I'm not planning on losing my virginity yet, but I'm curious. Do guys like being a girl's "first"? I know a lot of girls bleed a little and feel some pain, so would that gross you out as a guy? And would you hate having to start out slow and gentle? Is the lack of experience from a virgin a turn off? Lastly, if you found your soulmate or the person you want to be with forever, would you like the idea of being their first and last, to have that special moment? Honestly, I think I wanna wait until I'm in love to give up my virginity, because I see it as a milestone in life, and I don't want that with a stranger, I want it with someone who I love and trust to take care of me and treat me right. The only problem I have is that I'm impatient and waiting is so sexually frustrating, but that's another conversation lol.