Reasons why guys facefuck girls?

Okay so why would a guy thrust/facefuck me? Is it i'm too slow? Poor technique? Do guys sense submissivness? Im kinda wondering its happened to me a few times with a few guys i dont particular find it degrading or anything im more curious as to my blowjobs being bad i guess. I've had compliments so i can be all bad. What do you think? And girls has it happened to you? Did you ask him? How do you feel about it?
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  • Honestly, I think it's virtually impossible to be bad at it, unless the guy is a canon, you're being forced and biting the guy, etc.
    Reading some comments on this website sometimes you might start believing you need to go to college and get yourself a degree...
    Compliments serve to encourage the other person or getting them in the mood.

    That being said, my boyfriend has never done it to me. I noticed him caughting himself and stopping midway a couple of times though he usually just lets me do as I please.

    Maybe it depends on how the guy views sex and views you.

    • So do you think he views me with little respect?

    • Either that or he thinks you like it (probaby not), or he is one of those guys that down the line will be asking for anal and all sorts of things because he thinks you have the obligation to please him. Which is a blurry line with lack of respect, in my own view. But different people like different things. Some girls like it rough too.

    • Asker: He's not disrespecting you. The more a guy wants to try stuff with you, the more he's into you and cant' get enough of you. Think about it. If he didn't like you, he'd just go some place else. A guy is disrespecting you if he doesn't appreciate your body and never wants to make love.

  • I think they're just highly into it and are happy that you enjoy it. If you're able to do it, I think that's great. Personally I'd be gagging or worse. I don't think it's at all degrading either. I'm submissive and enjoy everything just short of being face fucked or throated. I've just never been able to do that deep throat stuff.

    • Thank you for not being judgmental. I guess i do like it as i can deepthroat pretty well and so i can enjoy it worry free. Its not necessary to have to deepthroat though i'm Sure do a great job

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  • Sub/dom aside, it could purely be a pleasure thing. Men have a natural instinct to thrust. The deeper he cums, the more likely his partner will get pregnant and the better it feels for him. The mouth and throat is a delicate area though. There's the gag reflex and your neck can only move so fast. Technique isn't a problem, it's that a guy's hips can move much faster and harder than your head can. It's as simple as that. It felt better for him. Don't think too deeply about it.

  • I feel like it's about dominance. Some sexually dominant men like to test her limits and one way to do that is facefucking. That said, kink starts, and much more importantly, STOPS with the consent of the sub. If you don't want to do it, don't.

    Do you consider yourself sexually submissive?

    • Yeah i am but sometimes like to be in control too Thank you for answering

    • It was my pleasure. You're what we call a switch so hopefully your current or future guys will be switches as well.

    • Thanks for the MHG!

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  • He's trying too kill you
    Save your self before its too late:/ wish you the best

  • It's a control thing.. that they want to be dominant. Or they have a BDSM side to them and like being excessively rough.

  • With a facefuck, the guy is more in a rush to orgasm.
    There's nothing wrong with your blowjob technique, unless your contact with his penis is so light he just isn't feeling it and thus can't ejaculate.
    The other point is, guys like to try different stuff. Facefucking just gives another option to spice things up instead of always doing the same thing.

  • The little head became in charge of the big head and can't wait to spurt
    + the sensation of using your body w/o your objections is a similar turnon to role-play-rape
    In fact, I was surprised to find my GF/wife always in control type... loves this when in lust

  • guys watch too much porn XD also you can move a head much faster by using your two hands than she can move it on her own, i guess.

  • A person's fetish is about them not you

  • Because leaving a chick gasping for air on the couch in a mess of drool, tears and cum is one of the greatest experiences of a man's life.

  • It's about how far a girl can go to please her man

  • because it turns them on, has nothing to do with you

  • I think it is more of a dominance thing than a reflection of your bj skills

  • Let me preface by saying I've never had a bj before. Face fucking seems very gross to me. Like the dumb shit you see in porn no one actually does.
    Tip: The most sensitive part of the penis is the rim of the head. Focus pleasing the head then anything else.

  • Must be a control thing. I myself don't like doing that.


  • On some occasions, we men want to feel powerful with our penis and I think that by fucking a girl in the face we can show it. As long as the girl is excited by the idea of being used, it is a sexual practice that requires a lot of confidence and empathy. It is true that the girl is the protagonist and the one who is fucked in the face, but the man must also know how to do it correctly.

  • why dont you ask the person we dont know whats going on in their head

  • its about dominance. by dominating sluts. i fuck her in every hole she's got. i fuck her however i want. because you are fuckmeat to us. that's the answer to your question.

  • if she like it it would be so great
    especially the sound she makes and the cum drolling down on her mouth

  • My husband likes the sound and look. Sure it feels good too. You're not bad, if it means anything it's that you're good. A lot of girls can't take it.

  • Some amount of thrusting can be accidental - when things get really pleasurable our brain shuts down and instincts take over.

  • I think it mostly has to do with dominance. Women generally don't act like they enjoy it, so a woman that lets him do it, basically puts his desires over her own, coming across as submissive. This is why you will never hear a female dom ordering her man to face fuck her. It puts him in control over her body, not the other way around. Likewise female doms don't order men to fuck her up the ass either, once again because it is seen as an act of dominance on his part, making her the submissive.

  • I find it more exciting. It's not exactly a better feeling, more a more intense experience.

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