Guys, he's hard, but doesn't want sex?

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So there has been many times when my husband gets hard in bed, but doesn't want sex. Has there been times when you get hard, you're able to have sex, but you just dont feel like having sex? Do you always want sex when you get an erection? Do you get an erection when you fantasie about a woman? I feel like he does, thats why he gets hard. Like he would stare at the ceiling and get hard. I know because i always put my arms around him, and his penis bump into my arm. I am also feeling like he's not sexually attracted to me anymore.

I also have another question, he used to tell he that he wants me everynight. But he doesn't ever give me sex every night. Maybe like 3 times a week or even 4 times a month. And he secretly watches porn.
Guys, he's hard, but doesn't want sex?
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