I can't imagine myself having sex?

[mainereed]

Im a virgin. never had anything serious with guys or boyfriend. even tho im curious about sex, i mean im curious how does it feel, not just masterbation but real sex. how it feels. But when i think about it i really can't picture myself having sex. i can't think of a guy who would ever see me and think-"hm. I wonder how she looks naked, how her touch, skin, pu**y feels, etc". Im serious. I can't imagine any man think that about Me lol can't imagine myself moaning or being naked with a man... Am i weird?

[d3licious]

You're not weird at all. Here is the thing, you see yourself differently than others do. Not that people sit around imagining you having sex but this is easier for them to do. I've never see you or anything and I can sort of imagine it. 😬

Do you get hot? Horny? I would imagine those times would be easier.

If it's an issue of attractiveness I'm sure you are. If it's an issue of you not feeling like someone will want you in that way, they will.

[mainereed]

Yeah pretty much a combination of that. I can't imagine any guy want me in a sexual way. Sure i get horny.

[d3licious]

You are beautiful and valuable just like you are. A lot of guy makes will want you as a friend and lover and to make you moan and writhe and cum. I'm sure you can imagine yourself having sex when you are both mentally and physically into it.

[mainereed]

I dont really get approached in romantic, flirty ways. they see me as friend, good person but not as a woman. you get me? some guys discuss how hot this or that girl is with me, they dont see me sexually attractive i think.

[zagor]

Once you get going at it there isn't a lot of thinking involved. It's pretty instinctive.

Plus a girl can always just lay there...

[mainereed]

But guys dont show any sign they would even touch me or date... not even talking about sex

[zagor]

Do you go out and put yourself in situations where you can meet people? It is unlikely a guy is going to be going around knocking on random doors to meet girls. And any guy who is doing that you would probably do best to avoid.

[bombamboum]

It's more of a self esteem issue then... right?
Of course, you can't really imagine the sensation until it really happens. You have to understand that we all have imperfection and we are all have own taste. I used to have a low self esteem, that changed. I do know that some men wouldn't like my body but I also know that some do. My boyfriend loves my body, yet I'm not thin and far from perfect.
Some me will think you look good naked.