I'm in love with a fuckboy. Should I sleep with him anyway?

So there is a guy in our hip-hop class who smiles and blatantly stares at me from halfway across the room. One day I was practicing my dance routine with the other girls then he came grabbed my arms and twirled me. He is hot and I can't stop thinking about him. All the other girls in my class told me that he just wants to sleep with me and hits on any girl he finds attractive. I really like him and I don't care.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Nah. Sex is a major risk no matter what precautions you take and not every man is worth that risk. Fuckboys are NEVER worth that risk because if you end up pregnant, they'll make piss poor father figures and that is if they even step up and choose to be responsible. They're also more likely to give you herpes with a side of HPV.

    Find a charmer who's less likely to bring a disaster to your life.

    • or have sex but use protection...

    • @amaon-boy That sounds perfect in theory but in actual reality, no form of protection is 100% effective and there are plenty of people who used protection that didn't work. If a condom busts in the heat of the moment or isn't taken off properly, sperm can get into the vagina. There are STD's that can be transmitted through oral sex and kissing. The only way to avoid those things for sure are to just not even engage and take the risk.

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  • You might say you don't care now but afterwards when you feel attached and have feelings and get heartbroken over being used you'll likely sing a different tune.

    Girls convince themselves of this all the time and then cry afterwards wondering why... I'll tell you why. It's not rocket science.

  • If you really like him then it's not a good idea. If you're aware that he's a 'fuckboy' there's a high chance he'll just fuck you and move onto his next conquest, hurting you when you still have feelings for him. If you're prepared to deal with that, then go ahead.

  • well then if you like him and don't care then go ahead and sleep with him. see how well you feel afterwards.

    I personally won't look at him anymore, no matter how bad I want him. he's not worth it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's not love. You just want to fuck him, but your friends are saying you shouldn't. Have fun and don't tell your friends. They're not going to believe, "I'm in love with him. It just happened" excuse anyways.

    And honestly, you'll be better off not lying to yourself and telling yourself it's love. It's not love. Just some awesome sexual attraction

  • Honestly, I don't even see the point of these questions. If you want to fuck him, fuck him. If you want more but could settle for fucking him, fuck him. If you don't want meaningless sex and only want emotional bullshit followed by passionate fucking, don't fuck him. It's pretty damn simple.

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  • If you think you won't get attached then sure why not, but remember there is a reason he's called a fuckboy.

  • Ask yourself this: If I didn't fuck him, would I wish I had some day? If the answer is yes, then fuck him.

  • A) you aren't in love, you are infatuated
    B) if you don't care and just wanna get down, go for it
    C) be prepared for that "awkward" moment when he fucks the next cute girl to come to class

    If you can't be honest about A, B and C then move on from this infatuation.

  • go for it girl...

  • Another one of you females who are using fuckboy wrong. What is wrong with y'all on here?

  • Well, if you like him... fuck him.

  • As long as you don't get pissed when he ends up fucking the other girls, go for it.

  • That's what fuck boys are for.

  • If you do don't come back complaining about being played.

  • so, fuck him :)

  • Hot! just use him for sex. its so sexy!

  • Your call. Just know he'll pump and dump you.

  • Sure sex is fun go for it

  • I totally get what you’re going through. I’m also in love with a total fuckboy and have been debating whether or not I should sleep with him. Cause I don’t want to get hurt but I also really want to sleep with him lol. Some of my friends think I shouldn’t do it but other friends think I should. I think we should just go for it. For all we know it could turn into something special:)

  • Lol, sex with no strings attached if your down for it. Plus, a fuck boy is Generally the best type to have sex with, cause afterwards you don't want to ever to think or see him again. no remorse.

  • How horny are you?
    If you aren't, don't do it.

  • If you really want to sleep with him, then sure. There is nothing wrong with that. Just be careful because you may end up catching feelings for him.

  • You like him BECAUSE he gave you some attention and happened to look handsome but after you sleep with him he will not look at you once and you're the one ending up hurt !

  • What is a "fuckboy"?

    I thought you had to go to Thailand for those. Buffalo sick.

  • If you don't care and you honestly feel it won't hurt you emotionally in the long run, then go for it

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