I suppose it depends on the guy. My boyfriend doesn't always cum. Sometimes it can be a few days before he does - and we have some loooong sessions even when it's a quickie. At first I thought I was doing something wrong but he reassured me it's just something that's normal for him. Now it doesn't bother me (unless I'm really gagging for a mouthful or something). I know I don't always cum, not because I can't but because sometimes I just want the sex not the finish. He's obviously enjoying himself so I just go with it. Only ground rule is I won't swallow if he hasn't cum for a couple of days as there's usually enough to float an arc!
Like he needs to take two days off work for a sex marathon! I'll bring the protein shakes and water! ;)
The only man I've ever met that had a hard time cumming, constantly jerked off (2, 3 times a day). Fixed that by agreeing neither of us would "do ourselves" for just under 3weeks.
He came no problem the next time we had sex. -Victory. ^.^
awesome
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It doesn't feel good, that's for sure. I can't help but get a little bitchy when i don't get any cum. But sometimes it does happen. Sometimes it can take a little longer than usual or maybe his cock will go soft. If he's not able to cum the first time, we'll try gain a little later in the morning. If he's still not able to cum, we'll try again the next morning as usual.
i like the trying again parts
It has never happened before, so I would wonder what I'm doing wrong.
you won't have done anything wrong.
Never had that happen, but I'd probably blame myself a little. My boyfriend couldn't get it up once because he overdosed on allergy meds, and when it happened my mind instantly went 'my fault' even though i knew it wasn't.
I've got your issue though, so typically it's me who can't cum.
awww i'm sorry
If he is inside me I only feel his twitching, but not his cum inside, if his cum comes in touch with my skin, its warmth is awesome feeling to me
thats so hot
This is it, the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth
still really hot the way you describe it.
I hate it. It makes me feel like im useless and i can't pleasure him. In my mind, if he hasn't cummed then I've failed in my mission, and i won't stop until he has or he stops me. 😕
its good that you keep trying but i don't think it would be your fault. i know for me i enjoy the motion of the ocean if you catch my drift.
Basically like a gigantic failure and a horrible wife. I always get him there, always. But there were like two times I failed and I put it completely on myself. Like 'Did I do something wrong? Am I unattractive? Did I not set the right mood?'But I really shouldn't because his track record with me doesn't even come close, his track record doesn't even exist yet. Still though, I ooze insecurity.
awww, i'm sorry. as a guy who as never cum during sex, i don't think its anything to do with you. i would put it all on me but not brave enough to go to the doctor.
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