I know this is really a girl question but I'll try to be helpful. Im assuming this might be both for you alone and maybe a first step for your guy. The key as adequate stimulation of your clitoris. It is very sensitive to abrasion, so you have to prepare and treat her gently.
*Wear silky panties. They aren't abrasive like cotton and almost disappear when they become wetted by nature or lotion.
*Pre-wet the whole clit area, both outside and between your lips at the top with lotion. I use aloe Vera lotion from the dollar store.
*When the rubbing begins (have him) do flat hand circles at your clit, speed and pressure as needed. The lotion will prevent chafing.1 0 0 0So the guy who you give oral to won't even finger you.
My first girlfriend I gave oral too and she wouldn't do hj even. What a coincidence.
Well she eventually... Oh actually that's still how things were when I dumped her after like 2 years. 2 years of frustration, battered self esteem and laying terribly low expectations that messed up future relationships.
If you've been together over a month, get out.0 0 0 0We've been together three years and I'm planning to marry him lol We have a bit of an odd progression with physical stuff. We didn't kiss for the first 2 1/2 years lol
Nooooooo :( Im so worried for you.
Why? I don't mind, he'll do it when he's ready.
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The fabric can make me too sensitive and raw down there, I usually lick my finger to get extra lube and go under my panties to rub. In privacy of course.
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3 5Well for me.. my lady friends love rubbing me in the undies that I wear.. they can get me aroused very quickly while I am wearing them.. they like that a lot.. and so do I
1 1 0 0If you're going to rub him, why not give a handjob
0 0 0 0I give him blowjobs, he's just not ready to do stuff to me yet and I can't seem to get off this way even though it feels good
If I was wearing underwear, then I think so.
1 0 0 0Yes, just rub it above the fabric
0 1 0 0Just rub the clit.
1 0 0 0you have a clit?
@BlueFire876 maybe
i can cum rubbing through sweatpants :P
1 0 0 0rub it with a vibrating massager
1 1 0 0Yes. That is how I get off with my clit. Without the friction, my clit is too sensitive.
0 2 0 0Prove it!
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