Nope and he just makes fun of me and puts me down the few times he ever caught me
Really? Might be time for a new boyfriend?
Again he pops the lock on the shower and just walks in
I've been reading your other replies.. If he is so rude, uncaring, a jerk... why are you still with him? You need to find a "REAL MAN" who will give you the love and affection that you need/deserve.
Cause I'll be homeless if I leave
You don't have any friends or family that can help? Find someone that needs a room mate. I f your that hit up for living arrangements, I'd go out and find a new man while your at you current location. Once it gets serious with the new guy move in with him.
Nope he pops the lock to the bathroom and just walks in whenever
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He pops the lock on the door of the bathroom and just walks in. And we have sex once a week. I never cum only he does. there's no for play.
well then get rid of him or teach him how it´s done xD i suggest rooting for the latter. even if he might be perfect otherwise. unsatisfying sex will kill a relationship in the long run.
Can't leave or I'll be homeless
wow that´s dangerous. such a highly dependend relationship can crash pretty hard. you need to work on your sex life asap and also work on becoming independend in case things don´t work out.
Sex is only on his terms and he refuses to take any suggestions from me. all he cares about is coming as quickly as possible I'm simply a tool
so what is the reason you´re with him then?
So I'm not homeless currently also cause leave him puts me in danger. Let's just say he doesn't like leaving loose ends
the fuck? is he some kind of mafia boss or what? he doesn´t beat you, does he?
Nope just makes me feel like crap makes jokes about thinking about anal raping me. (I'm already a rape victim so you can see where I don't find that funny) says that I'm lucky he hasn't hit me. Calls me pethedic and stupid.
Not mafia but he's not exactly Mr I'm an innocent American either
ok i can´t force you to do that but i highly recommend leaving that asshole. there are nice guys out there that don´t treat you like that. there are institutions called womens refugee or womens shelter where you can temporarily live, to escape an abusive relationship, which i think your relationshit clearly is!they will help you standing on your own two feet. don´t let somebody treat you this way. nobody deserves this.
Leaving requires changing my name, hair color, eye color and moving to a new town. He isn't going to risk his future by me leaving
how is "he" risking his future if you leave him? if he treats you like that, he doesn´t deserve you. if it´s that severe, just go to the police.
He has done illegal thinks that if the info gets out with documented proof he's go to jail, lose his job, his house , ecerything
are you involved in it? like did you actively help?
if not, gather evidences and go to he police. he´s not a positive future option for you. either work your ass out of this horrible situation or stay in it. your call. i know it´s probably tough but it will be worth it.
Nope I refused to help at all it was all him
well at least you got that going for you. to be on the safe site, find out what gets you in witness protection programs in your particular area. you don´t need to rush it but definitely go for it. i mean i don´t know what he´s been doing but he probably deserves getting put in jail for his crimes alone.
Ah its not witness protection worthy lol and I lack photo evedenice
try gathering evidence then. do you really want to keep being abused like this? try going for those woman shelters. other than that, i can´t help you... that´s really all the advice i can offer.
He pops the lock and walks in when ever
if it is a problem then you will have to find somewhere else. like an alone time place. otherwise if you do not have a problem him knowing then share. or discuss with him and tell him you are going to hang something on the door handle when you are busy and he should respect that.
He pops the lock on the bathroom and the few times he has ever caught me he just made fun of me and put me down
he sounds like a real keeper
He just makes fun of me and puts me down the few times he has caught me
Then dump him,If he belittles you like that for doing that
We are at most once a week
So let him watch. He might learn something. He could hold you while you masturbate or help you.
He hates that kind of stuff
Plus mastrbating in front of someone is just plain wrong
LOL. Why would it be wrong? Better yet, why would he hate it? I love holding my girl while she touches all the right spots. She looks so sexy and hot that i can barely keep my hands to myself. (sometimes she doesn't want me to keep my hands to myself LOL)Great time to go down on her too.
He hates doing oral to all he does is put me down and make fun of me the few to mes he caught me and the sex ounces a week is straight to the point all he cares about is him cum as quick as possible.
He doesn't like that stuff
... That's fuckin weird
No kinding the few times he caught me he starting putting me down and making fun of me
Again we only have sex on his terms and that's at best once a week
Only on his terms? Wtf? Does he not let you initiate when YOU want to do it?
😕 sounds controlling to me... you might have to rethink this relationship because he doesn't seem to respect your privacy boundaries at all (walking in on you in the bathroom and even when you tried to address that issue, he just ignored it and continued to do it)
@Entruder he didn't ignore me he just flat out said no. And I can't rethink the relationship cause I'll be homeless if I dump him.
That sucks... do you have any friends who can help you out with that living situation if the inevitable comes? Family? Parents?
@Entruder both parents live with there new gf/bf not any room for me
How about friends? I don't think it's likely because you're around my age and probably in college or university so most friends aren't owning/renting houses/apartments. Are you able to hold up financially to maybe move out and rent a different place for yourself?
@Entruder moved to Washington a year ago I have no friends, not in college cause I can't afford it and nope I work part time at wendys
Well... I'm sorry, I have no idea what you can do really other than try to put up with it for the time being until you have the opportunity and ability to leave him. Is there any financial services that may be able to help you in your current situation? I hope the best for you
@Entruder sadly there's nothing that can't help at the current time
Can't he pops the lock to the bathroom and just walks in when ever he chooses to
Tell him to stop doing that
Or just put a door stop under the door so he can open it
I did he said he won't. That he doesn't give a shit about my privacy if he wants in hell get in. He gets helps mad at me when I lock the door at all
Then dump his ass because he seems way to controling
He is hence the issue of not knowing how to masterbate with out him finding out
So dump his ass
Would but I'd be homeless if I do
Not possible he pops the lock and just walks in when ever no privacy there
Looks like you need to tell him not to. Or put a chair under the door handle.
I have told him to stop he just flat out says no his house his rules and he demands that I have no privicy
Then leave him. Why the hell would you stay in such a terrible relationship?
Cause I'll be homeless if I dont
Well, that certainly complicates things. Look for someplace to stay and dump that loser. Good luck.
What he said. If you're his girrlfriend he should respect your privacy.
@Intraluminal I'd be homeless if I dump him
Again no privacy he just walks into the bathroom at random and can't lock the door cause he just pops the lock.
Okay... does he leaves you anytime?
Only when he gos to work but that's when either I'm at work or do chores, or doing shit for my family