Heck no I'm not going to be buying pocket pussy in a store. How embarrassing that would be. If I had a son, which I don't, he could just ask for a low dollar pre-paid credit card for his birthday and then buy it online from Amazon or wherever himself without me even having to know. If he's not smart enough to do that, then he's too dumb to be my son. :)
that last line is a great example of why so many people grow up with a ton of insecurity issues.
My sincere apology. I was not serious. It was said in jest.
It might be a little uncomfortable, but I probably would buy him one. Same if it was a daughter asking for a toy. I don't really see an issue with it. I've gotten toys for my friends before. Hell, I'd be willing to buy something for my little sister if she wanted something. I'm all for sex positivity!
wow, that's great! I've never bought toys for friends but my first exposure to them was while tagging along with a friend looking for a new vibrator.
Nice! Haha the only reason I got it for her was because she always complained to me about her sex life with her boyfriend, so I thought that would help. They broke up over it because he was insecure and she's never used it hahaha
Aren't pocket pussys for guys that have gotten tired of using their hand? I would imagine a teenage boy is just getting used to his hand. But no, I wouldn't buy him one and I'd imagine he'd only ask his dad though. So I'm off the hook from that awkward moment.
do females who use dildos only do so because they've grown bored of their fingers? I honestly don't know.. but anyway, moving on would you be okok with it if you found out your husband bought your son one?
Yeah, I would trust my partners male-to -male decision
And as a teen, I was happy using my fingers. It wasn't till later that I wanted to expand my self pleasures.
I've seen in some of your responses that you saying he's asking for you to actually go buy it, not pay for it, because he's too young to legally get it himself. Honestly I would respect the fact he worked up the nerve to ask. It's generally pretty awkward to talk to your parents about sex, so if he asked the question, he clearly wants it bad enough.
yea. I think kids should be able to trust their parents enough to go to them with anything. even awkward sex stuff. things would probably go a lot better for people, as far as sex and relationships later in life, if parents were there for them more
And if kind of be happy that he's asking for a toy as opposed to condoms. I'm not going to teach my kids that sex is bad, because it isn't, but there is still risk invoked and a toy is safer. I also agree with you. I would want my kids to feel comfortable asking me anything, even if it's normally awkward. Id rather they get advice from me than their friends or whatever.
yes! safer than sex in many ways too. I actually asked this same question, on the female side, almost a year ago, mainly in regards to being safer for teen girls especially preventing pregnancy and a lot of people had the same reaction to tel them just to masturbate. back then I didn't know about pocket pussy (that name bugs me, lol).
If either of my kids asked for any kind of toy like that and they knew what it was and its purpose, and claimed a need or desire to use it, I'd get it for them. One did, and I obliged.
your son or your daughter? was it a really awkward or uncomfortable conversation?
My daughter, and it really wasn't too awkward. It probably was for her more than for me. I was a single parent, so I had to deal with far much more awkward stuff than that.
Thanks for MHO! :-)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Nope, I wouldn't buy him a pocket pussy. I think that's pretty messed up for parents to get THAT involved in their children's sexual matters, outside of providing condoms or something if he asked.
hmm, I think while their still under age their parents should be more active in all aspects of their lives. they should be able to come to their parents with anything no matter how awkward.
He can ask me if he wishes to, but I'm not going to help him masturbate in any way. He has his own hands for that.
@kaylaS91 It is sad that people think like you. You don't have to want to buy him one, but acting like it is a bad thing sends the wrong message. If your child knows they can ask you about anything, they are going to be a lot safer. I never had "the talk" and I grew up before the internet. So I had to learn on my own and it sucked.
Kind of a double standard... I have a daughter, but if I had a son, yes... If he asked, I'd buy him a pocket pussy no questions asked.
My daughter on the other hand, I'd have issues if she asked me for a dildo... Ewww!
I can understand that. would you suggest she ask her mom?
