Sexual Relationships
+1 y

Parents caught me in the act? WTF?

Alright , I am normal 20 yo girl and live with my parents , I do watch porn and like to masturbate quite often. I watch porn like every night and masturbate under my blanket. So the other day, we had no current [hence to AC or fan ] so I passed out on blanket but unfortunately forgot to lock the door. So i started watching porn and masturbate , suddenly my parents got to ask me something and walked on me. They literally saw me totally naked and it took me like 15 seconds the react on that. They knew that I was watching something unappropreate and next day i had an embarressing discussion with them. they are really pissed off on me. Hence to make myself fel better i shared it with my friends. some guy said its fine, his mom had even seen his bare boner , the guy said he has been catch masturbating like 100s of times, also my female friends said that their parents has some clue about them already[but are not caught though], DANM SERIOUSLY... MY QUESTION IS FOR every fucking person who reads this shit 1.[if you are parent] Do you parents really get pissed off if your child masturbates or watches porn? 2.[if you are a child]Have you been caught? how did you react also how did they react? 3. Also if you guys know anyone who has expirenced this tyype of shit please let me know how did they react or responded right then ,. Well in my case my dad was kinda angry on me for couple of days but didn't say much. Whereas my mom screwed me and tried to tell me how bad it is[BULLSHIT]/ I fucking love watching porn and masturbate.
0 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • 1) it would depend on several issues. One thing is age. At your age especially, as you are an adult, I wouldn't feel OK judging it and being upset. Another thing is the fact that it was in my house. A lot of parents are very put off by the fact that their children are becoming, or are already, sexual beings. Many cope with that by saying a "my house, my rules" mentality, where if you live under their roof, they expect certain behavior. This is more because you're their kid, and it is very hard for parents to accept that their children are NOT children any more, than anything else.
    a few other reasons though:
    a) they might be upset that you didn't lock your door. They may understand that you need release, but may assume that you would ensure your privacy should you need it. The fact that you left the door unlocked can be seen as disrespectful (though this is a hypocritical stance, seeing as a closed door is usually a sign of desired privacy, and they should knock anyways)
    b) they do not approve of pornography. They very well might have been more offended by the fact that you were watching porn than by anything else.
    c) they simply never wanted to see their kid in a sexual light. no matter how much you are daddy's little princess, that moment of him standing there, seeing you doing what you're doing, will be burned in his mind. it's both seeing that his baby is no longer his baby, and, God forbid, any tiny male part of him responds unconsciously in anyway to what he saw, he will feel horrifically disgusted and guilty

    I'm writing more than I intended. I think my point is across. There is nothing wrong with what you did, they should be more understanding, but I hope you realize how walking in on that can be a huge shock for them, and why.

    2) only walked in on once. exactly as I was cumming. room was dark, hands under the blanket. fantasy, not any porn or anything. sweating and rapid breathing passed off as being startled awake from a bad dream. I was 12, and mom, while not like a loony evangelical type, was pretty hard Christian. Very glad she did not know better.

    3) how to respond? tell them you're sorry for not locking your door, you didn't mean for them to ever see that. remind them that you are an adult. and if dad says anything, ask him whether he'd rather you did what you were doing, or whether you slept around. that'll shut him up.

  • I was never caught, thank god lmao (would love to get "caught" by my girlfriend only though lol). Why.. why would they be pissed at you for watching porn? Hahahhaha damn.. If it's because of religious reasons ohh.. I'm sick of hearing about those type of people! -.-' There's no reason to be pissed at your son/daughter for masturbating! It's perfectly normal and all naturale ofc.. The only thing they should be pissed off is you NOT locking your damn door lmfao Flick that clit girl and stop worrying about them! #freethehood #thenfreetheclit #thencum lel Good luck in all those awkward convos with them too..

Most Helpful Girl

  • My parents caught me one, they spanked me so hard I never did it at home again.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Do you like eating pussy from the back or front and why?
Is my mom cheating Should I tell the guy?
Do girls with ugly bodies send nudes or hot bodies usually?
Whats your body count?

What Girls & Guys Said

0 22

  • Ooh boy your mom screwed you? That makes for a bit of an exciting ending...

    Jk poor choice of words, rofl but seriously you are way too old for that to be a situation. There are escorts who are your younger than you.

    Move out as soon as possible and resolve to not be so weird or marry such a controlling man.

  • Parents try to instill moral values in their kids as they grow. Often the values are based on religious beliefs. Masturbation is considered bad by many, yet most do it. Porn can be disliked even more. So apparently your parents were bothered by your nudity in front of them, especially your father. And they were bothered by your masturbation and your watching porn. At your age you have already made up your mind on your values, so they are not going to educate you there.
    Your problem now is that you are old enough to decide for yourself, but you are still living with them in their house. You do need to respect their values in their home. Best way to respect them is to move out and live on your own. Right now, at the very least, lock your door so they cannot see what you are doing.

  • 1. (not a parent) but I think they are upset that it forces they to do their job and actually be parents, talk about uncomfortable things. I hope they learned their lesson and knock next time;-P

    2. I have once, but was covered. I just froze and my my quickly left my room.

    3. I'd go through their room and call them out on being full of shit and throw there sex toys, etc on the table... and say" so why do you have these?" Leave they home made porn playing on the living room tv.

