Are all men secretly bi curious? like secretly if no one will ever find out will you sleep with the same sex?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

Not at all. If you could read attraction levels on a meter, men would read a zero on mine - the needle wouldn't budge. From a sexual attraction point of view, men simply don't exist - they are non-entities. While women are endlessly attractive and fascinating.

I'm not suggesting that every guy is like me - obviously some men feel differently - but I am absolutely and completely heterosexual.

It's also the case, as many studies have shown, that men's sexuality is much more binary (either totally straight or totally gay), with FAR fewer "in-betweens", than women's sexuality, which is much more fluid. That doesn't mean that some women aren't completely hetero - some definitely are - but women are bisexual about 12 times the rate that men are.

[Asker]

I agree.

[AmongTheApples]

Not a chance. I have zero attraction to other men. You can argue that it's society conditioning and that men's sexuality might become more fluid in future generations as Hollywood depicts male/male relationships more often since you can make a case for that being why women's sexuality seems to have become more fluid. But for me and most of the men in my generation, I'm completely heterosexual and it's far too late for that to ever change.

[Asker]

Lol.. ok a, okay damn calm down. I believe you lol.. nice response. I felt ur passion

[Asker]

However it's that one thing, well curiosity. . Curiosity killed the cat.. lmfaoooo no pun intended but seriously, not if anyone finds out..

[AmongTheApples]

No idea what you're talking about. I'm not upset at all. I explained what you asked. And yes, I picked up that for some reason you decided to insult me and insinuate that I'm really gay, but I'm not and I don't care if you want to believe that I am or say that I am.

[Asker]

Well that's all that matters is you don't give a crappie what others feel, how ever im making very clear that us women are very observant we notice things too. And the way life is seeming that now a days a lot of men are in to man on man sex whether secretly or not

[AmongTheApples]

"Im making it very clear that us women are very observant we notice things too." Lol sounds as if you are trying to threaten me for some odd reason. That sounds like wishful thinking and confirmation bias. There have been a number of studies that have shown most men's sexuality does not fluctuate. That might change in future generations, but it probably won't be for awhile yet.

[PervyBeauty]

I have seen many guys being bicurious... You litterally mentioned bicurious and not bisexual.. then it goes without saying that they are just curious and not sexualy attrated and why the fuck willll they sleep around.
To your curiousity... My male friends are bicurious , they do have mutual masturbation ,, And to the most they touch each other;'s erection thats it,, no sleeping

[Asker]

Sooooo, what? are you agreeing with me and your saying that you two believe that most men contemplating same sex tendency. ? What's your point by saying that, cause it sounds like you may be agreeing

[PervyBeauty]

I am saying that you mentioned [ like secretly if no one will ever find out will you sleep with the same sex? ] which says that you are asking us wheather they would sleep with each other or not. being bicurious means only curious about their body parts and not wanting to sleep

[BambooforPanda]

It's complicated to consider. There is a lot of homophobia among men that can go so deep they might repress and therefore be unaware of their own desires. That said I am certain there are men, and a lot of them, who are fully comfortable with their sexuality and the sexualities of others that have absolutely no interest in men.

[Dulcedulcexoxo]

i always find this interesting because my gay friends always say they get "straight "men especially when they have on a full face and wig.

[Asker]

Mt friend says the same thing

[Dulcedulcexoxo]

this is why you always make sure you use protection. HIV rates is far too high and only hetting higher in the LGBT community.

[madhatters4]

no all men are not secretly bi.

[Asker]

I don't know i beg to differ

[madhatters4]

do you have any evidence to support your claim? it's cool to have an opinion but without research, evidence, proof, etc. it's just an opinion

[Redshift]

I'd rather stick my shlong in a hornet's nest. Most men dislike gays simply because we find the idea revolting.

[Dandeus]

being revolted by the idea of sex with a man is no reason to dislike others who do it.

[Redshift]

@Dandeus Maybe. I've never spoken against anyone who has different tastes and I've always tried not to judge people for their own choices but I just can't respect such a person. No offense.

[mistixs]

The anal sex part, you mean? Well... many straight people engage in anal.

