How come men love looking at naked women but women HATE looking at naked men? Why?

[Anonymous]

[dangerDoge]

Hmm, as far as I know women don't hate looking at naked men. Women just don't like looking at naked men they don't like emotionally or have a connection with usually. Men and women are different in that sense. I guess you can blame psychology and evolution lol

It is kind of like the same reason why, if asked the question "Would you have sex with someone you hate?" girls will almost always say no while about 30% or so of guys say yes. (I got this statistic from my psychology of sex class I'm in by the way. I can give more details if requested.)
It is a bit easier for guys to feel pure sexual attraction from just physical looks when compared to girls.

[Asker]

one of the girls said this is because of how females are biologically programmed... becuz woman have more risks when having sex so they require more to be sexually attracted, like romantic interest to reduce some risk... is this true? why some woman have casual sex then?

[dangerDoge]

There actually is some truth to that in a sense. Think of the minimum parental investment a guy would need vs the minimum parental investment a girl would need. (Let us not factor in abortions since clinical abortions are fairly new in the grand scheme of things.) A guy only needs however long he takes in bed-- a matter of minutes. A girl has 9 months as a minimum. The baby also takes resources away from the mother and such. One could also say that is why societal norms were evolved where men compete over women vs women competing over men usually. Women still want sex though, and for some they want casual sex when the want for sex outweighs the risk of pregnancy. In modern society with all the ways to prevent pregnancy, the risks are lower so I'd imagine it'd be easier to outweigh the risks.

[Humping_Tornadoes]

lol it isn't that they hate it, they just aren't interested in looking at it like we like looking at them.

Also, girls prefer to feel you inside rather than just staring at you. And they are also turned on by the idea of you being turned on by them, if they're attracted to you.

They like a guy's body to look good/decent though, but that's about it. You could say women are partially visual.

[Anonymous]

... I don't?

If I'm attracted to the guy, then that's very nice indeed (as long as it's consensual)

If not, I'm indifferent.

Consent is important, just exposing yourself to someone without knowing whether they're okay with that is just rude.

Looking at someone naked without their consent is not okay either.

[Asker]

why rude?

[Opinion Owner]

Because you're not considering that they might not want to see you nude. I mean if it's an accident like they walk in on you getting changed or something then obviously that's no-one's fault. But I'm talking about people who send unsolicited nudes, or in more extreme cases flash people. That's likely to make the other person uncomfortable or even feel threatened. A factor also is you don't know their past experiences, some sexual abuse survivors for example might be reminded of traumatic experiences. Personally, I'm chill with nudity. Nudist beaches, getting changed in the same room as people, etc. I also watch porn. I like sexting. But knowing the person is alright with me seeing them is important, and I wouldn't for example want my best friend who I sext to show my nude pictures to anyone else, because I only gave consent for him to see them. Y'know?

[XRabbitHeartX]

Who says I don't like looking at my naked boyfriend? The only difference is I don't feel the desire to look at random naked guys. Women often need a emotional connection with someone to feel a sexual attraction too.

[Calex]

I always wondered how that works. How does an emotional connection make you suddenly feel sexual attraction? Details if possible :]

[XRabbitHeartX]

@Calex it's just how we are wired. Biologically sex has a lot of implications for women so it makes sense why we'd require more in order to feel sexually attacted to someone.

[Asker]

like ur answer to why woman need emotional connection

[Mesonfielde]

I would think if the guy is really handsome you'd still feel some sexual attraction, lol.

[XRabbitHeartX]

@Mesonfielde Being handsome just isn't enough. I see hot guys daily at my campus but it doesn't do much sexually for me. As I said, I need that romantic connection for me to feel inclined to want to get down ;)

[Mesonfielde]

Hmm. There's that weird feeling you get when you see someone attractive. Not sexual arousal, but people compare it to butterflies.

[XRabbitHeartX]

@Mesonfielde Yeah I know the butterfly feeling but I don't see it as a sexual thing. And I don't get that with other guys now that I have a boyfriend who I feel that way over.

[Mesonfielde]

Haha, i do. It's quite a nuisance.

[Calex]

I think I can relate to this. It's kind of like having types I guess. Example: Red or Black clothes and red lipstick are a turn off to me, so no matter how sexy a woman is, it would just, you know "not count" if that makes any sense?

[Calex]

I meant like a red or black dress

www.thematernitydress.com/.../...ses-for-Women.jpg

Not my type

[kaylaS91]

I don't hate looking at naked men at all. Especially not my boyfriend when he's in his birthday suit. ;)

[amf_queen]

I loveeeee looking at naked men... it's the curiosity.

[samhradh_leannan]

I love looking at naked men, if it's someone I'm interested in sexually, anyway.

[samhradh_leannan]

I think- and obviously this depends a great deal on the individual, but so far I'm noticing a trend- that while men may get a kick out of looking at any woman naked, women just need more of an emotional connection in order to appreciate a guy's body.

[RetroDreamerXD]

VERY GOOD QUESTION! Finally a guy admits it.

[Calex]

Admits what? o:

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

guy admits what?

[Tiger288]

What?

[hazoplmeught]

say wha?

[RetroDreamerXD]

@Other_Tommy_Wiseau @Calex @Tiger288 Naked bodies are hot if they're hot ;) lolololol

[RetroDreamerXD]

@hazoplmeught

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

what does that even mean?

[Asker]

what?

