Is it okay to send nudes to my boyfriend?

My boyfriend is a soldier and now he's at Afghanistan for more five months. I was thinking about sending nudes to him but I don't want to surprise him in the wrong way... like, I don't want him to think i'm a slut? I know this might sound stupid and I do trust him but he knows I'm a virgin and I want to keep it like this until we marry. I don't want him to question or doubt about myself...
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  • I know many couples do this, but in your case it could seem odd considering you and him haven't been sexual together yet. There's a reason you're waiting until marriage, right? If you're that unsure of how he'd react, maybe you don't know him well enough to do it yet.

    FYI, sending pics to the one guy you love isn't slutty. Sending them to lots of other guys is.

  • No

    because you never know if you'll split up and if he'll, in spite, put them on the internet

    • actually I wasn't talking about send them online since he's not allowed to have a phone there... but I see your point

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yea, marry the guy who thinks a virgin is a slut for wanting to surprise her fiancé with dirty pictures, sounds like a real catch.

  • If you guys break up every single guy he is with will see those pictures. It happens all of the time here.

  • It might give him the wrong impression of what to expect when he gets back.

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  • It is the thought that counts. Don't forget "I miss you and I can't wait until you are back..." and so forth.

  • It's safe if you have had sexual flirty texting before

  • I think he would love them. A nice way to show him your thinking of him and to get his mind of things there.

  • Bikini shots?

    • no...

    • Why they're not immoral but they still remind him of you.

    • I was talking about full naked photos

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  • Its not a big deal. Maybe he'll love it. Sending nudes kinda makes him you trust him completely!

  • No you are not a slut... You are sending them to your boyfriend only.. Someone you love and not sending them to some random guy..
    So it's OK

  • if you are afraid he might think you're a slut (I doubt he will but okay...) then start with some sexy pics but not nudes and depending on his reaction go further

    but... be aware that your relationship might end one day and you might not be friends after that... think about if you really wanna send nudes to a person

  • i guess dont do it

  • Don't do it but send him some pictures of u & support him by sincere words.

  • ask if he is comfortable with it first then send them if he says yes.

  • Talk to him, sexting if you do.. then just chuck it...

  • Normally I would just say yes of course and it's an important way to stay connected long distance.

    That's probably the case here as well but given what you said maybe you want to suggest the idea and see what he says.

  • Why do you have this all sudden urge to send nudes when he didn't ask for it anyway?

  • Go for it