[Redshift]

@mistixs Anything really. The very idea makes me sick. Still, I'm a peaceful person and as long as men don't start approaching me there won't be any broken bones. :)

[mistixs]

As long as men don't start approaching you? There's a way to reject someone without being violent.

[Asker]

@Dandeus , true in deed, and let's be clear I didn't start this to gay bash. I'm honestly curious. Also, be very clear every one is very entitled to their own opinions. Let's keep this thread light and counter productive :)

[Asker]

"Hornets nest" lmfaoooo :).. lol smh lol

[mistixs]

There's a difference between having an opinion, and implying that you'd commit violence if a man expressed attraction to you...

[Asker]

@mistixs I don't see where the reference to violence was in his comment

[mistixs]

"as long as men don't start approaching me there won't be any broken bones." Implying that there WILL be broken bones if men start approaching him

[matheus_mb]

Not at all. I'd never sleep with a man, nothing would disgust me more. I like women and only wanna do those things with women.

[Asker]

And there you have, you my good sir is not bisexual :)

[YepThatsIt]

Not even a bit.

There is plenty of bisexuals, far more women than men but all? This is still a minority.
Speaking from growing up I'd say the real number is probably around 10-20%.
And then I am very generous with the curious part.

[ThisDudeHere]

No. We'ere not. Even with having this internet anonymity I don't have the urge to say "well yea, a little" because I don't.

[ayapis]

I suspect that you are more curious about this than most straight men.

[BertMacklinFBI]

i can legit tell you im solely in it for the pussy

[ManOnFire]

Nope, never been the case for me. That's a thing more common among women, and I don't even agree with that either.

[mistixs]

How do you agree or disagree with someone's sexual attraction.

[ManOnFire]

@mistixs A lot of times women try out bisexuality and lesbianism out of either frustration with guys because they experienced men who didn't please them in bed, or because it's just trendy.

[mistixs]

Why do people always assume lesbians are women who didn't have success with men, whereas no one seems to feel the same about gay men (that they're men who didn't have success with women and thus resorted to fucking other men)?

[Asker]

@mistixs lmfaoooo don't forget serious mommy issues, I've heard comments such as women turns gay cause they have serious daddy issues lol.. smh I disagree in some cases. Most.

[ManOnFire]

@mistixs I'm not saying that bonafide lesbians do that. They don't. I'm talking about straight women who are ready to hop in the sack with other women because they're butthurt about some bad experience they had with men in bed. Why don't people think the same thing about gay men? Because the vast majority of them are genuinely gay. It is far more common for women to turn homosexual out of sexual frustration with men - in fact it's not even a contest.

[mistixs]

How do you know? Where are the stats on this?

[ManOnFire]

@mistixs There are many instances - and stories - from women who turned gay because they felt they couldn't get the sex they wanted from men, so felt that "women better understand each other." Women who've done this don't even hide it. So instead of having the courage to woman up and try to communicate with men, they'd rather just cowardly sleep with women. I'm sure there ARE some gay men who were probably straight and mad at women and turned gay, but this is still not nearly as common as vice versa. Not even close. Women are more often the ones to have sexual issues than men, so it's very easy to believe that so many women turn lesbian out of frustration.

[mistixs]

"Women are more often the ones to have sexual issues than men," Are you kidding me? It's far easier for a woman to get a casual sex partner than a man.

[ManOnFire]

@mistixs I wouldn't say it's easier for a woman, but I certainly wouldn't say it's harder for a man. In fact sex is easier for men to get in these times than it ever has been. Once upon a time pretty much the only way a man could get available sex was with hookers. Nowadays women make a it a lot easier. Most women would rather pretend that their gender hasn't been easy pickin's for men, when a lot of women are still giving easy sex to a lot of men. Also, the fact that men try to get it says it's not that hard. If it really never worked, or worked so rarely, men just wouldn't ever try to get it. But they do because they know it's very possible, and a lot have been pretty successful at it. So no, men are not having as hard a time with that as women need to think. I meant women have more sexual issues mentally and psychologically.

[mistixs]

They did studies where a woman approached random men asking "you're attractive, will you have sex with me?" 50-75% men said yes. 0% of women said yes when they tried it the other way around.

