Have you tried alternating having her sucking, licking and stroking your cock with you stroking your cock yourself for a bit? Have her suck and lick for awhile, then you do some stroking, then have her suck and lick for awhile again, etc and alternate like that. When you're near ready to cumming, she puts her head back and opens her mouth wide. You stroke your cock and cum into her mouth. She swallows the cum, then sucks and licks your cock clean. My husband I do that all the time and I think it's great. Try that and see if it works for you.
I've been with guys like this. Even though I'd say my blowjob skills are 9/10 some guys I guess can't come from oral alone. Nothing to be ashamed of though, not cumming from oral isn't the worst thing in the world. If you can cum during sex you're all good baby
My boyfriend is the same. He doesn't like the thought of it and it doesn't stimulate him. I don't mind, because we do know what works for us - hand jobs and plain sex.
I sometimes can only cum from masterbation. It took a long time before I could cum inside my wife. Bottom line is you are normal. I spent years having girls suck my nipples while I rubbed myself off because that's what worked for me.. And girls didn't care. Whatever you need just tell your partner that and it will be fine. And if not then they are not right for you.
The unspoken truth about blowjobs is what she does with her hands are basically as important as what she does with her mouth. The rubbing-while-sucking thing is so, everything. You know, porn-style. One of literally the few things that are accurately mirrored from porn-to-IRL in my opinion.
It just seems that even when its hand + mouth I can't get close unless she stops with mouth and goes only hand for a bit then goes back. I have no problem cumming in her mouth (I do everytime) but it always has to be put back in her mouth to cum, it's ever in their when I tell her I'm going to cum. Know what I mean?
Ya consistency on her part is key
I'm confused, sounds like you're not having any problem at all. But if you are, just taking charge and telling her what to do, how to do it and when to do it should take care of it. I mean, when you get close, start being her director and make fast with the directions. If she's at all submissive like I am, she'll love it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It seems kinda normal that not all guys come from blow job. My husband used to think he couldn’t come from blow job but I proved him wrong one day and now he comes pretty easily from them. But it took years before he came the first time
I did cum from a blowjob but she was sucking me for like 15-25 minutes while I was driving her home. I have never came from a hand job and only cam twice from sex, usually she says I'm done or it hurts and I just stop.
It means they're not sucking your dick well enough
Some guys just happen that they unable to cum just from a bj. I have had a boyfriend like this and he needed intercourse to cum but my recent boyfriend is fine by just a bj. You aren't the minority. Look at the poll lol
Same, I've never cum from a blowjob
I Would Say She Is Not That Good At It, She Is Not Hitting Your Pleasure Spot When She Sucks!
What is Bolwjob? is it kondom
It's when a person uses their mouth to stimulate a guys penis.
Oral sex?
İs it same thing
I'm the same, I can't cum from just a blowjob
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