Scared of Cowgirl sex position... help?

[Anonymous]

hey everyone so i was talking to this girl about sex and she brought up the fact that her fav positions is cowgirl and reverse cowgirl (mind you, this is a old friend of mine, happily in the friendzone and she has BF). being a virgin, later that day when watching some amateur porn i often saw that the penis slid out of the vagina and they always had to re-adjust. watched a couple more vids, and it seemed to happen again. So i started wondering, how common is it that when it slides out and she sits back down again, the penis isn't properly inserted and it can literally break/snap due to the weight on it, and the penis being bent. so i searched this issue up and saw that it isn't as uncommon as i thought it would. the thought of it terrifies me. being a virgin and having no experience, the thought of doing cowgirl and the fact that i need her to be extra careful just lingers on my mind. sorry to mention but i dont even have a big size, jus below 6 inches, so its not like she has a lot to work with, so im thinking that when she rides it up and down, my penis will be close to sliding out and she is moving upwards. the thought of it slipping out and her accidentally sitting on it or her bouncing up and down fast and rough ... ahh its annoying me. so yeah, this isn't a troll thread or anything. just want some advice on how i can handle this and if its ever come across your mind and what not. maybe there isn't much up and down movement from her, maybe she just sits and rocks backwards and forwards? i dont know, im a rookie to all this... thanks guys

[theus]

I would first like to say I lost my virginity in the cowgirl position. I loved that position to this day. I am rather endowed but anyone can slip out if the woman gets to carried away. If you slip out its not your fault she is in the drivers seat in this position... A cowgirl position allows the guy to have a relaxed orgasm and they can be very intense.. There is also something about looking up and a beautiful woman and thinking wow this feels so good. Its also easier for a woman to get themselves off in this position. If you have never had sex it may take you a while to build up the stamina to withstand cumming instantly.. All positions have are wonderful for different reasons... Take your time enjoy life and don't rush that moment.

[NJ_Casanova]

Sliding out in cowgirl? that sounds more like doggy.. cowgirl should be the least like position for that to happen.

As your a virgin that would be the best for you as the girl is in control and can do the work. Size also doesn't have to be big in this position as she can grind her clit on you and get off.

[Danburry_elect]

I have cowgirl/reverse cowgirl a TON and my dick is happy and healthy... Like the internet you can't believe everything you get from porn my friend

[Asker]

search up abella anderson breaks cock. sorry lol. that is exactly my fear. a little wrong move and bam, you could be crying. am i overthinking things? how much thurst and up and down movement is there in that postion

[Danburry_elect]

You are overthinking things - as a virgin you are somewhat scared of sex or hesitant or both but believe me busting your cock during cowgirl is RARE if it even happens at all

[ConsultantIsBack]

just do reverse missionary (she facing her while on top) in the meantime until you two figure it out together. Plus, it's better anyways in my opinion.

[Dimmu]

Not every girl can please you in that position
If she did I think she has much cock riding

[Anonymous]

Yeah I know what you mean. I'm never okay with vigorous cowgirl/reverse cowgirl. I always want it slow just to avoid such a thing from happening. Those positions are the most common ones that cause penile fracture because the girl is in control. Which sucks cause I like it when the girl is in control.