desire to gape my ass

[Anonymous]

Not into gaping but I love deep anal penetration
both giving and receiving, I'm bi with a preference for guys actually, I now won't have sex with a girl unless it's anal only.
don't much care for the control/mercy crap though