  • I got caught twice or so but I managed to hide it more or less, my parents are chill but it would still suck to get caught.

    • Why did it take you 15 seconds? That's sooooooo long.

  • Omg that's awful haha. Was it only one parent who saw or was it both? 😂

  • I got caught by my dad when I was 15, he just laughed and closed the door. He was cool enough to keep it between us though, hate to think what mum would have done.

  • There is nothing wrong with iether activity, and parents are notorious for making a big deal out of a non issue. When I was a teenager, my parents encouraged me too masterbate, forbade me from closing the bedroom or bathroom door for privacy, claiming there was nothing to hide or be embarressed about, and went ballistic if they found anything that hinted at showing a little skin in it, furious that I thought I needed visual stimulation too masterbate, even more furious that I thought I needed privacy too masterbate, and all this, with me in my birthday suit, on my bed, getting myself in more trouble by covering my reproductive organs while being yelled at, for implying I had something too hide from them, which was disrespectful in on itself in thier eyes. Mom tolerated my girlfriend coming over after school too study with me, knowing that I wouldn't need smut too look at, for release if Brenda was making out with me, because I didn't need too look at naked pictures of girls if I was naked with a fully clothed girl who didn't mind mom's supervision of her masterbating me too ejaculation. Since mom only checked in on us from time too time, never staying and staring like a voyer, it was still preferable too her mom and older sister watching and commenting on our make out activities at her house next door, with advice on improvement in technique.
    Anyway, my folks insisted on me getting release on a regular basis, said it was healthy and natural, but gave no indication that It be sexualized in any way, and that I should be able too become aroused without visual aids, that my looking at naked girls was wrong, but their looking at my naked body was O. K., and that my being embarressed about mom and dad seeing me exposed, aroused, or in undignified situations, like being on the toilet, ejaculating, or urinating, was a sign of disrespect towards them, for some reason.
    Yea, parents are weird, and excel at making private moments weird, because it is somehow always about them, and not you or I, or anyone who feels like they are doing no one any harm by having a little privacy during a private moment.

  • I'm a parent and I NEVER would open my daughter's door without knocking andbif I walked in on her masturbating I would quietly walk out again. I also wouldn't get mad.

  • Masturbating is 100% normal. You can safely bet your mom and dad do it too.
    I have been caught a few times by my mom: she never knocked and I had no key for my room. The first time I was annoyed, next times I just shrugged.
    We never caught or son. Nobody would have been angry.
    Just to be mean: compare your birth date with your parents' marriage date. (Need I say more?)

  • 1.[if you are parent] Do you parents really get pissed off if your child masturbates or watches porn? No, because my parents were never around.

    2.[if you are a child]Have you been caught? how did you react also how did they react?
    Only during sex, they walked away.
    3. Also if you guys know anyone who has expirenced this tyype of shit please let me know how did they react or responded right then ,.
    They sat down with their parents and had a meaningful conversation stating the fact that they are 20 and still living at home, they as a girl are able to enjoy something that is seen by the rest of the world as normal.

  • I wouldn't care

    Obviously there would be a shock to seeing my child naked looking at porn and masturbating to it, but I wouldn't get mad about it. I probably wouldn't even talk about it.

    Do your thing. Just lock your door

  • I've never been caught in the act, but I forgot to clear my history once, and my mom caught me that way. It's completely normal to masturbate, and to watch porn while doing so. I'm not a parent, but if I was, I'd probably be more shocked than angry.


  • Like to chat sexual conversations be friends have fun

  • I'm a parrent. I would definitely not get mad at my daughters for watching porn and masturbating. However, it would be embarrassing to walk in on it.

  • They must be religious... dont bother just lock the door nex time and you won't have to write long paragraphs like this again

  • Follow me, I'll tell you my story.

  • I Am A Parent, Who Masturbated To Magazines At Your Age, I Never Got Caught.
    As A Parent I Expect My Kids Will Masturbate To Porn As They Are Reaching That Age.
    Whether I Catch Them Or Know About It, I Would Never Get Pissed.
    Everyone Masturbates, And Many Masturbate To Porn, Either Way Is Completely Normal.

  • You are an adult... you can do what you want now. Tell them that...

  • At least you are taking care of yourself and not getting random dick or whatever.

    I've been caught. Completely naked and I rolled over quickly, so she got a good view of my bum. We never talked about it after.
    I always knock on people's doors if they are closed. I don't know why some others don't have the same decency.

  • I was caught by parents and others in the family and friends as a child and young adult it's no big deal everyone masturbates and watches porn.
    It's no big deal on both sides.

    I have also caught as a adult younger family members their friend as well as friends kids as them of me.

    we all do it it's no big deal you just get on with it and go about your day.
    you just don't stick around you give them the privacy to finish off

Latest Questions

Do you feel bad when you watch porn sometimes?
If you recognised the person the other side of a gloryhole would you tell them?
Guy I'm with is not playing with my boobs. What should I do?
Is corn the issue?
Home >  Sexual Relationships  > Parents caught me in the act? WTF?