[RetroDreamerXD]

@Other_Tommy_Wiseau Basically, how can anyone not look at a sexy person especially if they like what they see

[Tiger288]

Huh?

[hazoplmeught]

guys always said naked bodies are hot, he was askin why dont girls like lookin at guys' bodies

[RetroDreamerXD]

@Tiger288

[RetroDreamerXD]

@hazoplmeught girls know like it. Some just don't want to admit it.

[Tdieseler]

Umm.. what makes you think women hate looking at naked men... and even more... what makes you think guys like looking at ALL naked women... there are some women i would Never want to see naked...
my girls have ALWAYS loved seeing me naked... perks of a sporting background... but im sure that there are some guys they would not even like to see shirtless.
its a pick-and-choose thing. when you lust or love, the body beauty just happens. \

[Sara413]

Um... where'd ya hear that? Lol

[tattooedhandfet]

Not this woman

[mooky06]

I don't have an issue looking at naked men. I would find it WAY more appealing to look at my boyfriend naked then just a random naked guy.

[Asker]

what the difference?

[mooky06]

Having that sexual desire for a romantic interest opposed to a random on the street, who i have no feelings for.

[Asker]

so never wanted to see boyfriend naked before having feelings for him?

[mooky06]

If his officially my boyfriend, i would have all the more desire to WANT to see him naked.

[Calex]

I don't get it myself. Does this mean that wanting to see him naked is forced because you know you have to want it because he's your boyfriend? I'm confused

[mooky06]

@Calex i dont have an issue looking at naked men, BUT i have a boyfriend so i wouldn't be ok looking at other naked men apart from him.

[Calex]

I mean before he was your boyfriend, would you have been okay with looking at him naked and why?

[mooky06]

@Calex if im interested in him yeah.

[Toad-1]

@Calex Dont see the confusion, she desires to look at her boyfriend naked way more than some random guy. Not hard to get

[mooky06]

@Toad-1 BINGO! spot on toto :)

[Calex]

@Toad-1 That's obvious, but I was asking her why, and if she would have done the same before they got together, or, if she was forcing it because of the fact.

[desidoll]

If he is my boyfriend or a guy I am interested in, I'd love that.

[Poppykate]

Who said we don't LOVE looking at naked men! Who? Tell me who? 😒 Lol

[Asker]

a girl said penises are ugly and women think man not sexually attractive

[Poppykate]

I think from a artistic point of view women's bodies are 'prettier'. But it's sure is fun to look at a guys naked body!

[ElissaDido]

I don't know... It's weird but naked men don't appeal to me! But I would like seing my future SO naked.

[LovelyComputerVirus]

I love looking at naked men

[CupcakeKiller]

We don't hate it we just aren't as visual.

[Asker]

you dislike it but not hate it

[CupcakeKiller]

I'm really just kinda neutral about it.

[Asker]

so you're lesbian?

[CupcakeKiller]

Yes that is exactly what I said. Good chat.

[Calex]

I think this question was directed to at least bi or straight women

[CupcakeKiller]

@Calex... ohhh omg my bad I'm so embarrassed.

[Calex]

It's okay xD you didn't know. Haha

[Elena_the_Star]

We do when the guy has a nice chest and is ripped, we sure do love to see them half naked. Penises just don't look good, so we don't like. Guys are more visual.

[PrettyBama]

Because penises are kinda ugly.

[Asker]

so vulvas r more beaitiful then penises?

[PrettyBama]

Literally yes.

[zorro8888]

Lol I sincerely doubt the majority of heterosexual women hate looking at the naked male body.

Most of them just don't want a random guy who they have no interest in... exposing himself.

[Mesonfielde]

Lots of behavioral conditioning. Women who aren't ashamed of their sexuality do like looking at sexy bodies as long as the guy is handsome.

[Dulcedulcexoxo]

Seriously can you guy a stop asking the same Damn question over and over again. You get the same answers , women love men. Stop trying to make your opinion fact.

[Tiger288]

We are talking about naked body not love

[Dulcedulcexoxo]

@Tiger288 when I say women love men I am talking about physically.

[lolatyou]

I don't hate looking at naked men, it's not repulsive to me-most of the time but I don't enjoy it unless I really like the guy. I can still be a little attracted to them without knowing them but it's way better when I know and like them.

[Asker]

what makes it better if you know him?

[lolatyou]

I just need an emotional connection first. It's weird, I can look at a girl and think she has a really nice body and be attracted to her just by looking but with men I can still be a little attracted but I need an emotional connection to make it better. I think maybe women are just more attractive in general most of the time.

[Calex]

What is it about women that makes them more attractive in general and why do you not need an emotional connection with a woman, why a man? Confused

[lolatyou]

Women are just more attractive. We take better care of ourselves and out bodies, we're judged by appearances more also. Most men are visual and a lot of women are more emotional. So it makes sense to me lol

[lolatyou]

our* plus we have more parts to enjoy I think.

[IceEverest]

Are you straight?

[lolatyou]

Not sure. I'm attracted to women sexually but I would never date one. I like men way more. So bi-curious maybe? I don't keep up with what all of that stuff is called to be honest with you.

[IceEverest]

Its okay... bi with a preference to men will sound right. Anyway we need not use labels. We are just what we are...

[BigGuySmallProblems]

I have a theory that men are physical, and women are mental. Men likes seeing, touching, feeling. While women like the emotions attached to people instead. Thats why men have unattached sex so easily and women find it difficult.

[Transigence]

I find your assumptions faulty.