Guys, Pussy too good he can't pull out? What does that mean?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have stopped using condoms starting this month, and I'm not on birth control either. He said we didn't need to worry because he'd be able to pull out but each time we have unprotected sex he cums inside me. I always get mad at him and we've been fighting lately because I'm not on the pill and I could get pregnant and I've taken so many plan b pills but they are expensive and I can't afford that. I keep asking him why he doesn't just pull out, but he says its my fault because my pussy is too good he literally can't leave or pull out of me in time. I'm not making this up. What the hell does that even mean? During sex I mostly just squeeze my kegels and talk dirty while massaging his balls, and ride his dick. I have a big butt and hips, so he likes to get a good view of it while I ride him and bounce my butt, but I don't do anything out of the oridinary. I notice when I massage his balls while riding him he cums more, so should i stop doing that? Also should I stop doing kegels while riding him to make it less pleasureable for him, because he keeps cumming in me and i don't want to get pregnant. I told him if he can't control it we should go back to using condoms, but he says he's not going back to using condoms now that he's done bareback. I've never had sex without a condom before so I'm not used to what's happening. Is it normal what's happening. I asked some of my friends and they say their guys don't have the same issue, they can pull out in time, but mine whenever i'm riding him and massaging balls he just shoves it all the way in me and cums so hard that its scary. Its without any warning. It does feel good when he cums in me I will admit, but I don't want a baby and I don't want to get on birth control because it will mess up my hormones and make me gain weight. Can someone explain why he's like this? Why can't he pull out in time?

[AmongTheApples]

You are both being stupid if you don't want a child. It's always a bad idea to rely on the pull out method alone. Now that he has failed to even pull out on time more than once, you and he are both being asinine. There is no such thing as subjective reality. He can either pull out on time or he can't, and he's demonstrated that he can't. Your and his wanting that fact to be different won't change it, no matter how badly you both wish that it was different. Your options, obviously, are take hormone pills and tolerate the side effects, have him wear a condom and accept that it will be less pleasurable, or continue doing what you are and have to raise a child (hopefully together) for the next 18-21 or longer years.

[MrOracle]

Look, let's get to the important stuff:

Pulling out isn't even a super-reliable method of BC - sooner or later he'll get you pregnant that way. But obviously he can't even do that.

Also, Plan B is something you take VERY RARELY for emergencies only. It's really hard on your body, and should not be taken on a regular basis.

Either you need to go back to condoms, or you need to get on standard BC pills or some other hormonal method (implant, Depo, etc.). Or stop having sex. Because if you don't do any of those, you WILL get pregnant, or will do permanent damage to your body by taking Plan B way too often.

[sarthak809]

Pussy too good means what, does it have extra ribbed structure inside, kinda like the stamina training fleshlight? Hehe, it's a normal pussy from inside, nothing special about it. Although your performance may be a part of the reason. It's near impossible to pull out when a guy feels like he's in sex heaven!
But he's being an illogical idiot for doing it again and again and not caring whether you get pregnant of not!
Other guys have given accurate answers. Do talk to the doctor about the IUD, seriously.

[meowcow]

"Pussy too good to pull out" = "I don't give a crap about you and if you get pregnant, I'm going to disappear since I've already had my fun with you".

Blaming it on you is a sure sign of the above statement. It's not his fault... it's yours because you chose to have sex with him. Solution = dump the piece of shit. He's a total loser, despite how he has charmed his way into your life.

He displays trademark characteristics of a douchebag who's going to ruin your life in one way or another.

[Bismarck12]

If he's not mature enough to respect your boundaries (pulling out), he's probably not mature enough to one) be having sex with you and two) risking being a potential parent. How bad do you like this guy? I'd tell you to broom him and quick because he sounds like a future deadbeat dad to me. Don't be stupid.

[NJ_Casanova]

He just loves the feeling and doesn't care about cumming in you. He needs to wear a condom or you need the pill if you don't want a kid.

[FemWorship]

Been where he's been and he's not lying more than 10%, the latter is just wanting more... the ultimate penis worship is letting it go limp inside you.

Your points are MOST understated, e. g.
even precum can get you preg, even with condom, even with BC pills... proof supplied by more than a couple of friends!

If you don't get a hammer to pound into his big head that he'll SOON be raising brats that always come before his little head demands/needs/wishes forever on, his little head will continue to rule the bedroom... not you... not his big head.

If you choose NO BABY
then something else has to give!
At least 2 ... and better 3 BC protections need always to be in place in order to have any kind of lock on the baby door

[Jager66]

You are both being idiots. Relying on pull out to prevent pregnancy is almost certainly going to end up with you being pregnant.

Just go to your doctor and get and IUD, they last 5-10 years and come in hormonal and non hormonal types. Are two trips to the doctor, one to get an IUD put in and 1 trip later to have it removed when you no longer want it, really worse than ending up with a bunch of babies you don't want?

[Alan180188]

there is an old myth that says: the only moment which a man loses full control of his mind and can go insane if something happen during it is when he orgasm !
the secret of the pullout is to think of cumming and concentrate so you keep focused and pullout in time otherwise you'll flow with the pleasure and lose full control of your mind ! ... best solution is : finish him before even starting sex or push him to be exited by making special noises and touches then get off him fast and give him a fast hand job till he finishes !
of course I would've suggest fake pregnancy prank but it will destroy the relationship!

[bubbakong2006]

Nothing feels like cumming inside a pussy he enjoys yours

[Nomad69]

Their is spermicide and thin condoms. Let him go bareback to get hard then put a condom on to cum, problem solved!

[Kuraj]

It means natural selection, as in nature is telling you to not select that retard.