Can two virgins learn together?

Can two anal virgins learn on their own instead of outside help? Family tells me I have to have a guy show me how to know my body... .-. Which pisses me off. Who knows your body better than yourself? So do me and my boyfriend need outside help for how to do anal. The anal key points, when to push when not to? Someone told me he can only go so far before he pauses. Only I will experience the pain to know that right? Weird question I know. But please help.
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  • lol no offence but i don't agree with ur family at all... u should learn to know your body alone. if you both want to learn then you'll have to look into those things while ur like in ur own room or something. sure u can take general tips but yeah like u said... u know ur body best.

    • Its not offensive. I am fighting them on it too. I don't agree. I'm actually mad. They have him brainwashed by telling him he will kill me if we don't know how to be careful and how to do it. So he's scared now.

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  • Weird that you are getting anal sex tips from your family members. That is not the type of thing that I ever discussed with my grandma.

    • He called and we we're talking about when his dad over heard he told mine. Its weird as fuck.

    • I would probably would pack my bags and disappear in the middle of the night if that happened to me. The tips for having good anal sex: 1. Go slow with everything that you do. 2. It only feels good for a lady if she is already sexually aroused, so engage in lots of non-anal foreplay for you. When he enters you anally, it will be tight and feel so naughty/taboo that he will have a tendency to cum very quickly, so don't give him more foreplay than necessary to make him hard enough for penetration. 3. Start with anal fingering while receiving oral sex. He can use your natural lubrication on his finger to help penetration. The anus has no natural lubrication so you always need something to help. 4. If he feels adventurous, he can give you anilingus while also giving you clitoral stimulation - fingers or vibrator. 5. Apply KY/Astroglide to anus and to penis. 6. You should try to "push out" while he is trying to push in. It sounds backwards but it works. CONTINUED

    • 7. As soon as he penetrates, he should stop and give you a few seconds to accommodate to the sensation before he tries to penetrate deeper. 8. Best positions are either doggy style or spooning. 9. When you are ready, tell him to push in slowly. When he bottoms out, stop again and get used to the sensation. 10. He can start thrusting slowly. 11. It helps if you also receive clitoral stimulation at the same time. In doggy position, that is difficult for him to do so you would need to do it. Spooning, he should be able to do it. 12. He needs to understand that if you say "stop at any point, he must immediately stop. 13. If you hear girls talk about pain or discomfort, it is because they were tense and were clenching their sphincter. Relaxation is the key. One or two glasses of wine beforehand may help you to relax and not tense. 14. When you are finished, he should withdraw slowly. Good luck.

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  • Two virgins can learn what they like together.