My boyfriend wants to try anal sex, any tips?

[Littlemiss16]

My boyfriend wants to try anal I ain't done it before but I'm up it problem is he has a big cock and I have a tight butt any tips for opening without pain?

[AndyOh]

Lots of foreplay with your booty, loosen up with toys if you have any, fingers, tongue. Make sure you are cleaned out too.
Get a good lube, and go slow and easy, lots of communication too.
It sounds like a lot to deal with, but it can be a lot of fun and after a while you might find it is great and you will have your routine down.

[Littlemiss16]

I've noticed with lube it stings because it stretching the hole and without gradually getting use to how deep you can handle it , I've tried opening it up with a cucumber but wasn't getting enywhere

[AndyOh]

Try a zucchini which is smaller, to get used to something going in. Washed well of course. Lube should not sting. I recommend Anal Glide by Doc Johnson, which stays slippery.

[AndyOh]

Thanks for the MHO. I hope the advice helped and you two are having fun in the anal land.

[Jackblue]

You don't want to do that believe me. I know because the doctor did an exam up my butt, it is extremely uncomfortable to have something shoved in there. Your body will percieve it as poop and will likely discharge.

[Littlemiss16]

I know it feels funny at the moment but when it gets all the way in and is open it will be okay I want to know how it feels to have a organism form anal

[TazWax]

There is going to be some pain, but use a bunch of lube and when he pushes in you push out.

[madiangel]

buy tools to clean yourself first
get some lube
and it will all be ok, very easy

[GingerGuy]

Lots and lots of lube. He has to enter you slowly and little by little until he's fully in. Even then you are likely going to experience some pain or discomfort but this is the best way.

[deadoftheblade]

How bout no

[reptocarl]

Lots of lube

[Joc4Position]

Use non oil based lube. Probably should buy you a anal plug and start with that first.

[jakeofalltrades]

lots of lube, and him going slow

[Mr2kinky]

Lots of lube... Let him finger ur ass first, take it slow, then maybe us a dildo smaller than his dick for a bit then go for it... Nice and slow though..

[abc--123]

Google anal sex guides. There are plenty of helpful step by step guides to make you first time as enjoyable as possible

[Hammer_of_Thor]

don't do it

[Littlemiss16]

I don't see why not its something new to experience more options in the bedroom I've been with my boyfriend for 3years and is very close to him and trust him more than enyone so if happy to have my first time with him

[controlleddecent]

lube and go slow how big is his cock? you might want him to start with fingers.

[Talksik6]

Use butt plugs and a good anal lube

[humourtumor]

I would suggest the best way is not to have anal!
No pain no gain..

[Anonymous]

definitely use lube. try your finger or a sharpie first. Then work your way through the vegetables, lol. Maybe try a carrot, then a cucumber, then a banana, then a bigger banana, then a bigger cucumber, then make a salad.

Good luck!

[Opinion Owner]

I guess a banana isn't a vegetable.

[Anonymous]

well you have really small ass trust me you might be so tight.. you has to use so much lube and tell him to be gentle and penetrate very slow !! you may also watch some anal porn before to know how to open your anus ! enjoy anal

[Littlemiss16]

We will keep trying step by step

[Opinion Owner]

so let me tell something about the steps?

[Littlemiss16]

Go ahead

[Opinion Owner]

lol sorry I meant for "what are the steps you would try"

[Littlemiss16]

I would try massacring your way in with the dick so it's pleasurable and less tense

[Opinion Owner]

I would say before penetration dick he might penetrate his finger and do some fucking with fingers of your ass hole

[Littlemiss16]

I just want a dick in my butt , the process is so long :(

[Opinion Owner]

yeah but don't you want pleasure? if yes then go with the process I guess that way you would enjoy Anal like pussy fucking

[Opinion Owner]

not so long just few minutes stroking with fingers and when lube goes in properly then ask him to penetrate his dick ! then it would go in easily

[Littlemiss16]

Yes I guess so x

[Opinion Owner]

if you are really so tight he will cum very quick trust me

[Opinion Owner]

mmm that sounds hot

[Littlemiss16]

Hehe thanks

[Opinion Owner]

oh my god your new pic is so hot... dam sexy

[Littlemiss16]

Thank you

[Opinion Owner]

what about u?

[Anonymous]

Lube, lots and lots of lube, and slowness

[Littlemiss16]

It hurts more when he just leaves his cock in my butt without moving then when he pokes it slowly I can only manage the head so far it's such a tricky task

[Opinion Owner]

Well thats the best I can do, it could be too wide maybe