Cumming inside a girl. Yes? No? Good? Bad?

So this girl I recently hookup up with, and whom I've had sex with many times before, as we were going at it she didn't want to use a condom, like the other times before except those times I was able to get her to go with it. I thought maybe for a bit then put it on. So after a few minutes I try to get up to get one but she kept pulling me back down. She said I can just cum inside her. She said she was on the pill but it still made me nervous. I didn't know if she really was or not and I didn't know if I really trusted this to not go bad. I ended up stopping and eventually I left. Help me figure this out. Should I have just done what she wanted? I don't think she would try and trick me but I can't be sure and it was making me paranoid.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Pregnancy and stuff is scary. If you think you can't trust her when she says she's on the pill, you made the right choice. Furthermore, once you are in a commited relationship and/or sure she is on birth control and std free of course, cumming inside a girl makes sex so much more intense. Not only that but sperm actually contains certain enzymes that, among other things, make her happy. I know that might sound really weird saying it like that but it's biology. So cum inside a girl? Sure, if you trust her on birth control and both of you are std free. In your particular situation i think you absolutely made the right choice. I myself always use condoms up untill i know a girl for long enough to trust her.

  • Cumming inside a gal and leaving it there until it's limp IS the ideal hedonistic feeling.
    Just not in vag if not immediately ready to change your life for baby to come.

    Always do your part = condom, after sex foams, et al.
    as well as allowing her to do her part = pill, other
    just in case one doesn't work (or is lying to hook you... to be stupid/lazy)

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've asked guys after a first date to cum inside me because I just love certain guys to do it. Some guys I don't want their cum inside me specifically so I make them wear a condom, but with some it's a real turn on. I have a spiral though, and whether I trust a guy saying he's clean, is my choice. I know I'm wise enough to judge. However, no guy hesitated one second when I gave permission lol. With your girl, I don't think she is lying, but of course it's your choice.

    • Assuming you are using another means of birth control, why do you want some guys to cum inside you and not others? I mean, presumably you feel some physical attraction to them since you're fucking them.

    • @zagor yes but some in different ways than others. It's really weird to explain. I know that it's safest to wear a condom so when I don't necessarily want a guy to cum in me, I'll make him wear a condom. Mostly it's the guys I want sex with because I have emotional feelings for them. Than there's guys that I might not even like personally but that I just want to fuck me and cum inside me. I know it's weird, but that's just something that turns me on.

    • OK; I thought it was because some of them had an STD but you wanted them anyway.

  • Not a good idea, no matter what she wants at the time and especially not in the heat of passion. As a man you should always wear a condom while having sexual intercourse unless you are 100% willing and prepared to be a father. Know best even if she doesn't.

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  • Where else are you gonna cum?
    but be careful though, you better get some kinda proof that she is on BC, some women can trap you like that. I get suspicious of any girl that INSISTS on no condom.

  • A. I would never trust that she's on the pill. If she forgets you stuck with an 18yrs obligation and your life is OVER.

  • it's all about your trust. clearly you trust her enough to have sex but don't know enough to trust her to be on the pill. if you two have been hooking up for this long and you don't know, something is missing. If she really is and you trust her, why not.

  • Make her show proof of being on the pill and if so go for it. It's awsome and she can feel it and it often pushes them into orgasm

  • I wouldn't cum in any hook up unless I was sure that I'm okay with her potentially getting pregnant.

  • You might be a dad with an STD.

    Congrats.

  • Unless you know for certain that she's on birth control, wear a condom. Protect yourself first.

  • Wrap it up and stay strapped homie, unless you sit there and watch ger take those pills.

  • If she has a baby it's all her choice dude. I've been there and thank God she didn't have a kid. I got a vasectomy. That stuff is scary!

    • Does that mean you ghost load?

    • @DyingColdAndAlone I don't know what that means. I can cum like before and make her creampie. Just without the drama of thinking she's gonna have a baby

    • Is it just semen then, no sperm?

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  • Good move leaving.

  • then expect a baby soon.

  • I would have done the same thing.

  • dude you need to protect your self first before anyone else. Who cares what she wants , if you didn't feel comfortable then you shouldn't have done it.

  • No, don't come inside any girl unless you want to get her pregnant.