Girls, How do you feel about male virgins?

[bjw5336]

I'm a 24 year old male virgin who recently finished college. Needless to say I haven't had much experience as far as being intmate with a girl. The closest I've ever come to be physically intimiate with a girl is maybe a hug and that's it. No making out, no heavy petting, etc. I would like to go out and meet a girl now, but I first want to focus on getting a job and getting my own apartment so then that way I can show her that I'm a good catch and someone worth being with. I'm just wondering that if I one day do meet a girl and we've been going out for a while and I tell her that I'm still a virgin, how will she react? Will she still want to be with me or could my lack of experience be a major turn-off? Ladies, I want your opinion on this matter. Please be open and honest. Thanks.

[Robbey]

I don't think being a virgin is something shameful or necessarily embarrassing. You're not doing anything wrong. No girl worth dating, let alone anything else, will think badly about you because she got to be your first. Most girls, me included, would think it was sweet and probably feel a little flattered. Furthermore, the fact that you prioritized finishing college, getting a job, and finding a home of your own over your penis, speaks volumes of your maturity and quality. Seriously, where the eff were guys like you when I was 24? Better still, I hope my daughters find guys like you.

Let's be realistic about sex's fundamental nature. At it's fundamental level, sex is about human reproduction - its basic purpose is to make babies.

Try looking at your virginity at it this way, you're 24 and you haven't yet tried to make a baby. Are you broken up inside about not being a daddy yet? I'm guessing no, so don't worry about it.

Don't get me wrong either, I'm not a prude, nor am I trying to suggest that sex is JUST about making babies. Honestly, I LOVE sex just as much as the next girl and I LOVE the sheer fun of fucking. My heart goes out to you because I'm sure your curiosity about sex is maddening and overwhelming. However, I think that you have absolutely NOTHING to worry about so stop worrying and enjoy it when it happens.

[tinyclit]

It'll turn some women off and not others. If it turns her off, then she's not right for you anyway. Take time getting to know each other sexually and teaching each other about each others sexual needs wants and desires. In the overall scheme of things it really doesn't matter much if you're a virgin or not. Everyone is different and either way you will both end up needing to learn the same things about each other as with any new partner regardless of their experience or lack of it. You must teach her how to pleasure you and she must teach you how to pleasure her. Don't be shy about that.

[Liubka5]

haha to be honest it would be a bit of a turn on for me. Like a brand new guy and ill be the one to explore everything with him for the first time.
I dont think being virgin or not kissed anyone is such a deal breaker, i wouldn't care nor mind it at all :)

[Afro-dite9]

I wouldn't care either way as long as it work's we're all good to go😁 I'm not getting either so don't trip. I don't have any shame about it, but I'm tired of buying batteries😂😂😂😂😂if a chick bitches about this or feel's this is a turn off man invite her to your BBQ and smack ur meat across her grill. She ain't even worth it. Females always complaining I want a nice dude and etc and then turn dude's like u down and wonder why they get chopped and screwed. You'll meet someone door kid don't rush it😎

[BoundGirl]

It wouldn't bother me really. Actually i'd prefer him to be a virgin or not to have had many sexual partners. it means that he has some respect and isn't a player or sex obsessed.

[brookeelizabeth96]

It's not a bad thing. Ideally I'd like a guy with a similar experience level as me (1 partner), but it's definitely not a dealbreaker, especially if he has an open mind.

[fauchelevent]

I'd still date one, I wouldn't really care about it, to be honest.

[falafelany1]

I have the same problem as you but I am a bit younger. There should be no shame but yeah I get it.

[xxThatQuietKidxx]

Kind of more attractive that way honestly. It's respectable and strong. :)

[Ofelia]

I would be happy if my partner is a virgin. It can never be a turn off for me, moreover a plus.

[StarlightSwift]

If she is worth your time and your virginity she will not care. She might tease a bit but that's it.

[Jessabella]

If you told that to me it would actually be somewhat of a turn on. I say this because if you truly think about it, yeah maybe you won't be experienced but that doesn't mean you won't be good. Another plus to being with a virgin is there is a very very slim chance that they have any stds as the only way they would have one would be if they were born with it. I also think it's better to be a virgin because that means that you truly like the person if you are thinking of having sex with them because you've literally never done it before. Also if the girl is a virgin too this will make her feel so much more comfortable with you because you'll be learning together which makes it intimate, and if she isn't then she'll probably like it because she can show you some of what she has found gives her pleasure and she'll be able to give you more pleasure too based on what she has learned. Hope this helped :)