Why do guys always want to stick stick a finger (or more) in my butt?

[Anonymous]

I always get a lot of compliments on my backside. It's on the bigger side, but round and firm so I'm lucky with that. My friends always say they're jealous of my body and I notice that guys mainly focus on that part of me (staring at the fitness, looking back when crossing on the streets, grinding in the club, etc). But is that also the reason why during sex, pretty much every guy tries something with my asshole? I only tried it a couple times, but almost all of them fried to play with it, touching it, and trying to finger it. I've been single for a long time so when I fuck, it's often casual. Yet they still try to finger it. I twice had sex on a first date, they weren't the most gentle guys, but they both fingered my ass without asking. I like it but isn't it weird to just go ahead without asking? On a first date? Is it that inviting for some reason?

[broadsword]

Yes your mostly right if your confident with your body especially your butt then you are very lucky and iam so glad for you.
A woman's bottom is very sexy and a rounded firm feminine one is beautiful and very feminine but at its core is your ass hole. this has become the new hottest thing and a woman that enjoys ass play anal and evening being rimmed is very erotic indeed.
One of the reason I enjoy anal fingering during vaginal intercourse is you can see and feel your cock through the anus wall its possible to tickle you cock rim through the vagina floor. It's supper hot to here and see a woman wiggle and moan when being anally stimulated.
Some first time sexual partners can get very excited by New partners and in the excitement get a little carried away.
It's a great question and I hope I have helped you understand it a little more.

[Anonymous]

With sex the guy's philosophy is usually to go ahead and try different things, and she'll stop you if she doesn't like it. Think about all the other things he did with you sexually without specifically asking first. The anal play is the point where you draw the line, that's all.

As to why guys like doing that, you said yourself you have a nice ass, and if he's doing you doggy, the temptation to penetrate you as much as possible is great.

[Asker]

I guess that makes sense. And yes it's true it always happens when he's fucking me doggy lol

[AustinMan]

Clearly you have an irresistible ass. Booty men also tend to be into anal. Do you enjoy it? Once all the clothes are off, a lot of men operate under that paradigm that it's easier to get forgiveness than permission.

[JonJames]

All I can say is -- get used to it. Make it work for you. There will be no "end" to it.

[Spermdumster666]

They are mining for nuggets of brown gold.

[TripleAce]

They feel entitled to do what they want because you already crossed that line by sleeping with them. At this point nothing is really awkward when your butt naked in front of each other going at it like there's no tomorrow

[DrKran]

Without asking? Yes this is rather strange.

[oldanddecrepid]

I guess they are expecting you to say something to them rather than just simply as permission. Perhaps they think it will kill the mood if they ask.

[singlebee]

Because a nice ass is a nice ass... :-)

[usernameidgaf]

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[abc--123]

The asshole is an important part of sex

[Anonymous]

Can't explain timing but three things come to mind. One is that "we" think teasing your anus will give you pleasure. Another is simply the naughtiess aspect of it. A third may be the dominance aspect of doing something against your will but below the threshold of rape.
You do seem to like casual sex and is received as available to take liberties guys wouldn't if you held them to a higher standard.

[Anonymous]

you have a finger-stickable asshole i guess... .