That's the way to go... My wife had lots of fun with a hand full of guys when I used to work out of town a lot.
It worked out good for us she use to hate when I was gone. An would complain all the time. Now that she's got her friends with benefits you don't seem to mind at all when I'm gone. Then when I get back she tells me all the things they did. Then we f*** like crazy and the best sex ever
If your hubby let you keep your friends with benefits would you continue having sex with a them?
Hard to decide without being put in the position. Well that's a privilege my wife got when we were dating. I found out she had lots fuck buddies before we started dating, she simply loved sex with these numerous people, so I let her have a fuck buddy for when I was busy with school, she went and had sex with him. She would tell me all about it every night after she had been with him. Worked out great.
A friends with benefits is someone to have your sexual desires fulfilled with without commitment. Once you marry, you have all the sex you can go for and also the commitment. And if you find it hard to let the friends with benefits go, you appear to have failed the part about not getting attached.
@Red_Arrow I just have a hard time letting friendships go, period. And I know ending a friends with benefits situation would mean I would no longer be friends, minus the benefits, with that person.
I respect your opinion.
I love your logic!
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My pleasure... What did you decide?
This is similar to my wife and my lifestyle before we were married.. We were dating and engaged but allowed/encouraged to fuck other people as well. It was a turn on for both of us.
Now that you're married, is your marriage open as well?
For now it is t. Hopefully in the future it will be.
My only suggestion is that you each find lovers outside your social circle so if something crashes, is doesn't follow you home.
I feel ya... Great idea.
You are quite awesome.
i take that as compliment
For me the biggest thing is that when you have sex with another person you are making yourself vulnerable to that person. Then you just "break up" sometime by the next day. I notice that, for me, is a "soul-crushing" experience that causes you to recluse emotionally from your meaningful relationship, you don't find this?
From personal experience, it's quite awesome when there is proper communication
Turns you o. Seeing your partner be pleasured
That's completely crazy to be honest.
I respect your opinion. It's not for everyone.
Thank you for your opinion.
1.) this is why you explore it as a couple with other couples. If you look for it there is a good market of woman who are willing once in a relationship with someone who really cares for her.2.) I agree with this. 95% of the time. For me the most important thing is that I am treated special. As long as the girl treats me significantly better than the others, she is free. I need to feel a very close connection with her over all the other guys in her life though. I need to be her "favourite" I guess you would call it.
You're pretty awesome by me ;)
I respect that.
Better sex after seeing your partner being pleasures by someone else.
Curiosity, experiencing love and compassion for another human being, being bad ass.
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