[ManOnFire]

@mistixs Yada, yada. I've watched those videos, read the Russell Clark experiments, and they still don't add up. Most of those videos are fake, and the Clark experiment was done on campus, not a good enough gauge for that kind of situation. There was also a sequel video from the Whatever channel on YouTube where Andrea asked 100 guys for sex and 70 said "No." I love the way girls try to use those videos and experiments for their case, lol.

[mistixs]

That's still a lot higher percentage than would be the other way around, though. Thus it's a lot easier for women to get sex from a random guy than the other way around.

[ManOnFire]

@mistixs Let me try to break it down for you: if sex was really that hard for men to get they would never ever try. Actions and intentions are motivated by some kind of evidence that men can see. Also, men have been talking women into bed since the beginning of time. Women often depend on looks to get a guy, but guys don't need looks to get a woman. I wouldn't say it's easier for a woman to get laid, but I certainly wouldn't say it's harder for a guy. By far. Women are still very easy pickin's for a lot of men. You have so many guys out there with girlfriends/wives but fucking other women "on the side." You've got guys fucking their female co-workers right on the job. You've got guys who go to the gym and have fucked at least half the women in there. And so on. Point: sex is a lot easier for men to get than women really want to think about because it makes them feel cheap and pathetic. But, we can keep pretending women haven't been easy pickin's if you like.

[joeb73]

no i would not, guys have the wrong equipment to excite me. only ladys have the right stuff

[Asker]

And that's awesome too since I'm a women ;)

[joeb73]

since your a female you do have the right equipment but my wife wouldn't like the idea of me getting excited by by someone other than her :-)

[JRICHARDS1996]

No. And neither are women. Frankly this faggoty trend of trying to say that everyone is a closeted homosexual or bi really needs to stop, since LGBTs actually compose a tiny, statistically insignificant portion of the population. Quit trying to normalize your abnormal, sexually deviant lifestyle through lies and dishonesty. At least have the decency to admit that you are odd.

[Asker]

Well, not for nothing I do agree with you about being honest and straight up instead of misleading people, however I think I would of said it a lot nicer. Cause no matter how confusing the situation is for those whose in the circumstances or what ever reason they choose to be secretive about their desires, we are all still human and share the same feelings of hurt and.. well there's a more kinder way of getting your point across is all I'm saying, but thanks. :)

[DrKran]

The idea of being bi is sickening... Unless it's of the opposite sex it's fine.
Girls like those guys and guys like them girls. But a majority of us is offended in the act of doing something gay.

Personally don't like the idea, but certainly don't 'hate' people for doing it. Now pedophiles is another story, they deserve to undergo agonizing torment...

[AidenBlue]

Not in the least. I'm not homophobic. I just know I am 300% turned on by the female body and there is never a time I see any guy and think 'I'd like to see him naked.

So the answer is 'no' not all guys are curious.

[Asker]

That's fine, however what if you saw his big beautiful cock?

[AidenBlue]

I don't generally get turned on by them. I'm pretty much no thanks for any besides my own. If I look at someone else's it would probably ruin my erection.

[Dandeus]

nope. I don't understand this concept. While I can appreciate another man's attractiveness, but there's nothing remotely sexual in it for me.

[pinolly]

More than people know, I think.

[Asker]

I agree with you 100 percent actually

[jacquesvol]

all men? Probably not. Many men? Possibly.

[Asker]

I agree with you

[Redstang88]

Definitely not.

[ConsultantIsBack]

I would gladly take a clean Weiner in my mouth and I'm not even gay

[Asker]

Lmfaoooo, well I had to judge by your comments, I'd reckoned you are very gay :P

[ConsultantIsBack]

Any real man would be gay for the right guy Hahaha

[Asker]

Lmfaoooo :D Well hey, it's what I believe anyways lol. Cheers :)

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Bicurious? Psssshhhh, try bisexual.

[Asker]

Lol... exactly

[TheHooptyMiata]

Nah none of that

[Blueeyes81]

Nope. I don't find anything about males attractive.

[Asker]

It's not to say you are emotionally invested, but sexually curious. .. come onnnnnnn lol

[Blueeyes81]

Not sexual curious regarding males. I simply don't find anything about the male physique appealing.

[Asker]

I like ur responses