Honestly... I'm a single father, she has communication with her mom... But, if she got one on her own and I didn't know about it I'd be okay with that too. If though... theoretically, If she asked me, we'd probably have an awkward conversation... And I suppose I might consider. For me if she's a virgin, I'd want her to not penetrate herself, maybe consider a clit vibrator... Basicly... I know what its like to be a young hornet boy... But men tend to be more protective of their daughter. I'm not religious or anything but I would hope that she could keep some sense of modesty... I don't want her to fuck a bunch of guys before marriage, but at some point I know and I recognize she is her own person... And I I suppose if I could wrap my head around the fact that she has needs and desires as well... And it may prevent her from being promiscuous... Perhaps I'd consider a toy for her... But again, this is all just theoretical, she probably will never ask.
well, that's nice that you'd consider it. and the clit one is definitely the better way to go. I have no idea how women actually enjoy the vaginal ones. so uncomfortable
Sure. I'd rather have my child be comfortable coming to me about sex than too afraid to talk to me about anything.
same here.
Nope I'm his father not his sex therapist.
laugh out loud. that would be an interesting session
When he's old enough to buy one is old enough to use it
Did he really? Thats a bit inappropriate to ask your mom that.
I don't have kids. it's a hypothetical question.
and I wouldn't consider it inappropriate. I'd be happy our kids trusted us enough to ask. I'd prefer the father to be asked though.
I guess buy him one, omg, its like hearing your brother frapping... LOL!
Nope, he can buy it for himself.
legally, he can't. he could hand you the money though. how about then?
hypothetically and very generally I see where you're coming from.
ok.. that doesn't answer the question I actually asked though.
I would but I would make them pay for it. Why wouldn't you? they are going to masturbate anyway. If your talking to your kids about sex, then there is nothing wrong with it. If they are straight, they are going to understand what a vagina is.
Go with the fleshlight though.
I don't have kids. lol. I ask a lot of hypothetical questions on here. everyone always assumes it's personal. I would get it for either child (I asked this for teen girls almost a year ago). I truly hope if I do have kids they trust me enough to come to me with anything.
I have 3 boys. but I would def be a double standard dad. no way I would buy a dildo for my daughter if I had one. yikes... seems like it isn't the same lol...
so hypocritical! I could understand you saying go ask your mom for help with that, but not helping her out at all. awful
He should focus on school rather than this stuff, he would be grounded even if he dares to ask for such a thing!
uhh... are you imagining he's masturbating less otherwise? In any case, masturbation is what -lets- guys focus on school at that age. It's NOT masturbating that makes them unable to focus.
@0112358 if he wants to masturbate he can do it in private however I WILL NOT help him with it.
@0112358 exactly, I didn't masturbate as a teen because I thought it was gross and I definitely had a hard time focusing on school work sometimes when overly horny..
"No son, you can beat it with a sock like every other horny teenager your age."
I'd tell him to get a job and buy it himself!
ok, I didn't just mean pay for it. it's not like their sold at cvs
He can order them online though? Can he not order one himself?
If he's too young to buy one, he's too young to own one.
nope. he can discover masturbation like every other teenager.
haha, ok
Maybe if he was 18, lol.
he would not need you to get it for him then
Well then!
No, because you are killing the relation ship emotionally he will have with a real vagina. that's like a teenage girl getting a vibrator at 14, a own is can never live up to it. Porn already nums us to sex giving them a sex toy so young is just wrong
um... my vibrator is awesome, but definitely in no more kills my want for a real penis/man.
i personally despise vibrators
He can buy it on Amazon like everyone else
No way!! He can wait until he's old enough himself and get a job to buy one or simply find a girlfriend. No son of mine will have that at such a young age.
so, you'd rather he have sex then?
Nope.. that is not allowed either. Find a girlfriend to fool around with but not have sex.
If he is foolong around with his girlfriend they will have sex
Yeah no, when he's old enough to buy one he's old enough to own one.
I would tell him that I had no idea what that was, and no he isn't getting it.
what if he decides to very thoroughly explain it to you? lol
I would very thoroughly tell his ass to beat it lol. And not literally.
Its not like he's not jacking off
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