Get Use To It, Most Women Lie To Men About Cumming.
Mostly To Spare The Guy His Feelings Getting Hurt Because He Failed To Make Her Cum.
My Wife Will Always Tell Me The Truth, We Both Know We Are Human And It Does Happen.
However My Wife And I Are So Insync That Her Not Cumming Is Rare, Her Cumming Less Than 10 Times Is Rare.
In Most Cases We Go Back To Foreplay And Try Again, And She Always Cums Multiple Times.
You Might Want To Talk To Her, Tell Her How You Feel When She Lies About Cumming, Tell Her It Happens No Big Deal, But Tell Me The Truth.
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She maybe came but didn't orgasm. Some women can do that, they will feel a cumming sensation and get wetter, but it wasn't a full orgasm. Probably not a lie, chill dude.
She told me "she lied not to hurt my feelings"...
Maybe you're putting too much pressure on her in some way and she got anxious and lied because she cared about you and wanted to make you feel good? Either way chill dude, stressing out about the situation will only make it worse.
Well she can lie to someone else cause these white lies are pissing me off.
I'm sure she just didn't wanted to hurt you. Sometimes it's not easy to give us an orgasm and somehow we feel pressioned to cum.
We can feel when the orgasm is not going to happen anymore. However, this doesn't mean it didn't felt good. We still had a good time and pleasure. Personally I don't need to always have an orgasm in order to enjoy and be satisfied. And most of the times when I can't reach orgasm it's my own fault, because I suck at communicating.
Ops, I meant "pressed", not "pressioned". ignore my typos T_T
Usually we say we have to hurry a guy along... it could be you were hurting her after a while or anything and rather than hurt your feelings say she came...
I know these little lies hurt but most women do it at some point... just trust she hasn't had a bad time or not enjoyed it!
I would suggest investing in a clit vibrator and playing together, then it will be better and more fun and guarantees an orgasm :)
For some women it's hard to get off. After a while it gets boring. Now that's no reason to lie, but for some girls it makes it easier just to be done. I agree it hurts more in the long run, especially if he finds out you lied
Tell her if she communicates with you and tells you what feels best for her you can make her cum. If she doesn't tell you what she likes how are you to know?
She told me "she lied not to hurt my feelings"...
What the hell does that mean?
Not hurt his feelings that he wasn't 'good enough' to make her orgasm. I've heard that before. But yes, it's all about communications. Tell her that you want to give her what she needs, how she needs it. Let her know that your feelings aren't hurt one way or the other, but you want her to be happy.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!a lot of women have a hard time getting off. she obviously knew that it wasn't going to happen for her, and she didn't want you to feel bad or think that her inability to orgasm had anything to do with you.
You have done the right thing by confronting her. Get a female orgasmometre detector to keep tap on her actual orgasm. :)
I agree with the Asker, and not with any of the Responders, some of whom imply that this is somehow your fault. On the contrary, you were fingering her because you were interested in her pleasure. You also confronted her with your suspicion that she had dissembled, and you communicated to her that your feelings were hurt. I put this at her feet. She may have lied in order to protect your feelings, but it should be clear by now that her strategy is not at all helpful. It's time for her to grow up and be as courageously honest with you as you've been with her. If she can't, I would seriously consider moving on to someone who is capable of more honesty.
Openly talk to her about it. I've always found it hot when a girlfriend/boyfriend would show me how they want things done to them
You have to be willing to accept that maybe she won't or can't come sometimes. I will tell you though that women who can't come also tend to have low sex drives and will make you very dissatisfied sexually as wives.
Advice? Yes.
Upskill yourself so that she doesn't have to lie.
Well to be honest it was the 4th time that day of sex and fingering
She's just trying to be nice. Just tell her you want the truth no matter how hard
lol she tried to make you happy so dont mind that i think
get over it women lie about orgasms to either make guys feel better or to get guys to stop fucking them
i think she was trying not to hurt your feelings she most likely wants to cum for u
Practice makes perfect my friend; )
She may have wanted you to stop but didn't want to hurt your feelings. I'd let it slide but that's just my 2 cents.
She should of just told me to stop and said she was tired, but then lie to me instead.
She thought she was being nice. I would just tell her that that made you feel worse so in the future she should try to communicate with you a bit better. How long have you guys been getting intimate? I feel like honesty in that area sometimes takes a little while... everyone is trying to look good and not hurt any ones feelings cause sex can be a sore spot of a lot of people. It doesn't take a lot to shut some people down.
What do you mean by "shut people down"
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